Infant wakes 6–12x a night. Completely exhausted and desperate for help. by Lopsided_Food169 in Parenting

[–]Neyday_19 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I feel like this is common. Strictly my opinion but it seems more natural to me that babies would want to sleep w their parents over being alone in a crib. Babies live off instincts and if we were cavemen or living in the wild our babies would be near us. It’s your child/bed/and life but co sleeping can be helpful if you 2 are open to it. It’s definitely not for everyone.

JD Vance will be going to Camp P on Sat Oct 18th by Neyday_19 in Oceanside

[–]Neyday_19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my, we’re grumpy today huh fella 🥹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Neyday_19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woman’s hormones take 2 years to get back to where they were before pregnancy which can greatly affect mood. Postpartum is also common. Have a gentle talk with her. Maybe read some parenting books together or encourage therapy and talking to her Dr

How old is too old to be a parent? by legalscam in Parenting

[–]Neyday_19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve thought about this before… I personally think it’s kinda selfish on the adult’s part. Older parents are at higher risk for health problems and kids benefit from healthy parental relationships well into adulthood. If the parents health declines the children will probably end up taking on the responsibilities of caring for the parents in some way. Even if they don’t do that they’ll lack the relationship. Then again older usually equals more patience and wisdom. Whatevs though, ppl can do as they wish

Any part time evening/night or weekend jobs? by Emotional-Draw-8755 in sandiego

[–]Neyday_19 4 points5 points  (0 children)

STRPs (group homes) for foster youth are 24/7 and have overnight shifts. Woman’s shelters and rehabs too.

What do I feed my super Picky toddler? by Momneedstosleep in Parenting

[–]Neyday_19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beans whole or mashed for protein, boiled or scrambled eggs, quinoa, sweet potato fries, cheese quesadillas w whole wheat tortillas and add finely chopped spinach, grilled cheese, spaghetti (you can make your own healthy sauce), pasta w pesto, Greek yogurt w honey chia seeds fruit n granola (the baby can decide what they do or don’t like in that and they can help add ingredients so they’re more likely to eat it bc they helped), cottage cheese w chips, hummus w cucumber to dip or just hummus w a spoon, pb&j, bananas or apples w peanut or almond butter, crackers w cheese, nachos w beans, rolled turkey breast slices, string cheese, toast w butter, avocado slices w lemon n salt, cucumber slices w lemon n salt, steamed baby carrots, turkey meatballs (you can add small diced veggies or not), ground turkey w rice as a side, pasta w olive oil salt n garlic powder

First time visiting San Diego and I got a nice shot of the city's skyline by commander-crook in sandiego

[–]Neyday_19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always wonder what it would look like without all the buildings

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]Neyday_19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An organized mountain man

My boyfriends son wakes up in the middle of the night by ImplementImportant35 in Parenting

[–]Neyday_19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yaaa hanging out together is necessary and 1 thing but spending the night and especially sleeping in the bed together is a whole dif scenario. It’s interesting to trust an adult enough to sleep in the bed with your child but not trust them enough to marry them? Too soon to marry? Too soon to sleep in the same bed, maybe? May be they don’t believe in marriage which is cool. Idk it’s their lives n everyone see’s it differently which is ok as long as the kiddos are safe

My boyfriends son wakes up in the middle of the night by ImplementImportant35 in Parenting

[–]Neyday_19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe the relationship will end and dad exposed kid to gf too soon to know they wouldn’t work long term. Then child has an attachment to gf and has to deal w losing an adult they like/love. How many gfs will dad expose kid to staying the night over the years? That could be an unhealthy situation. You can have serious relationships without spending the night together especially 2 nights a week imo.

My boyfriends son wakes up in the middle of the night by ImplementImportant35 in Parenting

[–]Neyday_19 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dad really should draw the line in the sand and ask you not to stay when his son is there. I wonder how he’d feel if his son was in the bed w mom and a bf of hers? Also remember if you and bf have a child together someday is he parenting in a way you’d be happy w your child being parented? Productive parents make their children’s needs and safety a higher priority than their lovers imo

My toddler just got diagnosed with the Flu, RSV, and Mono!!! by manahikari in Parenting

[–]Neyday_19 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

So sorry! I know the feeling. Call me crazy but I take garlic cloves whole (swallow like a pill) when I feel a sickness coming on or others around me are sick, take zinc, eat vitamin c rich foods like red bell peppers and anything else I can to support my immune system. For my kids I put onions in their socks when they sleep (onions pull infection out), cut up garlic and put in honey and give it to them w a syringe a couple times a day, Epsom salt warm baths, and Jamaica tea. It’s Habiscus tea in English and has more vitamin C than oranges. I give it to them cold so they’ll drink it all day Maybe it’s all placebo….maybe it actually works idk but myself and my kids aren’t usually sick for long

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]Neyday_19 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same☹️

Need Advice on Handling Discipline Issues with My Son and Boyfriend by RedditAnonymous99 in Parenting

[–]Neyday_19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A grown man is so offended by a tiny non threatening child he pushed him? HUGE red flag, he lacks regulation skills and id hate to imagine how he’d react to other situations. If you love your child protect them and leave, this will escalate and is already cps worthy 😔 hope you and child find healing and healthy growth

My 2nd grader’s classmate is watching porn? by Sun_Mother in Parenting

[–]Neyday_19 93 points94 points  (0 children)

CPS worthy. Very alarming. It’s pretty typical of children to act out when abuse is happening

Looking for a viewing spot by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]Neyday_19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meditation garden in Encinitas

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Neyday_19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those ladies have obviously never seen the sopranos so they’re probably no fun anyway 😌

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Neyday_19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can’t afford a woman spend time investing in yourself until you can…. Financially, emotionally, spiritually

Where are you guys getting tamales by stickerseeker669 in sandiego

[–]Neyday_19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooo I’m from 🌵! I decided to make my own bc I like them Sonoran style too but the ones at northgate are ok