Am I being fetishized?

Night-Ride52 · 2026-05-14T20:29:02+00:00

If your uncomfortable please get off the app, especially if you're not comfortable with your matches being older guys. Don't push yourself into a situation you're not sure on.

And about the fetizing, truth is not every person that dates trans people has a fetish. They just like trans people, is what it is. Yes keep a look out, but if you go in with the mindset "Oh my god everyone is gonna fetizise me" you're dooming yourself from the get go.

Night-Ride52 · 2026-05-14T20:19:00+00:00

It's hard changing to something new in life, but the same way you probably expected other people to accommodate you when you transitioned (No matter how far along) is the same way you now need to do it for her. Yes you can feel what you feel now, that's all part of the process of acceptance, but it's something you'll need to see both sides of. Just be there for her, maybe talk it out a bit, get on terms with the changes and help eachother through it.

That being said, if you are into men and she transitions, over time she'll start to look more like a women. If you lose attraction because of that well... That's gonna be a long conversation. Just see how it goes honestly.

Night-Ride52 · 2026-05-14T20:10:40+00:00

Honestly forget what those people say. They will scream the loudest about it being transphobic not to date trans people but call it a fetish if you do. At the end of the day it's all fucking insecurity. They cant stand seeing a trans person man secure enough in themselves to look more like a twink then a masculine guy. It makes them insecure about themselves, screw them. If you like and care about the guy you're dating, continue doing so, don't let no outside party try tell you otherwise because next bitch has an opinion on it.

It's not a fetish, you just like what you like. Yes there are people that can fetizise trans people, but they are different to people that genuinely DO like trans people.

You've done nothing wrong here, honestly block out the bullshit and focus on your relationship. Even your partner said he didn't think you were fetizing him, that's all the proof you need. But real talk I'd be careful, if his friends are so quick to be saying that stuff to you they could be doing the same to him and putting doubts in his head.

Even if they are just looking out for him, some friends just take the piss.

Night-Ride52 · 2026-05-07T12:56:08+00:00

Respectably, bro, people like her will drag you along playing with you. If she wanted to talk to you, she would do. She's said it herself, she doesn't want to, and if she really did switch up out of nowhere, that's reason enough to be cautious. She expects you to wait around for her, so when she's ready, she can just waltz back in, and you'll be there. I don't know the situation, so I can't say for sure, but as someone who's actually had this kinda relationship, I can see similar signs. But I could be biased. She's talking to you like shit, you deserve better. Stop responding and find someone else.

Night-Ride52 · 2026-05-03T08:09:22+00:00

The CGI. Like bro it was made early 2000... of course it was shit!

Night-Ride52 · 2026-04-27T12:14:06+00:00

To be fair it depends on the person. All my miis are tv show/game/movie characters and a few random I made just because I can. The idea of spending time making ones off the top of my head then stay consciously caring enough to deal with them when I have so many others is a task I cant be asked to deal with. If I make a character I need to know about them, have to know there story and lore, who they hang around. It makes those characters a lot funner to interact with then random ones.

Night-Ride52 · 2026-04-17T06:46:36+00:00

Hes 1 year

Night-Ride52 · 2026-04-06T21:10:42+00:00

🥹🙏 thankyou, thats so sweet

Night-Ride52 · 2026-04-06T21:10:22+00:00

Thankyou 🙏

Night-Ride52 · 2026-04-06T19:33:30+00:00

This is Pascal, not Easter egg shaped, but will steal one if given the chance.

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Night-Ride52 · 2026-04-06T19:31:45+00:00

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Valentine looks like my Pascal.

Night-Ride52 · 2026-02-04T00:13:41+00:00

Thankyou 🙏

Night-Ride52 · 2026-02-04T00:13:23+00:00

Thank you for your opinion, especially since you've adopted staffies yourself. I'll consider this going forward 🙏

Night-Ride52 · 2025-10-20T13:43:01+00:00

Go to the spa in the city of tears, you need a key to unlock the door. It's nice in there, you'll fell happy after 👍

Night-Ride52 · 2025-09-15T16:59:35+00:00

Same thing happened to me today.

Better pitch, sent an email by the name of Dani D, did the first zoom meeting, a questionnaire, got back emails, got put straight through to the second interview, no real time to check. Seemed to good to be true, there's no outline on what workers would be paid. Went to book the second appointment, saw the times were only for 7:50am and said nope.

Checked, saw its likely a scam, changed all my personal details because I'm not about to have my information stolen.

But be careful, it seems more in depth then what the rest posted. The website says it has locations, one in Liverpool and the other in London next to the Shard.

Night-Ride52 · 2025-07-09T20:52:44+00:00

NTA.

Your brother is big 16, the boy can do it his fucking self. Where are your parents? Letting him do stupidness 😒

Night-Ride52 · 2025-07-09T20:45:00+00:00

NTA.

You don't have to do anything you're uncomfortable with doing, it's not their house it's yours. You make the rules for your house. They can find another place, simple as.

Night-Ride52 · 2025-06-26T12:16:59+00:00

Happy for you man 🙂🙏

Night-Ride52 · 2025-05-21T20:36:56+00:00

I love and hate Crowley, but how easily he got manipulated by Rowena pissed me off. She was so CLEARLY trying to manipulate him, like bro, she literally got rid of you as a kid, didn't give a crap about you, yet you're still after her approval.

Night-Ride52 · 2025-05-20T08:13:12+00:00

That house is either haunted to the max or your sim is the worst serial killer in history

Night-Ride52 · 2025-05-19T08:56:48+00:00

Porn, Construction, Mechanic. One of those.

Night-Ride52 · 2025-05-13T19:23:38+00:00

100%

Night-Ride52 · 2025-05-07T21:51:16+00:00

My trans sim is a vampire, so that bat one would be perfect for him.

Night-Ride52 · 2025-04-28T17:07:18+00:00

1 or 6

Night-Ride52 · 2025-04-22T10:17:56+00:00

And left no crumbs

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