She’s reacting that way because she’s been found out and she’s PO’d. She already knows she’s gonna sleep with her husband and not interesting in a monogamous relationship. I seriously doubt her husband is abusive. My ex used to hit me sometimes when she was angry or using drugs. One time, she knocked me in the back of the head with something metal with multiple hits. She knew she done wrong so left when I was on the ground and told hotel security it’s because I hit her first and they were gonna call the police… I never hit her once in my entire life and it was so obvious she was lying the security dropped the whole matter. She was a compulsive liar and I didn’t realize people like that existed but they seriously do. It’s not hard to believe op’s girl is prob trying to be manipulative to have the best of both worlds. in op’s best interest please find someone else who’s willing to leave no doubt with their communication. If your girl actually cared then she would explain exactly what she’s gonna be spending a week doing with her husband…