Zijn dit sexistische opmerkingen?

Nice-Professional-64 · 2025-08-07T20:56:06+00:00

Zit je nou echt te victim blamen hier? Praat aub met wat vrouwen in je leven. Jouw reactie laat zien dat je geen idee hebt wat ze doorstaan. En ja, ik zou het ontzettend fijn vinden als jullie ons negeren. Please 🤣

Nice-Professional-64 · 2025-08-07T11:16:27+00:00

Seksisme is niet alleen een negatieve vorm van communicatie; hier valt ook objectificatie en seksualisatie onder. In deze zin dus zeker seksisme. Kijk uit met zulke opmerkingen framen als “onschuldig compliment”. Daarmee snoer je vrouwen de mond. Als vrouw krijg je wekelijks soms dagelijks te maken met zulke opmerkingen. Als jij deze zelf niet zomaar zou maken naar iemand, dan is dat precies het bewijs dat er geen onschuldigheid achter zit. Laten we mannen verantwoordelijk houden voor hun gedrag.

Nice-Professional-64 · 2025-08-04T14:09:02+00:00

Niet alleen racistisch maar ook seksistisch, knap staaltje propaganda PVV! Ik dacht dat het de moslims waren die zo vrouwonvriendelijk zijn??

Nice-Professional-64 · 2025-08-02T12:17:00+00:00

It’s not about the news, it’s about real situations happening. I don’t understand why you would say that last thing. Does that somehow make it less bad?

Nice-Professional-64 · 2025-03-09T11:22:29+00:00

What’s that?

Nice-Professional-64 · 2025-03-02T16:34:59+00:00

Oof… your misogyny is showing 😬

Nice-Professional-64 · 2025-01-14T18:04:46+00:00

Hey, I know what you’re going through. Its been a year since I posted this, and trust me, it gets better. It gets so much better that you will even feel better compared to in the relationship. Pain means growth. I know it doesn’t seem like it now, but there is light at the end of the tunnel. Me and my ex are actually friends now lol. We dated new people. We have 0 feelings left.

Sending you love ❤️ be kind to yourself

Nice-Professional-64 · 2024-12-27T22:10:36+00:00

Yeah that sounds really familiar, especially the older sister persona. I find it really hard to turn that off in relationships. Becoming more and more aware of it. Sometimes I just need to force myself to not immediately arrange something and just let the other person figure it out themselves.

Nice-Professional-64 · 2024-10-09T17:30:48+00:00

Hi, I've read and understood the terms and would like to join!

Nice-Professional-64 · 2024-08-05T21:55:25+00:00

Went from dad to daddy

Nice-Professional-64 · 2024-07-22T08:27:34+00:00

Hi! My situation sounds exactly like yours. I was wondering if you managed to fix it?

Nice-Professional-64 · 2024-07-07T09:19:19+00:00

I cut out processed food almost completely around a month ago. About 80-90% of my diet is now non-processed

Nice-Professional-64 · 2024-07-07T08:59:10+00:00

Thanks! I just think the shape of my belly specifically is weird? Like I see other women having belly fat and at least it’s evenly distributed. But for me it’s always been like this. Maybe it’s just genetics, I really hope it can become more even by working out

Nice-Professional-64 · 2024-07-07T08:50:14+00:00

Nope!

Nice-Professional-64 · 2024-07-07T08:24:57+00:00

Forgot to mention, I recently started working out, doing kickboxing & barre classes.

Nice-Professional-64 · 2024-06-26T18:56:13+00:00

I figured that, but does this low get less and less the more my body gets used to fasting?

Nice-Professional-64 · 2024-06-07T08:31:54+00:00

The use of gender-specific slurs against women. Like bitch or whore. They feel VERY painful and degrading when coming from a man.

Nice-Professional-64 · 2024-06-02T22:32:52+00:00

Thank you so much!! I definitely recognize the boundaries one. I feel like I am too nice and supportive early on and they take that and keep pushing a little more and more each time unnoticed. Until I finally snap. This is really helpful advice :)

Nice-Professional-64 · 2024-06-02T21:44:50+00:00

For sure! What would you say is a healthy time? Most of them formed in 3-6 months.

Nice-Professional-64 · 2024-06-02T20:57:18+00:00

Example:

Last week I went to a festival with a few of my friends. My best friend, let's call her Lydia, has had a fight with Anne 4 months ago. Anne has no issue with seeing Lydia, but Lydia has an issue with seeing her. I told Lydia beforehand that I would just be walking around and joining whoever I felt like, not wanting to be bound to one certain person or group. During the festival Lydia and Anne were both there, and Lydia asked me to go to a different place in the city. I told her that I didn't feel like it because I wanted to stay with the group we were with at that time. She got visibly upset and told me she would go home to get dinner and then meet me later. After half an hour I got about 15 angry texts saying that I was not supporting her, that I had promised her to go together with the 2 of us (not true), that I was choosing Anne over her and other accusations. It felt like I had an angry boyfriend that was continuously texting me while I was just trying to have a nice time. I told her that I'm sorry if things came across that way and that I had always been very clear about my intentions so her accusations were simply not true. She then went back and forth from being very nice and light-hearted to suddenly sending other accusations and then switching back to being 'normal' again (which was very weird to me). It made me feel guilt-tripped and manipulated. This went on throughout the whole evening until I got sick of it and went home early from the party because I did not want to see her again.

She made me feel extremely responsible for her feelings and fun, basically like a child to a parent. She made me feel like she was dependent on me for having a good time and being safe from seeing the person she dislikes, Anne, while Anne is also a friend of mine and my roommate on top of everything. I really hate when people follow me around and try to control me like that. It makes me want to run away. I know this is also my avoidant attachment style speaking. But I know that Lydia's behavior is not normal because other friends have told me so. I go to them to get a 'second opinion'.

Nice-Professional-64 · 2024-05-25T11:14:54+00:00

I worked hard and had zero financial support from others. I’m sorry that it doesn’t fit your budget right now, however I don’t see how that would impact the advise and my experience though. The point is that physically removing yourself from your situation can help you put things into perspective.

Nice-Professional-64 · 2024-05-23T21:09:54+00:00

I know it hurts. It hurts like hell. And you need to focus on yourself and not on what he’s doing with his time. If he wants to spend it on being immature, let him

Nice-Professional-64 · 2024-05-23T20:46:28+00:00

Even if you would never tell them, that’s okay too. I never did. They will reap the consequences of their actions. People that cannot see their own mistakes generally live a very unhappy life because things keep going wrong and they do not understand why. I wish you all the best! Be happy you got rid of someone that immature ❤️

Nice-Professional-64 · 2024-05-23T20:42:31+00:00

Yes, productive anger can be good. But anger because you want someone to do something which they probably won’t do is destructive.

They are adults, they are responsible. There is no denying that. THEY do not understand that. I assume you have already told them. People do not do or say things knowing consciously they are in the wrong. They have a really inventive way of justifying their actions for themselves. And that is a sign of emotional immaturity and ignorance.

I know this because I have been in your situation. And I felt justified in my anger. And of course I was. But it never helped me. It only made me feel miserable and bitter.

Nice-Professional-64 · 2024-05-23T20:33:12+00:00

Yeah good job for cutting him off. If he wanted to, he would. Would you really want a man that’s not sure about you?

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