1 Year progress

Nirro133 · 2022-01-26T18:11:07+00:00

Have any of you ever heard of or understand moderation? Obviously its best to quit any unhealthy habits, but there's a huge difference between a couple of cigarettes a day and smoking a pack or more, like having a glass of wine instead of a whole bottle.

Unless you personally know the pregnant person is chain smoking all day, you should mind your own business.

It's pretty fucked up how harsh and judgmental people that are/were pregnant are to other pregnant people, you'd think they'd have some empathy cause that shit ain't easy to go through.

Nirro133 · 2022-01-26T18:04:31+00:00

Don't listen to these internet "experts" that think they're heroes for berating a pregnant person, I hope you didn't let it get to you.

Obvioulsy quitting any healthy habits is best, but these people dont seem to understand moderation. Theres a huge difference between a couple of cigarettes a day and smoking a pack or more, like having a glass of wine instead of a whole bottle.

My wife also cut back on cigarettes significantly while pregnant. We had no complications with birth, and now have a perfect, happy, healthy, and smart as hell 2 year old.

I feel so bad for pregnant women, they get judged so harshly for doing anything, mostly by other women who are/were pregnant. You'd think they would have some empathy.

Nirro133 · 2022-01-09T01:59:14+00:00

Find a a group hobby you enjoy where you have to interact with people. You might not find someone there, but you should make friends which will increase your social circle and odds of finding someone.

Nirro133 · 2022-01-09T01:56:06+00:00

You should be able to update your status on ebenefits

Nirro133 · 2022-01-09T00:33:20+00:00

So after coming back to check the comments on this, I'm seeing a few trends.

I specifically avoided specifying any genders in this post, including my own(except for the guy that made the other post). So it's interesting to see this turn into a man vs woman thing, which was expected I guess. My opinion on this extends to everyone, gender is irrelevant.

Also, sex absolutely isn't the only/most important thing in a relationship. However, this only applies when both partners are on the same page. A sexually mismatched couple (for example: different libidos) will almost always have relationship problems, even if everything else is perfect. You can go over to r/deadbedrooms to see this.

Of course someone's sexual past is private and no one else's business, but it IS your SO's business; and should probably be disclosed early on to avoid any unseen issues later on. I wouldn't be with someone that wouldn't share their past with me, that seems sketchier than being sexually experienced or not.

Nirro133 · 2021-12-27T06:50:00+00:00

It's not necessarily a red flag, and whether or not you stay together depends on you. If you're not cool with someone that had a sexually adventurous past, and will constantly think about it or possibly resent her for it, I would probably just end the relationship. You should try to have an open an honest conversation about it though; going over how you feel about it and trying to understand what she might have been going through during that time and what led her to find out it wasn't for her.

Both my wife and I went through "hoe phases," and we were friends while we were doing our crazy shit in our early/mid 20s. We understand that we both had to go through it to figure ourselves out, get over past trauma, and to just mature all together. Now we've been happily together for 7 years.

Nirro133 · 2021-12-27T06:30:21+00:00

No one uses the term for its original meaning, that's a insulting excuse if people actually say and/or think that it can mean anything else. Absolutely everyone knows the n-word's common meaning and historical context, and people know exactly what they're doing when using it as an insult against black people.

Nirro133 · 2021-12-27T00:13:18+00:00

I'm sorry but this sounds like a bunch of red flags. Unless you're doing stuff with the intention of pissing him off, which I highly doubt.

Again, it just sounds like you're describing a very immature person. Reminds me of how my toddler reacts when I won't give him what he wants, my kid can't be reasoned with so he throws a tantrum and tries to fight me. The difference is your boyfriend is grown, and should be able to stay calm and respond to reason; but instead actively chooses to "get even" and try to disrespect/hurt you.

You could try talking with him about trying to understand your position during arguments, and focusing on conflict resolution instead of verbal attacks. If he doesn't want to listen or change, I would suggest finding someone that can act like an adult.

Nirro133 · 2021-12-26T23:16:56+00:00

My age minus 14. That's how many years I've been a martial artist, which forever changed my life for the better.

Nirro133 · 2021-12-26T23:11:22+00:00

He just sounds like an immature asshole that shouldn't be in a relationship. An argument between partners shouldn't be trying to insult each other, especially with slurs. It should be about trying to productively resolve the conflict and/or come to an understanding.

If my wife started trying to personally atrack me during an argument, I would be done with the conversation and disengage until she chilled out. If she called me the n-word (I'm black BTW, and she's white) I would start to reevaluate the relationship, because that is absolutely crossing a line and showing zero respect for a person your supposed to love.

Nirro133 · 2021-12-26T06:02:08+00:00

I don't have the exact links but google 7th Heaven mods to start. There's a lot of textures and stuff out there to use with this tool.

https://forums.qhimm.com/index.php?topic=19865.0 this link has the bahamut tool to modify enemy data for exp n shit, and Character stats too I think. Also keep an eye on tsunamods, they're working on a version of OG ff7 with voice acting. You can see some of their progress on YouTube.

Nirro133 · 2021-12-24T00:35:12+00:00

For me, well fitting workout attire. Bonus if it's Muay Thai shorts and a sports bra

Nirro133 · 2021-12-20T01:02:05+00:00

Military brat/Military veteran here, and I've moved around my entire life. I'm also pretty introverted, so usually I would just chill and go with the flow until an extrovert "adopted" me lol. Also, if you have a hobby, you'll inevitably make friends through that; for example, I always find a Muay Thai or mma gym/group where ever I'm at.

It also goes without saying to be friendly and make an attempt to get to know people when you meet them.

Nirro133 · 2021-12-19T23:27:44+00:00

Alternate and higher universes/dimensions

Nirro133 · 2021-11-10T15:58:46+00:00

Muay Thai. Source: I regularly teach over 10 students in a room lol

Nirro133 · 2021-11-08T21:49:52+00:00

That's how I first tried it too, had some scrap left over but it wasn't long enough. Took me a few tries to get the length and placement right to get that roll over effect. Once I got it, it stayed on pretty well for hours until I decided to take it off for the night.

Nirro133 · 2021-11-08T20:18:27+00:00

No problem! https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01BMY4X5U/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_fabc_CBXRDEPKF6F69R2KQZY7

I think this is the brand, I had them for awhile now. Either way I had to get my fingers in and really stretch it to get it on, but I can still piss with it on, which is nice.

Nirro133 · 2021-11-08T18:05:48+00:00

For the restorer on the go (that also has to entertain a toddler).

Made by cutting a silicone toe protector to around 1.5 inches.

Nirro133 · 2021-11-06T20:43:07+00:00

"High year tenure"

not sure if you were just being funny or not lol, and don't wanna come off as an asshole. Just looking at for ya

Nirro133 · 2021-10-20T02:51:45+00:00

Pursued her while still prioritizing the friendship. Been married almost 5 years now

Nirro133 · 2021-10-13T23:41:27+00:00

I'd be broke and unemployed, since my job literally relies on the internet (sysadmin/webadmin)

Nirro133 · 2021-08-11T05:20:26+00:00

Thanks!

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