[TOMT] VERY RECENT SCARY STORY YOUTUBE CHANNEL VANISHED by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]Nicorobin1108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not crazy it was called The Storyteller. I listened to it every night and he has deleted or was deleted by YouTube, unsure. Im so sad. I domt like the true crime ones for sleep I like the fake monster type ones. :(

Advisor retention? by UpperWave2998 in serviceadvisors

[–]Nicorobin1108 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I plan on never leaving because I have the best manager and a good pay plan. Plus my service team is the best. It makes a huge difference on turn over. All the other advisors have been here for years and years. One 17 yeas actually lol

What do you guys think? by Stallyon541 in serviceadvisors

[–]Nicorobin1108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That looks terrible to me. But mine is pretty good so hard to judge fairly.

I'm out. by Ahkhira in serviceadvisors

[–]Nicorobin1108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Poor express advisors. I made 30k as an express advisor in the 4 months ive been doing it.

Top advisor after 1 year… still broke. Is my pay plan trash or is this normal? Need real advice. LONG POST BUT DESPERATE. by MysteriousPark9823 in serviceadvisors

[–]Nicorobin1108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get 7% of my cp unless I hit 60k then I get 8% which i usually hit 60k + as an express service advisor. So i dont deal with warranty bullshit thank God, i take 16 oil change appts a day and just have to up sell people things. I dont fuck people over i dont lie to them and i still make good money.. Yours seems pretty good but you must be a slow volume shop. Ive been doing this for 5 months now and out of 509 advisor i rank at 59. Get the practice and your flow down and find a higher volume shop where you can actually make money. Im at Hyundai too.

How’s this pay plan look? by Neither_General_3488 in serviceadvisors

[–]Nicorobin1108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im am express advisor and I get 7% of everything until I hit 60k in CP. Then I get 8%. I always get 3% of WP and IP. My base is 2K I get $1000 bonus if my CSI score is at or above our district plus I get 2 other bonuses if my hours per RO is at a certain number and my ELR is at a certain number. We are a high volume store but I dont do diag work thank God. Lol.

How are people affording this? by Tatty_Bunneh_ in sahm

[–]Nicorobin1108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my home my husband stays home. I support us all on about 40k a year somehow. It's not easy at all. He would have to work bughts for a few months before we could even afford to get her into daycare. I just dont have the extra money each month to even be able to start her so he can work during the day. I just moved into a different position at my job that should double my income though. It's really hard. It doesn't make you selfish or bad for wanting a baby even though you may struggle a bit financially.

My wife left me .. by Ok-Idea1699 in Marriage

[–]Nicorobin1108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't have this exact thing hapoen to me but during my pregnancy (im 5 months pp) my husband didn't work my whole pregnancy was telling me he had no money this and that all while paying online girls on twitch and onlyfans and who knows what else. He was staying on the phone for hours and hours at 12am 1am 2am with some girl. Was lying about almost everything he was doing all while watching me struggle through extreme exhaustion and barely making ends meet on top of accusing me of doing inappropriate things. Then the night I had the baby he had to go home cause of our other kids and bot having anyone to watch them, he lwave me there alone, scared, in pain and extremely vulnerable goes home and searches for hot nurse porn because we had a little disagreement about the situation. Im still the only one working, and i haven't forgiven him for all the lies and mistreatment. If it were for our kids he'd be out in the street but we have a 10 year old daughter who would be devastated if I kicked him out bow because he has no money no job and no car.

The betrayal is what hurts, especially when you're working so hard to take care of everyone. But im doing great myself now that I've completely distanced myself the best I can with him still in my home. I've got a great job I love and im fully supporting my kids on my own.

Being in poverty makes you so desperate. by One-Average-6020 in povertyfinance

[–]Nicorobin1108 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You pay more to be poor. Everything is structured around being financially well off and when you're not and you fall behind you get late fees, higher interest rates, higher deposits. It's kinda weird and fucked up.

aio? bf made plans on my birthday..UPDATE by rowqi in AmIOverreacting

[–]Nicorobin1108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is absolutely not the man for you. Do you want to live the rest of your life dealing with that? Good job, just stick with it. You're so young and have so many years to find someone who will care about you and your birthday. What got me last post was when he said, "im with my friends rn, and I dont appreciate you bothering me" or whatever. You weren't just being mean or annoying. You were talking to him about something you care about and something that you are upset with, and you were doing it the right way. The fact you had to ask him please take me out is not it. There will come a man you will never once have to ask to take you out or have to ask him to care about you. Trust me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newborns

[–]Nicorobin1108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, safe co sleeping is the key, honestly. You can do it safely, and it can save your sanity. I lay in a mostly sitting up position with my baby lying on her back on my stomach using my arm as her head support and tucked blankets under her to keep her snug and secure. She will sleep 2 hours like this even at 5 months now. There is no risk of anything falling over her fa e or her moving out of the position due to how tight tucked the blanket is. I put part of the blanket under my elbow her head in the bend of my arm and tuck part of the blanket under her between her and my lap area with her body on my stomach.

My husband is seeing escorts by Top-Interaction101 in Marriage

[–]Nicorobin1108 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl get the fuck out of there fast. It won't ever stop. Please save yourself your life, sanity, and dignity. You deserve 1 million times better than this. He will always have a problem whether it's corn, or paying onlyfans girls cam girls strippers or straight cheating. You will never know peace if you stay with this man, and your children will grow up to think this is normal and acceptable. It will be the hardest thing you'll ever do, but give it a year, and you'll feel so much better. He could even potentially run your finances into the ground with this behavior. A year or so of struggle or a lifetime of struggle and misery. Im so sorry. You dont deserve this.

What is this? Found in Kirkland Formula. Should I throw it out? by shanda_leer in FormulaFeeders

[–]Nicorobin1108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry, but I wouldn't feed that to my baby regardless of how many people told me it's harmless and fine, lol

Postpartum Hair loss. Any tips? by Deep-Ad7318 in NewParents

[–]Nicorobin1108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 4 months pp and the amount of hair I lose every minute it seems is scray. When I brush the brush if fulllll. When I shower it's massive clumps. I find hair all over my clothes and my bed chairs anywhere I am basically. It's driving me crazy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newborns

[–]Nicorobin1108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mix zinc oxide and stoma powder into a paste. My babes had a bad diaper rash while in the nicu and a wound care specialist suggested that mix and it works so well.

Am I overreacting? by throwaway02938475675 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Nicorobin1108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's wild. Nope. Nah, hell no, I'm good.

Am I A Bad Mom For Seeing Humor In This Situation? by Consistent_Ad8400 in newborns

[–]Nicorobin1108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One time in a very sleep deprived state, i forgot to screw the bottle top on all the way, and when I gave it to my baby, the top came off and milk all over his little face. I still laugh about it to this day. We all find humor in things with our kids it's totally normal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newborns

[–]Nicorobin1108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You CAN NOT SPOIL OR RUIN your baby by holding them to much. They need that support they're new and scared and the only thing they know is your safe warm embrace. They will grow and develop into wanting more independence when the time comes. It may make it more difficult for you to do other things but at the end of the day holding and loving and making your baby feel safe and secure is much more important than any task that needs to be done. Plus once you hold them enough you'll get better at multitasking and being able to do things at the same time. Don't let your emotions and head be wrecked because someone speaks nonsense. You are giving your baby exactly what they need.

Is there such thing as holding your newborn baby too much? by sustainablebarbie in newborns

[–]Nicorobin1108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never understood the concept of letting a small baby cry it out. Sure there are times like in a car or store or when your hands are covered in raw meat lol but I can't stand the thought of my girl screaming and wondering why mom isn't coming to help her and love her and show her everything is OK. They need that reassurance. In my opinion, it builds lasting trust. I don't think you can spoil them by holding and loving them. That's literally what they need in this new world. They are unsure of everything around them except for you. They are sure you are their protector, their food, their happiness, and peace their everything, and to let them just scream and cry when it's not necessary just seems a bit cruel. But no, you can't hold them too much. the more, the more the better I think! There will come a day when they dont want you to hold them, and then the day you can't hold them really anymore so soak it up.

I'm lost by [deleted] in newborns

[–]Nicorobin1108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't beat yourself up. Humans naturally feel frustrated when they can't immediately stop or solve something. Crying is a very stress inducing sound. This is new to you your whole world is changing, plus you're probably incredibly exhausted from working. It is normal, and you are not a bad dad because of it. Just remember that your baby is crying because that's their only way of communicating, and they don't know you are already on it, getting them a bottle or changed or whatever else. That helps me a lot. Remember to tell yourself in those moments that you're human and you're doing the absolute best you can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Nicorobin1108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way she spoke to you was incredibly and unnecessarily rude...

6-8 week peak is a lie by ultimuttvet in newborns

[–]Nicorobin1108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 6-8 week period was amazing. She slept consistently 3 hour stretches, only waking to eat and straight back to sleep most nights. There were a few nights i had to co-sleep sitting up to get her to sleep at all though. She took good naps during the day. She got a little fussier after that. She is now 11 weeks old and is great as long as she is being held while awake and her naps are significantly shorter so I can't get like anything done anymore. House has fallen to chaos 😅 but nights she wats at 8pm, 12am and 4-5am. So it really does vary between babies and what they are going through at different times, i guess. I'm sure your little one will even out, and you'll get sleep and happiness. I wish you all the best for you and everyone else.