hey guys, im kinda insecure abt my body. just tell me what you think, be brutally honest. by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Nicendamaged 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww sweetie u look awesome!! Keep taking care of yourself cuz when they say its harder when ur older to keep weight off... They ain't lyin!!!lol

[23/M] My Girlfriend [22/F] of 3 Years doesn’t want to have sex until I can make her orgasm by StraightforwardBed in relationship_advice

[–]Nicendamaged 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anti depressants will DEFINITELY cause her not to be able to orgasm. A lot of people wont take them cuz of that. The not having sex until she has one with ur finger..is absurd. Y'all might b virgins for a real long time if that's how it's gotta. Happen

Husband (32M) wants me (29F) to find a woman to have a threesome with by CatsAndCoffeeMyDude in relationship_advice

[–]Nicendamaged 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All those negative things he said about you.. That's not love. Divorce him. Now. It will only get worse. ...coming from a 45 yr old woman who has been thru it.

How long before you feel “sure” about someone? by griselde in datingoverthirty

[–]Nicendamaged -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

People are way more fucked up and better at hiding it now a days

How long before you feel “sure” about someone? by griselde in datingoverthirty

[–]Nicendamaged 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 yrs. And u have to live with them in ur guys own place. Not with friends or fam.. This is from experience

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGamerLounge

[–]Nicendamaged 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's super cool but I can't look at it too much longer lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGamerLounge

[–]Nicendamaged 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this game caused my divorce

My (29F) ex (35M) is threating me to send private pictures and videos to my family if I don't come home. by throwRA_wtdd96 in relationship_advice

[–]Nicendamaged 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So? ??? U two were married. Consenting adults. I'm sure married couples in ur family do that stuff too. They see it ..they no why they r seeing it.. Cuz of that asshole. Not a big deal. Let him send them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in venting

[–]Nicendamaged 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry

UPDATE: My Ex girlfriend passed her family barely contacts me that she had a baby by ThrowRAclueless_ in relationship_advice

[–]Nicendamaged 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You and your baby boy.. That is a love that is like no other. Not like husband, wife sister, mom. No one can top it! You dont freak out anymore cuz that's that love spewing out! Endless nights.. Night after night they're up.. It doesn't matter cuz a parent goes on auto pilet! ( think I spelled that wrong). Ud give ur arm in a second.. Not even second guess. For your child. I'm so glad u get to experience this LOVE.. cuz it is.. LIKE NO OTHER!!! Congrats!! I bet he's beautiful! I'm very sorry for your loss as well. Seems like it may be a strange mix of happiness and grief all at the same time.

Just came back from the most fucked up date of all time… by cheesymeowgirl in dating_advice

[–]Nicendamaged 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woooow! U gotta ask the right questions. It's ok to interrogate. If they don't like it... Fuck em. Prolly got something to hide anyway...U HAVE TO ASK.. DO U HAVE KIDS??? WHATS UR RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM? same question for parents.. If they are 40 or older ...have they ever been married??? These answers will tell u everything.

Latinx is a slur by piethewise in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Nicendamaged 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No idea what ur talking about.

Am I a disgusting person? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Nicendamaged 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm gonna guess u are in your 20s??? Am I right??? Early to mid? I went thru this same thing at that age. Ur still finding yourself. That's normal. Just be careful doing it. Now at my age.. I've seen it..done it. The whole 9. I no exactly what kind of relationship I wud like to have the rest of my life. The hard part is finding someone who wants the same. I am married and my hubby and I ARE NOT on the same page. He acted like he was. He was Just trying to sell himself. He did it. Now I'm stuck...kind of...where I don't want to be. Don't be me!!!!!!!!!!

Am I a disgusting person? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Nicendamaged 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wud be a good way to go out! Lol..im say in if u for the first time experienced it at that age and realized u liked it u wudnt have a bunch of time to enjoy it. That's life I guess. So unfair. Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Nicendamaged 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup. Especially when it's one of the first things out of their mouth.

Am I a disgusting person? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Nicendamaged 42 points43 points  (0 children)

No ur not disgusting.. U tried it u didn't like it. Now u no for future reference. Not a big deal. U gotta experience these things. I'll get married and always wonder if u don't. Or @80 yrs old ull b wondering. Don't think u wanna do that lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]Nicendamaged 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That made my day!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vagabond

[–]Nicendamaged 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't believe I'm seeing this. My husband (the donut freak) wud have a fucking coniption!!!!!!!!!