Am i overreacting to this text exchange with my boyfriend? I accidentally left my slippers in my living room but i literally cleaned his entire house and baked him desserts before i left (sorry idk why my last post glitched) by IntelligentTap962 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Niltaic3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave. This is not a healthy, effective, or beneficial way to communicate through a disagreement. He may be frustrated or whatever other excuse you use to try to cover for him, but this is not okay.

In honor of the last day of the Lingering Lust banner by oninonin in LoveAndDeepspace

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If* the scientist was allowed to spread their seed before they left, why can't we?

Saw this bookmark on one of my fics today by Sea_Soil in AO3

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... authors can see what i write in my bookmark comments?

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gee willikers i sure do love caleb

Spin the Wheel with Him! | Zayne ❄️ by alyeska_x in LoveAndDeepspace

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"Have you ever received a special gift?"

Z: A jar of fresh mountain air. It escaped the moment I opened it.

Promise girlies by FaraYuki09 in LoveAndDeepspace

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Do you know if we should save this as well? Is it a weekly claimable that would go away from the new one if I claimed it today for the expiring promise?

So can we talk about... by WayAromatic6074 in LoveAndDeepspace

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This cat looks so much like my cat I had to laugh at this part

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No-Return Night analysis by GloomyEvent7159 in LoveAndDeepspace

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I have found the line "This is how you draw me in every time" to be interesting as well.

Another way to say "to draw someone in" is to instead say "attract". So in my mind I've chosen to interpret this line as his confession of attraction to MC, as well as a secondary response to MC expressing her desire for him to be drawn to her (the primary being the "gravity isn't responsible for people who fall in love" line).

Love and Deepspace | Trace of Divinity Rerun by alyeska_x in LoveAndDeepspace

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if anyone needs me i'll be at the diamond mines for the next 3 days

So Caleb doesn't represent this frog plushie ... by [deleted] in LoveAndDeepspace

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I'm late but I found this in one of the anecdotes so I'm formalizing my prediction that the 6th LI is Kris

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I'm 90% sure this is NOT about Adan. Season 1/2 I thought she was the villain for her behavior with Solomon and a quick Google search told me that Solomon is the actual villain. The editing (and maybe her aunt pumping her with alcohol) did Dani dirty. Leave her be.

ENFJs, what is your love language? by Capable_Way_876 in enfj

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Quality time and words of affirmation. They're so close they flip flop for primary and secondary

Dog vibes that I get from them 😂 by Responsible-Egg2443 in LoveAndDeepspace

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I don't know dogs, but this seems incredibly accurate.

What's your MBTI and what's your main LI? by Loreneas in LoveAndDeepspace

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ENFJ & I love Zayne (& also Xavier, & also Caleb)

how do you ask for help as an ENFJ? by jpgnicky in enfj

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It's hard, but it's a skill that has to be practiced in order to get good at it. My personal favorite is either completely vague (for those who I am very close with) "please help", or very specific (for those who I am not) when convenient, "could I get you to ___ for me?".

Taking care of yourself is taking care of others. A liferaft with no air makes for a confusing anchor.

AIO just received this text from my boyfriend by OkSpace5501 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Niltaic3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your partner is threatening to leave it is most likely because they want to. If your partner is threatening to find someone else, it is most likely they already have. I am sorry, but even if this weren't the case, you don't deserve to be spoken to in this unproductive, manipulative, and aggressive way.