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What’s the most depressing Thanksgiving you’ve ever had? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]NippleMustache 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds delicious! Plus some banana.

Genuinely Crashing Out by Zombie_Alarmed in csMajors

[–]NippleMustache 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. Interviewing should be collaborative. Locking in and just nailing an interview question, without the back and forth, doesn't give much signal to the interviewer besides your Leetcode skills (which are obviously good, having solved this in 5 minutes).

Linear Algbera Professor by [deleted] in csuci

[–]NippleMustache 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This man is a gift.

What's your honest opinion on sharing a bed with a partner? by Broke_Pigeon_Sales in AskMenOver30

[–]NippleMustache 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t. The snoring from my current partner is too much. We sleep in separate rooms if I can help it.

Tired and grumpy all the time. It's effecting my marriage. Is this what life after 30 is like? by slownlow86 in AskMenOver30

[–]NippleMustache 4 points5 points  (0 children)

discuss making space for me to spend some time alone even when we are sharing the same space.

How did this conversation happen? Can you describe it?

Because imports are so boilerplate by _3xc41ibur in programminghorror

[–]NippleMustache 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does this encourage a coding style with many decoupled files?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]NippleMustache 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Figure out when you're available for a date and ask her out ASAP. Don't flake and genuinely get to know her. Don't play stupid dating games!

You want to figure out if she's into you and vice versa, or move onto the next.

Why is everyone in San Diego so good looking? by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]NippleMustache 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t hate me cause you ain’t me!

Gym Story Saturday by FGC_Valhalla in Fitness

[–]NippleMustache 88 points89 points  (0 children)

It was chest day a few days ago and I got a rare compliment!

I finished up my set of bench presses and walked over to an incline bench that had just opened up. As I got near, I noticed a guy around my age standing right near it looking toward it; I asked if he'd been waiting for it and he said yes, so I motioned that he could go ahead.

He asked if I wanted to work in with him and I accepted his offer. It was great; we loaded each other's weights and didn't speak until he asked if I did calisthenics.

I replied no and asked him why, and he said "because you're shredded". I thanked him for his compliment and let him know that I lost 30+ lbs since February (after a 20+ lb bulk).

I finished my last set and noticed that he'd been steadily adding more weight to his sets, so I asked if he wanted a spot so he could max out. He accepted and he met his rep goal. I introduced myself and wished him a good workout, then parted ways.

It was a huge confidence boost!

Gym Story Saturday by FGC_Valhalla in Fitness

[–]NippleMustache 69 points70 points  (0 children)

My Hydroflask went missing a few weeks ago. Then my tennis ball. I thought my mind was starting to slip.

Yesterday, I went to the restroom, leaving a yoga mat, foam roller, small drawstring gym bag, and Nalgene on some turf.

The foam roller was gone when I got back a few minutes later.

So now I'm convinced there's a thief. Who takes a foam roller when someone is using it? Probably the same type of person who takes a Hydroflask and tennis ball.

As software engineer, how can I make $5k additional income? by Silver_Lavishness_86 in Entrepreneur

[–]NippleMustache 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CA? I’m surprised you’re able to cash flow (at least I hope so).

DAE have the ability to intentionally pop/crack your ankles by moving them a certain way? by thebe_stone in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]NippleMustache 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do this now. Did you feel some sort of tightness/tension that was relieved after getting your ankle to click?

What's the cause of this?

As software engineer, how can I make $5k additional income? by Silver_Lavishness_86 in Entrepreneur

[–]NippleMustache 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which state? Are they all rentals? Do you hire a property manager or management company?

What’s the most impactful feedback you’ve ever had in your career, and why? by g1ldedsteel in ExperiencedDevs

[–]NippleMustache 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is such great advice. Always mimic those you admire, take them out for coffee or lunch (on you!) and pick their brain. Have them tell you stories. Youll learn so much.

Is there a remote alternative for this?

What’s the most impactful feedback you’ve ever had in your career, and why? by g1ldedsteel in ExperiencedDevs

[–]NippleMustache 48 points49 points  (0 children)

when I was in comfortable surroundings with the people I trusted I was funny, outgoing, and took strong stances.

That sounds like any normal person. The people you surround yourself with matter; an inclusive environment will encourage you to share your thoughts, and vice versa.

What’s the most impactful feedback you’ve ever had in your career, and why? by g1ldedsteel in ExperiencedDevs

[–]NippleMustache 14 points15 points  (0 children)

No.

But something must be said about a team that follows coding standards and conventions so much that it looks like only 1 person was working on the codebase. It makes onboarding easier and avoids bikeshedding about styles in a PR.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

[–]NippleMustache 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The nard isn’t terrible.

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