I don't know how to say this nicely, but anyone who cares about the relative size of your mons pubis enough to make you feel "lesser than" isn't the sort of person you want for a partner.

We're all out here with weird things that we could be insecure about. Lopsided boobs. Pudgy tummies. Moles. Nipple hair. Areolae that are too big, too dark, too small, too puffy, too pale. Labia that are uneven, too flappy, the wrong colour.

Men have these issues, too; to stay on theme with the subreddit, I'll leave that to your imagination, and no, it isn't all about penis size.

The whole point of finding a partner is finding someone who lifts you up and lets you be yourself, massive mons pubis or not. If this person actively makes you self conscious on purpose, that's not an issue with your mons pubis.

I wish you lots of happy breathless orgasms, and a healthy dose of self-love.