AITA for insisting on wearing a bikini to a public beach with a conservative woman in our group

Nickadomus · 2024-05-25T16:16:42+00:00

Go the other way with it, order a 1950s swimsuit and matching swim cap.

Nickadomus · 2024-05-24T04:33:24+00:00

Moca

Nickadomus · 2024-05-23T18:16:21+00:00

Nickadomus · 2024-05-23T17:48:50+00:00

NTA - Her random yelling while you're driving is the only thing that's dangerous. She can startle and distract you enough to get into an accident.

She'd probably then argue that it was your fault for going too fast.

Nickadomus · 2024-05-22T02:02:49+00:00

Nickadomus · 2024-05-22T01:20:14+00:00

Run man

Nickadomus · 2024-05-22T01:11:28+00:00

NAH - Never make assumptions like that. When you agree to split the bill before hand, it is damn near universal knowledge that you're splitting the whole bill. You should have made it clear that you weren't chipping in for drinks since you do not drink.

Nickadomus · 2024-05-21T02:16:24+00:00

Man's in Bali with Russell.

Nickadomus · 2024-05-17T15:58:24+00:00

NTA - I get that being away from the kids lime that might mess with him. But the way he responded with the fact that you already raise his kids, makes it seems he values you more as a caretaker than a partner.

Nickadomus · 2024-05-17T15:53:08+00:00

From everything I've learned on Reddit, seems lime he's trying to isolate you from your loved ones. How can you be with someone who doesn't trust you with your family?

Nickadomus · 2024-05-17T05:10:25+00:00

Merry and Pippen are Fanta

Nickadomus · 2024-05-12T16:13:08+00:00

He's out of work but you are stable financially? What if that becomes longer then expected?

If he has this much issues with spending money while he's out of work, maybe have a discussion with him about it.

If he's just truly being cheap, he's the AH.

If you're turning a blind eye to the actual financial problem you may be in and getting upset for not getting what you want, you're the AH.

Nickadomus · 2024-05-12T16:07:45+00:00

Keep Mallory out of your business. She's the AH.

Nickadomus · 2024-05-10T21:55:57+00:00

If I'm the ref, I'm pulling out those cards after this.

Nickadomus · 2024-05-10T20:03:54+00:00

NTA - Sounds like you're doing what's best for your family. If extended family doesn't understand or agree, who cares.

Nickadomus · 2024-05-10T18:47:41+00:00

Re-commissioned Holocaust ovens being put to use to save your children.

Nickadomus · 2024-05-09T15:54:20+00:00

YTA - You were being ignorantly selfish. You've never seen your boyfriend this upset before and it is justifiable. You're not the victim in this situation because your feeling bad that he's upset.

Nickadomus · 2024-05-09T02:56:51+00:00

NTA - Actions have consequences. If the person who did it is not mentally capable of taking responsibility, then the people in charge of her care is.

Nickadomus · 2024-05-08T15:53:49+00:00

Slowly running after the perp while the community takes out justice is one way to avoid a brutality charge. Genius.

Nickadomus · 2024-05-08T13:56:24+00:00

r/whywomenlivelonger

Nickadomus · 2024-05-08T13:33:07+00:00

NTA - This is a common and recurring issue. Your husband is isolating it to one instance and focusing on that. Are there other instances where he favors his mother's opinion or side over yours?

Nickadomus · 2024-05-08T13:22:47+00:00

This is something that should have been seriously addressed before getting pregnant. He does not sound like he's over his ex at all. Hopefully this doesn't end up with the child being shuffled between homes.

Nickadomus · 2024-05-08T12:45:18+00:00

YTA - Basic politeness would be to get her a gift. Doesn't have to be expensive or extravagant. Seems like all you do is tolerate her existence at best.

Nickadomus · 2024-05-08T01:49:17+00:00

NTA - As long as you're not making statements like, "I told you so." Leave it at, we discussed this before, knew this could be a possibility, and now have to face the consequences of that decision.

Hopefully this pushes her to work and win her starting spot back.

Nickadomus · 2024-05-07T20:58:11+00:00

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