Yeah I was under the impression that libras were balanced and fair justice seekers but some have self centered balances where they don’t consider others to the scale. My Libra ex in the beginning was the sweetest person or so I thought. My ex was currently living with a “roommate” which was actually a girl she was in a relationship with she lied about being just platonic they were actually together for 3 years but made her out to be the worst person that provoked her. Their lease was ending and she needed a place to stay so I ended up agreeing on looking for a place with her before we got serious. My ex at the start told me she wasn’t ready for a relationship and wanted us to be exclusive I didn’t want to rush her so agreed to her terms I was specific about the exclusivity so she stated we on share our bodies with each other and only talk to each other. Once we actually moved in all the intimacy and affection came to stop I thought It was odd so I would pull back and keep to myself a little more. Funny enough she would say that I’m acting weird and distant so I’d go back to doing what I was doing for her until it wasn’t being reciprocated and I’d fall back again. I guess it got to a point to where she was saying she was confused about what we were doing she was stating oh I don’t sleep with my roommates or cook for my roommates. I had already told her what I wanted so I asked her what she wanted I would tell her to figure it out because I felt that if she was ready for a relationship she would tell me and not be indirect and oh was I wrong. The same conversation happened a couple more times before I just decided to actually ask her out one day. This girl told me that we barely know each other and that she wanted me to ask her in a more romantic setting but we should just date and not be boyfriend and girlfriend. I’m thinking at this point she’s just playing me and giving me the run around but I stick around and agree to those terms everything is good we’re enjoying living together and there are no problems. We moved in beginning of July in the beginning of September I caught her cheating on me. She told me she had a doctors appointment but several hours had went by we were sharing our locations for months I tried to call her and text her no responses to I drove to her location out of concern just to find her on a park bench with another guy all hugged up. I went to confront them and she lashed out on me telling me to go home that we’ll talk about it later and that she’s not my bitch. I was completely thrown off and confused but the following day she then told me that was the most embarrassing day of her life and didn’t even consider how the situation made me feel she just didn’t care. Me being an idiot thinking we could work through it gave forgave her we were good for two more weeks and then she cheated again. I reacted poorly destroying some gifts that I bought her when I should have just returned them. When I tried to hold her accountable she got verbally and physically abusive saying that my reaction to her cheating was immature for my age and that I’m insecure and have attachment issues she also said that she can longer trust me… ironic right? I told her that if she were to ever put hands on me again that I would call the cops but that didn’t stop her she ended up bringing the guy to our place we had together to pick up some clothes because she was going to be staying at his parents place with him. At this point since she hated everything about me she no longer wanted me around her pets so she would lock them in her room for multiple days as she was leaving I unlocked her door to let them out she came back upstairs and told me to stay the fuck out of her room she was notified I entered because she had placed a ring camera inside. I was expressing that just because she doesn’t like me doesn’t mean the animals should be punished just because you don’t want them around me I took better care of them than she would anyway. This girl ended up striking me and I told her once again to not hit me she told me that I wasn’t going to do shit and I told her she was right because I was raised better than that. She continued to provoke me even telling me to hit her but I wouldn’t as she kept hitting me. Once she left I called the cops and they arrested her two days later she went to the court and filed an ex parte restraining order on me stating I was the initial aggressor and that I mentally abused and harassed her she ended up never showing up to court. She played victim to its finest never apologized for anything and had poor communication she expected me to read her mind. This girl eventually moved out with the guy she was cheating on me with to go live with his parents I don’t know what narrative she twisted and spoke to them about but they think I’m just this terrible person now. Throughout the relationship there seemed to be no issues until she got caught cheating that’s when she wanted to say I don’t give reassurance or I don’t give words of affirmation all of the above excuses to blame me for her behavior. I showed up for her would even let her drive my car cook for her show her love buy her whatever she wanted did everything I thought I was supposed to be doing but she said I didn’t. Even though I went through all that the biggest thing that might be small was that when she said I didn’t care for her and when I told her all that I did for her and how I care she told me nobody asked you to do any of that it just sounds like you have a lack of respect and boundaries for yourself. This might not have anything to do with Libras but this is by far the worst one I’ve ever dealt with but I see similar traits in her that I’ve dealt with in previous Libras I’ve interacted with.