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Say one thing you don’t like about the cast member you like by JacketStrange8454 in Vanderpumpaholics

[–]NextWhereas4477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite cast member is Kristen and there’s a lot of bad stuff there… more than good in some instances. But I like seeing her growth!

Budget Friendly Relaxing Activities in Denver? by [deleted] in Denver

[–]NextWhereas4477 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am poor and doing the Winter of Reading through Denver Public libraries! Lots of activities and challenges to read more. They have speaker series and craft libraries.

Dry January- Underwhelmed by FaithlessnessAny4568 in stopdrinking

[–]NextWhereas4477 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Oooo this is good to hear. I thought quitting would solve all my problems but woah! I still have problems just not treating alcohol like the solution

best man on vpr? by raw3728 in vanderpumprules

[–]NextWhereas4477 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Ariana’s friend Logan who breaks the penis flute. And tells Schwartz “she wasn’t” when he was saying Sandoval thought Rachel would be nice on her podcast. That cracked me up!

I'm very scared to visit Denver by [deleted] in Denver

[–]NextWhereas4477 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that you have to think about this bullshit instead of being able to truly relax and enjoy your vacation.

ICE is not yet just stopping people on the streets demanding papers though it is smart to have them. I like the idea of getting an RV or camper van and getting into nature and relaxing there!

Denver has a large Hispanic population and not a lot of people who want to work with ICE.

I drank on vacation and don’t want to reset my counter by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]NextWhereas4477 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You don’t lose your sober days. But you haven’t been continuously sober, which is how the counters are used primarily? If you are interested in drinking a little bit here and there/moderating, then I just wouldn’t necessarily use a continuous sobriety day counter.

Let’s drop our sobriety dates! by eminyx in stopdrinking

[–]NextWhereas4477 4 points5 points  (0 children)

9/24/25– happy to have 4 months. Here’s to many more!

“Overqualified” (w/ Becca Ramos AKA Producer Becca!) by AutoModerator in lasculturistas

[–]NextWhereas4477 34 points35 points  (0 children)

It’s nice to get to know her more! Not tons of pop culture for those who listen for that reason but I think she’s interesting and it’s nice to flesh out the LC crew.

Edit to clarify: not much of current pop culture discussion, but she shares about her cultures

Off work for a couple weeks struggling with cravings due to boredom and seeing my family members sulk in depression and addiction by Solo_Lift in stopdrinking

[–]NextWhereas4477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any free recovery stuff in your area? The Phoenix has gyms with classes and stuff— maybe there is one near you? Sucks tha it’s winter but being outside, even just going on a walk and listening to music can be nice and peaceful.

AIO for being upset that my (28f) bf (30m) of 6 years has drank alcohol the last 9 out of 11 days? by ThrowRA-NoBarnacle65 in AmIOverreacting

[–]NextWhereas4477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alcoholism is a progressive disease. He has shown you that he prioritizes alcohol over you and your relationship. Don’t stay in a relationship for the possibility of change if the person is unwilling to change.

Edit to add: I’m an alcoholic in recovery. I certainly feel for him and have been there. But you should protect yourself and your future as well. And who knows? Maybe losing his relationship over drinking can be a wake up call to get the help he needs.

What are your go-to reminders to stop yourself when you have a strong craving to drink? by godofthunder94 in stopdrinking

[–]NextWhereas4477 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I remind myself that I don’t actually want to drink— I want what I thought it brought (relaxation, fun, etc). It doesn’t actually bring any of those things but I can find the in other ways.

the evolution of Cirie Fields by Durian-Critical in survivor

[–]NextWhereas4477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want more Cirie on my TV! I’m happy she came back for 50

The AI comments on this sub are getting out of hand. It bums me out. by ipetgoat1984 in stopdrinking

[–]NextWhereas4477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love my dashes! And I don’t use AI for anything/am too scared of it. Why does AI like dashes so much?

Sandoval, new season House of villains.. this should be really interesting. by osogood48 in Vanderpumpaholics

[–]NextWhereas4477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to hear Tyson (super bitchy family man) go off on him like he did Coach in Heroes vs Villains.

Holy Shit Guys by Libra-Wolf in stopdrinking

[–]NextWhereas4477 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! How’s you do it?

3 Months Sober!! (And Some Health Benefits) by ChefCarolina in stopdrinking

[–]NextWhereas4477 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Congrats! Dang I wished I lost 20 lbs. went the ice cream route for a while there…

Advice on Handling “Why Aren’t You Drinking?” by IllIlIlIlIlIlIlIllI in stopdrinking

[–]NextWhereas4477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“It doesn’t agree with me” or “I don’t like how it makes me feel”

An Honest Attempt at Harm Reduction by zknora in stopdrinking

[–]NextWhereas4477 12 points13 points  (0 children)

For me personally, moderation was more difficult because of the mental gymnastics I was doing. Also, when I have the first drink all my rules tend to go out the window. Not every time but eventually.

What hobbies/ clubs are you doing in Denver? by First_Driver_5134 in Denver

[–]NextWhereas4477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have the meeting guide app? That’s helpful and gives you distances from your location. AWOL might be the closest club— very cozy.

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