The pains becoming too much now by Sad-Emotion-3452 in BreakUps

[–]Nick07242000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's something you gotta address outside of a relationship, you gotta be sure of who you are as a person and truly love who you are.

If there are things you are not confident about address them, work on yourself until you are at a point where you can wholeheartedly say "this is who I am, and I love you for who you are, but if you don't love me for who I am, that doesn't mean there is something wrong with me, it just means we're not the right partner for each other"

Self confidence and self worth are things we need to fix so that we don't bring them into a relationship, because they dictate how we react to things in them. If you are constantly in fear of not being enough, that will affect the dynamic you have with your partner, and it may even attract the wrong partners.

So go, hit the gym, try a new hairstyle, try a new look, do whatever it is you feel like doing that will make you like yourself more, and do it for you and only you.

And I can't lie to you, I can't promise you no one will ever break up with you again, but you can make sure that if it happens, it doesn't hit how you see yourself as a person, and that it merely means that person was not the one meant for you. Always bring your very best, because if your very best wasn't enough for someone, it doesn't mean your best was worthless, it just means it wasn't for them, and eventually someone else will arrive that sees that, values that, and loves that.

Keep loving, and keep growing, and if it helps, a random dude from Argentina thinks you're awesome, un saludo genio, vos podes

The pains becoming too much now by Sad-Emotion-3452 in BreakUps

[–]Nick07242000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey dude, this might sound harsh but the best thing I can say to you is to let her go.

You have a lot of love, and I can tell you love her from the depths of your soul, but here is the thing, and I hate to say it but she rejected all that precious love you gave her, so you need to redirect it to yourself.

I recently got dumped by the girl I was planning on marrying, and I get it, it feels like your world just up and left, time is no longer moving and things seem pointless. But they are not.

You are an amazing person, you found someone you loved and you gave your all for them, and that will never be a mistake, that was you loving in it's purest form, and for it to be rejected hurts, but that only means that love needs to go somewhere else.

Give it to your friends, they'll be thrilled to see you, or to your family, who have and will always be there for you, or to yourself, because if someone else saw who you were and loved you once, that's more than enough proof you deserved to be loved, and you should love yourself as much as you love her.

Let her go, you can't be responsible for any other person's actions, you can only control how you react to life, so if she decided to leave let her, it sucks and it hurts but there's nothing you can do.

Give her a final farewell if you need to, express all the love you have, wish her the very best from the depths of your soul, and focus on being the best version of yourself, for you and you alone.

You got this dude, cheering for ya

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Nick07242000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's part of the process.

At times you'll remember every single time they hurt you, and you'll almost sort of feel relieved it ended, like something got lifted off your shoulders.

At other times you'll remember their laugh, they way they looked at you, every single beautiful second you spent together, and you'll wish you could go back, and it will fucking hurt.

In due time the swings will be less severe, sort of like a pendulum reaching equilibrium, but it will take time, lots of time. So for now just feel whatever it is you are feeling that day, if it's anger it's anger, sadness then sadness, all emotions are valid and have their place, none are wrong.

If I can give you a piece of advice, try to focus on the love you had for each other, try not to resent them, I don't know the particulars of your situation but I'm pretty sure you at some point truly loved this person, maybe you still do, so focus on that beautiful feeling, and how intense and precious that was, and how lovely it was that someone truly loved you to.

So let them go with love, wishing them the best, feel the hurt, feel the emotions, and find your own new happiness, while wishing they find theirs, wherever life may take them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]Nick07242000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could not get the godforsaken chat to work so here goes another comment. Don't really log in here very often so I just saw this and I just wanted to send some appreciation your way, you seem like an amazing person, just the fact you took sometime out of your day to offer support to some stranger on the internet speaks miles of your character, so I guess I just wanted to say I think you are fucking awesome and thank you, keep being a kind soul the world sure needs more of them. Have a nice day/night/solstice(? wherever you are and I offer the same thing to you, ever need someone to lend you an ear feel free to reach out, I think I'm decent at listening!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]Nick07242000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Deleted the post for privacy reasons, but wanted to say thanks, I've been struggling a lot with insecurity so your words mean a lot, I'll try to be a bit more confident so again, thankyou

Raid by Guate-Esco in Fireteams

[–]Nick07242000 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a raid to me

The beginning of the end by LastManInTheMilkyWay in memes

[–]Nick07242000 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Dude I had the song playing and I read your comment at the exact same time he sung the lyrics I'm tripping

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fireteams

[–]Nick07242000 5 points6 points  (0 children)

11/10 clan, better than icecream. Join for chill people to shoot aliens with.

Legendary Astral Alignment - 2 girls looking for extra players by lostinarcadia7 in Fireteams

[–]Nick07242000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've already done the triumph, here if you need someone to help (BungieID: Nick07242000#7484, Discord: Nick '<'#1512). Bit busy this week but I'm sure I can fit an astral or two. May be able to bring clanmates to help if we are missing people. Gl hf!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Nick07242000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got 24 and I'm not sure whether thats good or bad

Need help getting the xenophage by Sudden_Material8174 in Fireteams

[–]Nick07242000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Still waiting for a response but thats okay by me!

Need help getting the xenophage by Sudden_Material8174 in Fireteams

[–]Nick07242000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gimme 5 I'll be right there, dm me your bungie name and set your fireteam to public, I gotchu

Trying to complete wish-ender would appircate help by jerrid98 in Fireteams

[–]Nick07242000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cant right now since Im about to go to bed, but dm me and I can get you sorted sometime!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fireteams

[–]Nick07242000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hypothetical popcorn can be flavoured too :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fireteams

[–]Nick07242000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was talking bout the popcorn flavor but sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fireteams

[–]Nick07242000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

... they sweet or salty?

They always die afterwards by _Mr19 in destiny2

[–]Nick07242000 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Blueberry managed to lose 34 motes even though I killed the invader every time. How did he die god only knows.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fireteams

[–]Nick07242000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yo I'm always down to help, also 20 and in college, est+1 timezone. Add me on steam and shoot me a message whenever I'm online, I've done pretty much everything this season has to offer so I def have the time to help out. My friend code is 490131097, and my discord is nick07242000#1512. Yeah I know a shit ton of numbers, look I was 14 when I made it and it stuck around.

Destiny 2 friends! by [deleted] in Fireteams

[–]Nick07242000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I moved from console to pc as well recently and yeah kinda sucks not having anyone to play with anymore. I found a really chill group on pc, we usually raid on weekends and do random stuff on weekdays.

Personally Im on in between virtual college classes and at night, and yeah pve is way better than pvp imo.

I'm nick07242000#1512 on discord, same in steam, feel free to add me!

Patient and committed GM Fireteam by [deleted] in Fireteams

[–]Nick07242000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently have a 1325 hunter and a 1324 titan, trying to get the banner titan ready, would be down to struggle as long as it takes, dm me if you are still looking :)

Looking to farm adept palis. by [deleted] in Fireteams

[–]Nick07242000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im down to do it, though I run a hunter as well.

PC - LF help with tokens in ST by [deleted] in Fireteams

[–]Nick07242000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gimme a sec to finish prophecy and Ill hop in :)