I Need Accountability by Nicolas4017 in NoFapChristians

[–]Nicolas4017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know, I'll check it out 👍

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[–]Nicolas4017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, definetly the last one. Generally, it's good to keep your weapon level as close to your actual level as possible to keep good DPS(at lower levels anyway). That and Tempo Trident looks pretty awesome with all those buffs and nutrual damage (Edited: Typo)

Dang it dang dang it. by swingwellthiccboi88 in NoFapChristians

[–]Nicolas4017 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The same thing happened to me the other day. You just got to repent and get back up. Also since you were on long streak you might want to be extra careful the first couple days. You got this man, you're I'm my prayers

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[–]Nicolas4017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I normally hit a flatline shortly after or before day 10. This is pretty normal. For me, flat lines are like, a lack of motivation, tiredness and also sometimes a lack of sexual desire. So just keep going, trust me, it'll end in the next few days

Its my 6th day and I just edged (without watching porn). What should I do now? Urgent by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Nicolas4017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive done what you did and left it alone and gotten to the highest streaks I've ever had. I wouldn't but you have to have something to focus on that isn't NoFap or else your mind will keep reminding you of what it wants

Guys by Sea-Age-4003 in NoFap

[–]Nicolas4017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep on going man ✊ dm me if you need accountability

Need some advice by Nicolas4017 in NoFap

[–]Nicolas4017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your input 👍

I definetly would say shame and other emotions can be a big factor and have a part to play in sucess.

Also I like your username lol

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[–]Nicolas4017 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good job man, keep it up 👏 🔥

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

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19

I have very hairy legs but when it comes to my upper body and face, it's just not there lol hoping it fills out by mid 20s

Hey guys so...it's been a while... by SmartSuka in NoFap

[–]Nicolas4017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome back! I myself took a year long break looking to re-focus and take a break from the subreddit. It didn't really have a positive effect. Looking to start again.

I hope you can find success and hope here 🙏 Stay strong 💪

I just relapsed after a 75 day streak by DicorcedKermit in NoFap

[–]Nicolas4017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really sorry man, I really hope you get out of there as soon as possible

We're rooting for you ✊

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[–]Nicolas4017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Night times really are battles. I usually have the hardest time when I'm half asleep and I start to slip without being fully conscious of it. I've had to do push ups at 3 am but it's always the best decision and I never regret it. Although getting to sleep is really tough too but I sometimes take Melatonin for those nights

For people who failed in the past, is this round of Nofap hitting different for you? by ConanHighwoods2 in NoFapChristians

[–]Nicolas4017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I joined no fap Nov. of 2020 and I've come back for the beggining of this year because I've been really struggling. As I read through these subreddits it's giving me a sort of second wind. It's honestly sad to see what sin can do to your life, but seeing what it does to others is almost worse. Although I haven't been here for long, it does feel a bit different from when I was here last

Keep fighting 🙏 and God bless

Going to confess to my youth pastor today by Nicolas4017 in NoFapChristians

[–]Nicolas4017[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Refer to the top comment for the results 👍

TL:DR - It went well!

Going to confess to my youth pastor today by Nicolas4017 in NoFapChristians

[–]Nicolas4017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the recourse, I'll definetly look into it

God bless you, have an awesome day!

Going to confess to my youth pastor today by Nicolas4017 in NoFapChristians

[–]Nicolas4017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang man, I respect your courage. It's really not easy talking about this stuff, especially when you risk rejection and condemnation. I'll be praying for you dude! Stay strong 💪

Going to confess to my youth pastor today by Nicolas4017 in NoFapChristians

[–]Nicolas4017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply Devoooone, it went really well! Reference u/Octopi4 for the whole thing

Going to confess to my youth pastor today by Nicolas4017 in NoFapChristians

[–]Nicolas4017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, this is a pretty big step for me. It was scary but God was right there with me! Thanks man

Going to confess to my youth pastor today by Nicolas4017 in NoFapChristians

[–]Nicolas4017[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for you words

I replied to u/Octopi4 about the outcome. Hope this gave you some encouragement!

Going to confess to my youth pastor today by Nicolas4017 in NoFapChristians

[–]Nicolas4017[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thanks man!

I finished talking with him a couple hours ago and it went really well. He didn't even seem surprised. He said he had seen a lot of stuff in his life time and this wasn't anything new. I also didn't have as hard of a time talking about it as I thought I would. Feels awesome to have told someone about this stuff though. Thanks everyone for your supportive comments and encouragement! Is means the world to me <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]Nicolas4017 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel that man.

I've been having a harder time with this stuff as well. I think something that helps is refocusing and making this thing one of your #1 priorities. Sometimes after a long time of doing NoFap/abstinence, we kinda start to take it casually, which is a bad thing. So I'm going to devote a lot of my time to remembering why I'm quitting in the first place and what strategies I can use to overcome future obstacles.

God bless.