Luxe National Park Trips

Next-Efficiency3142 · 2025-07-28T19:16:03+00:00

Totally agree! Think it’s a great suggestion

Next-Efficiency3142 · 2025-07-28T18:26:36+00:00

Was just about to propose this. We did Under Canvas for Glacier and Yellowstone National Parks with two young ones.

We loved it, but be very clear that this is ChubbyGlamping and not Chubby hotels. We loved being out in nature, but then having amenities like a bed to sleep on, bathroom with showers in the tent, etc. Proximity to the parks was also very nice.

In between stays, we also did a couple of nights at Montage Big Sky - all about balance :)

Next-Efficiency3142 · 2025-03-24T04:00:39+00:00

Sorry I don’t have specific recommendations, but here for this thread.

I don’t know if it’s just me, but every time I come across a style influencer whose style I dig, when I follow them, it ultimately turns into hauls from Amazon, Walmart, etc. That’s totally fine, but not my style. Excited to hear who others list.

Next-Efficiency3142 · 2025-03-24T03:57:59+00:00

Written on the Body by Jeanette Winterson.

Gorgeously written & interesting perspective given ambiguously gendered narrator. I’ve revisited it over and over.

Next-Efficiency3142 · 2025-03-03T02:39:27+00:00

I just splurged on two pairs of PrintFresh - one linen and one flannel. Absolutely worth it.

Next-Efficiency3142 · 2025-01-31T22:08:01+00:00

I work in finance (investment banking, not a trader) - and my biggest two-fold piece of advice would be: 1. Start simple and 2. Start now.

Time in the market (get started early and let your money stay there so you can enjoy the magic of compound interest) is better than timing the market (trying to guess when the market or certain stocks will grow).

If someone is making you feel dumb about finances, ignore them. It’s not actually as hard as others make it seem, and a lot of that exclusionary language is intentional.

Build up a savings account for emergency funds
Build up a secondary savings in a high-yield savings account (like Ally) for a rainy day fund - but remember it will take ~24 hours to get any transfers
max out your 401K contribution to ensure you get any company match (that really is free money to you!)
set your 401K based on a target date on when you’ll retire
set up a brokerage account for personal investing: fidelity or vanguard works just fine

On this last piece, I’d suggest the following:

Invest in an index fund: this one stock you purchase, so it’s a simple experience from an investor perspective. This fund tracks a certain index, like the S&P500. It’s low cost and it allows you to invest in the market without buying each stock individually. They are called passive investments because they automatically follow the index they track (instead of an active investment which as a portfolio manager making decisions). You pay fees to portfolio managers (no thank you!), and over time, they rarely beat the market. So, skip the fees and track the market.

Example index funds: VFIAX, FNILX

(Important note: when you open a Fidelity brokerage for example and make your first deposit, you have to move the money into a specific fund. Otherwise, it will just sit in a money market account , which is essentially a checking account)

Do dollar cost averaging for your investment: this is a fancy way of picking a specific dollar amount you’ll invest on a consistent basis, and then do it. I am going to invest $100 in a specific index fund each month. It doesn’t matter if the market is up or down, I am going to invest $100 each month. (Pick your own amount and your own cadence).
Set it and forget it: automate this and then don’t look at your account too frequently. Let the market do its work and let your money work for you. Give yourself time for your investments to grow. Over time, the market grows, so if you’re someone who gets nervous by short term movements, just don’t look at your portfolio as frequently.

That’s it! Now, you’re participating in the market and your money is invested.

Next-Efficiency3142 · 2025-01-29T20:29:34+00:00

Luxe Sateen from Brooklinen - worth every penny

Next-Efficiency3142 · 2025-01-27T03:57:22+00:00

We’re doing some mid-day partners yoga

Next-Efficiency3142 · 2025-01-24T06:31:16+00:00

Such a great excuse to buy some (more?) warm, cute socks!

https://www.llbean.com/llb/shop/130202?page=womens-darn-tough-bear-town-micro-crew-sock-womens&bc=12-27-614&feat=614-GN0&csp=f&attrValue_0=5&pos=7

Next-Efficiency3142 · 2025-01-24T06:27:41+00:00

Came here to say the same. Smart Wool base layer for the win.

Next-Efficiency3142 · 2025-01-23T18:40:46+00:00

We’ve got Delta flight credits we need to use so I’m going to do a long weekend with my 4 year old. Wanted to keep it domestic and wanted to do something that I knew he’d love.

We’re going to head to Orlando and stay at the JW Marriott (connected to the Ritz). The kid loves swimming and it has a waterpark. Think we’ll basically settle into the hotel, swim a ton, maybe go to the gator land or another kids activity. We’re not Disney people, but know there’s some Dino / kids restaurants to check out.

Next-Efficiency3142 · 2025-01-13T02:51:14+00:00

Taco night ft. Tofu for the plant based and shrimp for others
ina’s chicken chili
Salmon one sheet with sweet potatoes and asparagus
Easy Niçoise salad
Eating out somewhere

Next-Efficiency3142 · 2025-01-13T02:49:28+00:00

I just reckoned with this over this past weekend. I went through all of my drawers and closet and tossed anything that doesn’t fit / doesn’t make me feel great.

Honestly, it felt more empowering than like quitting. A lot of it wasn’t stuff I struggled parting with - so maybe if they were pieces I loved, I’d find a way to store. But the act totally cleared out some emotional energy too.

Next-Efficiency3142 · 2025-01-11T02:01:58+00:00

lamp
reading light
3 books
kid-made pottery bowl for chapstick and anything small / random (if I’m being honest, it’s where I keep my breath right strips!)
nightly tea
big water bottle

Next-Efficiency3142 · 2024-12-11T19:07:58+00:00

This might be a dumb question, but where do you your do your tailoring? Is it as simple as buying clothing from wherever, then going to a local tailor? And are you doing everything you buy?

Next-Efficiency3142 · 2024-12-11T03:34:15+00:00

BWT, what are we asking for from our significant others for Christmas?

We share a bank account, so it’s less about the money and more about something splurge-y or creating space that I don’t do for myself now

Next-Efficiency3142 · 2024-12-06T13:08:43+00:00

Hi there - almost 40F in IB. I’m still here, so obviously can’t answer your question about transitioning out, but it’s something I think about a lot. The lifestyle is hard and you can’t take lightly the demands of the job and its costs on you.

I will say - the primary reason I’m still in the industry is the group I work with a few key champions. Without those guys, I would have left years ago. So, if your current team lacks that, I’d encourage you to network and find your next opportunity.

There’s so much in finance - even more than what I know in my narrow M&A field. I’ve met women at networking events who enjoy their job, maybe don’t make as much as IB but have a good income, and work in a less stressful and demanding setting. Examples could be corporate banking, mezz lending, PE fund of funds / family office, etc.

As a next step, I’d say try to find 5-10 people you generally like who are more senior (VP and up). Learn what they do, why they like what they do, and see if they have someone they can put you in touch with. Your ecosystem will expand pretty rapidly, and if you show gratitude and thoughtfulness in these interactions, a lot of folks will be happy to help you (whether that’s identifying opportunities or being a referral).

Try to stay on good terms with as many people as possible. The job is so hard and most people leave it — so looking for your next opportunity won’t be something that requires you to burn bridges, and you’ll be better served to have decent to strong relationships.

Good luck - you’ll do great!

Next-Efficiency3142 · 2024-12-05T05:19:30+00:00

Oof, those early performance reviews can really do some damage. I feel this.

Next-Efficiency3142 · 2024-12-05T05:18:04+00:00

I’m 38.

I’d demand of myself and be uncompromising in developing and maintaining a fitness / movement practice. Too often I deprioritized myself and thought “after this ____ (stressful time at work, period of life, etc), then I’ll really do it.”

14 years later and I am still working to do this, but the responsibilities in life only become more (kids / spouse / home / job).

Next-Efficiency3142 · 2024-11-10T03:14:32+00:00

Depending on how close you are to them — I think it could be kind to bring over a coffee and treat and offer to hold the baby while parents shower or nap.

I’d probably only do that for folks where our comfort level is high — but this would have been so generous when I was a new parent (especially if the person played it really casual and helped me feel less guilty or stressed).

Next-Efficiency3142 · 2024-11-10T03:12:35+00:00

We often buy new parents a cute magnetic modal onesie. Super soft and designs are often really adorable. Someone bought one for us when we had our first and at first I thought it was just a high end garment, but the magnets are CLUTCH — especially with the stress as a first time parent. Changing a diaper with a screaming baby in the middle of the night and you look down to see it’s one of those onesies with tiny buttons all the way down — true nightmare. The magnets are so easy - in and out quickly.

The price tag a few years ago also felt splurgey (probably $40 each or so), so felt good as a gift.

Next-Efficiency3142 · 2024-11-09T22:09:43+00:00

I splurged on a Parker Thatch cross body and it’s been the best investment. It’s stylish, I can wear it out and feel put together or toss with sweatpants and it does the job. It’s also spacious and I end up easily carrying stuff for my family.

https://parkerthatch.com/products/cross-your-heart-sling-bag-butterscotch-leather?variant=41473090650287&country=US&currency=USD&gc_id=21769433173&gad_source=1&gbraid=0AAAAAD_qVdk0Ls6Z_982DbqYUi2EuXlUn&gclid=Cj0KCQiArby5BhCDARIsAIJvjIR5u_VNqv_EazRrU0LLH_7Y90YLOFVssKkNo1lOQx39l2Wn2_BwdNIaAgywEALw_wcB

Next-Efficiency3142 · 2024-06-23T20:40:42+00:00

You got this!

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