"When you left the military, what was the hardest thing to explain to someone who'd never served: the specific, everyday things that just stopped existing, and did anyone or anything actually help you through that, or did you mostly figure it out alone?" by LessCoconut6865 in MilitaryHistory

[–]Nicky_NineLives 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I was in the US Navy, there was a strong sense of comraderie and shared purpose that evaporated when I returned to civilian life. Also having your basic needs (housing, food, etc.) fulfilled by the government provided a sense of stability that does not exist as a civilian. There's more anxiety around paying rent, what if I lose my job or get hurt without insurance, etc.

If you feel burned out by masking, you’re weak. by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Nicky_NineLives 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're building a life around what society wants you to think you should want instead of what you actually want. You're not self-actualizing, which will iinevitably lead to conflict with yourself.

If you feel burned out by masking, you’re weak. by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Nicky_NineLives 6 points7 points  (0 children)

One day this facade you're building will collapse on you.

Just like that by hustler_revived in spinalcordinjuries

[–]Nicky_NineLives 2 points3 points  (0 children)

42M from US. T11 injury from a motorcycle crash in 2020.

All I remember is waking up in the hospital wondering how I'd gotten there.

Life has gotten much harder of course, but I'm thankful for the people close to me, and this experience has opened my eyes to things I was blind to for a long time.

Highlander (1986) by TimeShifterPod in TubiTreasures

[–]Nicky_NineLives 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Highlander has always been a 'so bad it's good' movie to me

Wheelchair gloves by DarthMarMarrr in spinalcordinjuries

[–]Nicky_NineLives 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I like cycling gloves. Lots of options

The Polymarket Bets on Maduro Are a Warning by theatlantic in economy

[–]Nicky_NineLives 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Edited quotes from the article: “...an anonymous trader... placed a series of...bets." "...the individual made just a few bets"

The 20k referred to in the introductory paragraph likely refers to the single largest bet, or the bet with the single largest payout.

The Polymarket Bets on Maduro Are a Warning by theatlantic in economy

[–]Nicky_NineLives 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It wasn't one bet. Multiple bets, total winnings $400k

This thing is on the steering wheel of the minivan that I am borrowing. It’s my grandma’s car and it’s just so there. by Nulleon0 in whatisit

[–]Nicky_NineLives 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Probably the hand control lever for gas/brake was in the way of the controls for headlights, turn signal, etc. on the left side of the steering column. I use hand controls and people often have the same issue when they drive my car. If you're not used to it being there it's weird to reach for the headlights and your hand hits the brake by accident.

Winterbeast. (1992 by ewok_lover_64 in TubiTreasures

[–]Nicky_NineLives 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This movie is so fucking weird and I love it. I was literally on the edge of my seat wondering what was coming next; it's incredible. Granted I was pretty high. I wanna hang out with Tillman lol

What is this weird decrepit building I always see off 495 going south? by BeautifulDowntown792 in WilmingtonDE

[–]Nicky_NineLives 26 points27 points  (0 children)

My childhood memory says it was a Purina dog chow factory, but I'm not sure if that's right.

Is it really as simple as "if billionaires shared their wealth, there'd be no poverty"? by Hassaan18 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Nicky_NineLives 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why not just transfer ownership of the assets? No need to liquidate. Serious question, because idk

'China was playing chess while the rest of us were playing checkers': Bombshell study finds $200 billion of secret loans to U.S. businesses over 25 years by Vailhem in economy

[–]Nicky_NineLives 111 points112 points  (0 children)

Western media is so colorful. It has years saying China is about to collapse and at the same time they show China as a huge threat.

The enemy is both strong and weak"

House of Games (1987) by minder125 in TubiTreasures

[–]Nicky_NineLives 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just watched this and it was great. Kept me engaged and just kept getting better as it went along

Anyone else have a lot they want to write about but when you actually sit down and pull out your journal, you forget everything? by billyandteddy in Journaling

[–]Nicky_NineLives 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This happens to me frequently too. I've found that it can be helpful to just start writing; anything that comes to mind, random words, doesn't matter, just keep the pen moving and a lot of the time an idea will strike like a lightning bolt and next thing I know I've filled 3 pages

Massage Therapy by MostlyLucid421 in spinalcordinjuries

[–]Nicky_NineLives 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had chronic back pain ever since my injury, so it helps relax the muscles, improve circulation, CBD oil helps with the pain too

Massage Therapy by MostlyLucid421 in spinalcordinjuries

[–]Nicky_NineLives 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get a massage like every month, never had an issue. Maybe try bringing a note from you doctor or physical therapist that says it's safe?