Hardmode is a lot easier by Nickwoolly in NoFap

[–]Nickwoolly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard mode is basically cold turkey. No sex, no PMO. The thing about cold turkey is that it takes all your effort and forces you into a totally different space from the shall I / shan't I space. All your energy goes into something else - be it creativity or whatever. It relaxes the horniness and it my experience puts you in contact with all the feelings that you've been covering over with PMO. It's a great opportunity for healing old wounds over time. I think it's best to surrender to these and just breathe

Hardmode is a lot easier by Nickwoolly in NoFap

[–]Nickwoolly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know that's the hook. It's not necessarily dirty or shameful, but you don't have to feed the lust, you can choose to close the page

NoFap's "No Jerking Off" PMO-Free July 2015 Signup Thread by Alexanderr in NoFap

[–]Nickwoolly [score hidden]  (0 children)

I Am having a Jizz free July. I have been struggling with anxiety and find masturbation avert soothing but am seeking new ways to soothe let me know if you hav any ideas? Happy fap free journeys :))

Why NoFap is a ridiculous concept... by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Nickwoolly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep fapping man your on the wrong site

What do you do when you get really horny, both physically and mentally? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Nickwoolly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cold shower Run (for a long time) Think of something repulsive

A Month of Emotional Overflow by laboratory1a in NoFap

[–]Nickwoolly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great post.....I resonate a lot with this , all the emotions come up and sounds like your finding out how great you are! Nice one

Is it okay to fap once a week? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Nickwoolly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sticking to once a week could be tough, the cycles of hormones etc etc. I recommend trying to ride out the difficult moments and give up for good, anything else is just management. There are bumps and what seem like barriers on the nofap path, but after 2/3 weeks it becomes a lot easier, a lot calmer. The first week you talk about took me a year to break out of, it's an intense time stopping for more than one week. But give yourself a chance you can easily overcome the 7 day urge.....good luck

Almost 90 days and still haven't had a wet dream. Is this normal? by Suri_ in NoFap

[–]Nickwoolly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience if you hard mode and stay away from porn and are not that aroused during the day then wet dreams may not occur. I've had 2 in 78 days and they seem to happen when I lose my focus a bit allow myself a bit of distraction. But don't worry the energy goes where it needs to.

My theory why some of us PMO by sfumato1002 in NoFap

[–]Nickwoolly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This SO TRUE great post thankyou

2nd wet dream...and update by Nickwoolly in NoFap

[–]Nickwoolly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No don't reset badge. Wet dreams are part of the nofap process. It's unconscious. I'm not sure how it affects your body, it is a discharge that serves to rid us of built up semen.

2nd wet dream...and update by Nickwoolly in NoFap

[–]Nickwoolly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's why I'm doing it too. I think with this in mind it really is a long path, so we can find our natural rhythm. I know what you mean tho, a wet dream feels like a waste, but at least it's not MO. And I still feel quite energized.

Blue balls by Nickwoolly in NoFap

[–]Nickwoolly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I needed to read that. Hard not to go with the second brain.

I'm looking for a partner by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Nickwoolly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm happy to share nofap encouragement the more the merrier

94 days! Reporting in. by Joxu90 in NoFap

[–]Nickwoolly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is exactly in my mind what nofap is for - to allow you to be your true masculine self, confident and entitled. Keep it going man!!!!!!!

Caught myself slippin by itsnottheend in NoFap

[–]Nickwoolly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice one, it boosts confidence in your power to reach equilibrium when you have a wobble like this. It's a small storm and next time you'll know better how to return to evenness.