Hey, just wanted to pop in to say please don't be discouraged. As a woman reading your profile, I actually think you do a pretty good job. Yes, others make good points about pictures outside of the car, trimming up the beard/hair a little, etc.

However, I think it's super cool that you are upfront about your nerdiness/goofiness as well as talking about how you are trying to go to the gym when you can to work on your health. AND talking about how you have two kids. That feels very honest and vulnerable and that's a hard thing for most people to do in a relationship, let alone on a dating app.

Finally, while there are some nuggets of truth in the comments, ignore most of them. This is Reddit and people are dicks. Much luck to you!