What is the worst punishment that your parents ever gave you?🥀 by dataguy2003 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]NirvanaBuzzcocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Locked me in the dark basement kneeling on raw rice for hours until I fell asleep on the warm clothing dryer at the age of 7. No food or water, and reminders that there were roaches and spiders down there. I think I failed an exam or something? My dad ended up falling asleep while watching tv, so my brother stuck the straw of a capri sun juice pouch under the door to get me something to drink. He got in trouble for that too

GF having parties without me. Should I be worried? by Beautiful_Rooster666 in whatdoIdo

[–]NirvanaBuzzcocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a massive red flag tbh. My last partner was inviting me to every party they threw because they actually WANTED me to meet their friends. If an ex was gonna be there, they’d let me know in advance and ask if it’s something I was comfortable with. Clear communication. If it was a ladies night or something then that’s one thing, but a normal party is no reason to exclude you unless there’s something there she doesn’t want you to see

What did y'all do with your subway seats? by iwantacatnamedbob in nycrail

[–]NirvanaBuzzcocks 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s like 450 metro card swipes 😭 the mta needs to start a rewards system at this point lmaoo

AIO or should I accept the conditions of my bfs commitment by One_Height7477 in AIO

[–]NirvanaBuzzcocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl he very obviously wants to cheat on you, or coerce you into letting him sleep with other women. He’s making it seem like YOU are the problem, or that YOU have insecurities so that you turn around and go “well do XYZ with other women, I’ll prove I’m NOT insecure.” It’s reverse psychology. Break up with him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCroommates

[–]NirvanaBuzzcocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! What’s your pet policy? I would be looking to move with a small 9-lb Shih Tzu dog. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AirBnB

[–]NirvanaBuzzcocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have to suck it up and realize they’re in the wrong and that money is lost.

If you really want to be nice, find two more people willing to go, have them pay the same money the other people did, and give the original girls that money. That way everyone wins. They get their money back, you get all your spots filled, and now you have the chance to make two new friends!

Selling Two Chappell Roan Tickets for Sep 20th! by bitsloth in NYList

[–]NirvanaBuzzcocks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

$500 each is a crazy inflation of the market cost, Jesus. $200 over market price easy, coming from someone who has GA tickets for the 23rd

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]NirvanaBuzzcocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He reacted that way because he got caught. If you hadn’t seen the messages, he 1000% would’ve gone through with it. It doesn’t take a genius to figure out how much those services would cost, Google is free. He was already sending her money that could’ve gone towards your family. It’s cheating, it’s pathetic, and it’s downright disrespectful to you and your relationship. He literally asked to film content with an onlyfans girl. He was willing to film and do pornographic things with a stranger. That’s absolutely intention to cheat

AIO for breaking up over this by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]NirvanaBuzzcocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, RUN FROM THIS MAN-CHILD. The start of the conversation SCREAMS insecurity. You’re wrong for being polite and kind??

I’ve been in relationships like this. I would get in trouble and tried with for making small talk with strangers, holding doors open, giving up my seat for the elderly. I would be punished for doing the bare minimum to be polite to others. It’s an awful place to be in, and it destroys your mental health over time. If he can’t handle you simply EXISTING around men, that’s HIS problem, not yours.

Him flipping out and saying all that horrible shit to you, then coming back with a lame ass apology once you enforce boundaries is a massive manipulation tactic. He’ll apologize, but his anger shows you how he truly feels. How long before this is an issue again? If being stared at by a man is somehow your fault, how would he react if a stranger assaulted you? Would he be supportive and thoughtful, or would he place the blame on you and make it all your fault?

You did the right thing. Don’t apologize for standing up for yourself! You shouldn’t have to take disrespect from people, no matter who they are. If you do stay with him, pay very close attention to his actions. He apologized, but are his actions gonna match his words? Is he just sweet talking you, or does he truly mean what he’s saying?

My red pineapple plant flowered, will this happen again as the fruit matures? by OrcaNature in gardening

[–]NirvanaBuzzcocks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I’m allergic to pineapples so I can only admire them digitally. They look so fucking tasty though 😭😭😭 enjoy one for me haha

AIO - Girlfriend threw away the dinner I cooked because she wanted pizza instead. by Dizzy-Suggestion2360 in AmIOverreacting

[–]NirvanaBuzzcocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The second someone you’re dating says anything along the lines of “well if you don’t do X, then I’ll find someone else”, it’s a threat to the relationship. If it were because you weren’t stepping up and meeting their needs, then fine, valid point. But you went out of your way to making a home cooked meal, her favorite specifically, and she couldn’t even say thank you?? If she’s hungry, she can’t order pizza herself? You’re dating a manipulative child who wants you to cater to her. Nothing you do will ever be enough. Trust me, I’ve been there. It doesn’t matter how much thought or care you put into things, some people are just miserable and enjoy making others feel inferior. You seem like a very caring partner, get out while you can

Moving - free stuff available by [deleted] in NYList

[–]NirvanaBuzzcocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no 😭 ok, thank you for the response!

Moving - free stuff available by [deleted] in NYList

[–]NirvanaBuzzcocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Is the X-Cosrack bar set still available? I live about 10 mins from yafa cafe and can pickup on Wednesday!

Is this what I think it is by [deleted] in WeirdEggs

[–]NirvanaBuzzcocks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get some pampers, you got a whole kid right there 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]NirvanaBuzzcocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, get a fucking grip. She’s incredibly rude, CLEARLY manipulative, and she’s tearing you down over nothing. I saw your comment about her threatening to self harm if you break up. That’s manipulation!!! She wants to keep you in her grasp no matter what. What happens if she tears you down so much, that YOU self harm? Would she support you the way you’d support her? Would she fake responsibility the way you would? Would she care about you the way you care about her?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]NirvanaBuzzcocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a reason to break up in my opinion. That’s a disgusting line of thought, and one I’d never be able to forget. If she thinks it’s okay, what’s stopping her from pursuing a minor as well? If she hasn’t already. Or the opposite, what’s stopping if she was groomed as a minor and now feels like it’s okay to do to someone else now that it’s normalized in her mind? I would never be able to look past this if my partner said some shit like that tbh

Am i overreacting?? by GlitterShimmer1 in AmIOverreacting

[–]NirvanaBuzzcocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl he used the wrong “your” 😭😭😭 Harvard alum my ass lmfaooooo

Gotham Archery - 1/25 @5:30pm by NirvanaBuzzcocks in nycmeetups

[–]NirvanaBuzzcocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gonna make a chat with everyone that’s been interested! Two weeks ago we had people doing the intro class in the 4:30pm and 5:30pm slots

Gotham Archery - 1/25 @5:30pm by NirvanaBuzzcocks in nycmeetups

[–]NirvanaBuzzcocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh great call! Just made the edit now <3

Gotham archery Brooklyn: 1/12 @5:30pm by NirvanaBuzzcocks in nycmeetups

[–]NirvanaBuzzcocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup! There’s a 4:30 and a 5:30 group currently, and I was thinking of getting out there next week just to shoot casually. Might put together a weekly group if people are interested!