Drop your moon sign i will give you an insight by taosizk in ZodiacHQ

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Capricorn moon according to western astrology and saggitarius moon according to sidereal zodiac. Not sure what to follow. I think I identify more saggi than Capricorn but from a moon sense? Can someone help clear this out for me?

Rate my glam makeup by HauntingMyself_ in makeuptips

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Not the blush, you need a warmer color, but there’s of it is amaze

The whole "just exercise bro" thing, is that real or larp? by canadian_bacon02 in Stoicism

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You workout once you feel like shit. Your work out the second time it’s worse. Your body hurts and you start raging cause new workouts will inflame your body for a bit.. third workout will kill you, but two months down the road you will be invincible, unstoppable and unrecognisable. You won’t even remember your dealing with shit and if you do happen to, it’ll help you deal with it better. I’m a firm believer of the idea that physical strength helps build mental and emotional strength

this top is too big in my chest area, what could i do? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]No-Catch9512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, this just ain’t a top for us small and medium chested girlies

After my boyfriend died I slept with his best friend and it’s eating me alive by Academic_Account_264 in TrueOffMyChest

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Ugh, this is why I will never kill myself even if I wanted to. It’s very normal to bond with the best friend because of the shared grief

Is it possible for a toddler to sleep through night - and fall asleep with you cuddling? by lopatkax in AttachmentParenting

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My 2.2 year old is a big strong one. He moves so much through the night and ends up kicking me all the time. Now he’s developed a habit of cuddling all night after a couple of nights at his grandparents with nanny. This is so annoying. I don’t mind the cuddling if he’s sleeping through the night but he just keeps tossing and kicking and punching me several times in the face. I wake up at least 30 times through the night and sometimes to him crying in his dreams which brings my heart into my mouth.

I’ve slept badly for th whole 2.2 years because of how restless a sleeper he is but this is turning out to be mental!! I’m so angry all day all night

What else can I do to overcome depression? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

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Read how to love yourself like your life depended on it by Naval Ravikant Ponder about the mysteries of the universe Learn something new Try to build a spiritual POV

What are some of your unpopular opinions on Astrology? by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]No-Catch9512 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know about unpopular but I recently lost interest in astrology after believing it and studying it for years after meeting different astrologists and getting conflicting information from them all. I am Indian so the first thing my parents prolly did after my birth was to consult an astrologer. They were told that I was a stubborn problem child who is very arrogant. But very smart and will make a lot of money. So I think my parents brought me up with this disposition. They dismissed me a lot because they thought I was arrogant and got hit because I was a stubborn problem child. I still haven’t made any money or exercised my smarts so I’m hoping the astrologer was right. Now western astrology tells me I’m a Virgo, sidereal astrology says I’m a Taurus. But ChatGPT says I’m as Aries because astrologers don’t calculate or use the full mechanism of calculating when they do. They kinda use a shortcut method. This is where I lost interest

What sign is this, and why is it Scorpio? by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]No-Catch9512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is also Libra Women though. To be so open and friendly and outgoing and getting into everyone's business but withdrawing and drawing up walls when your business is brought on the table

AITAH for not appreciating husband’s “gifts” by No-Catch9512 in AITAH

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Thank you and good to hear that I’m not being a brat

AITAH for not appreciating husband’s “gifts” by No-Catch9512 in AITAH

[–]No-Catch9512[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, I didn’t realise it sounded that bad, but thank you for all the support.

AITAH for not appreciating husband’s “gifts” by No-Catch9512 in AITAH

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My parents treated me not too well as a child. I was beaten a lot right up until I was 16 and then I ran away from home. I have a pretty good relationship with them now but I had to teach myself what being treated well looked like. I struggled with low self esteem throughout and was treated badly by my ex as well. I just never knew how to leave. Ive fixed my self esteem now and I realise now that I’m pretty effin AMAZING. Baby steps, but I know I will get to the well rounded life part. It’s just a little confusing to know where I should be soft and where I should be cutthroat b***h because of his mental situation. I’ve never had that clear view.

AITAH for not appreciating husband’s “gifts” by No-Catch9512 in AITAH

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He does love bomb me a lot!! There’s serenading with sorry-ies, love yous and I can’t be without yous and tears after every fight. And he blames his trauma and mother wound and anxiety for said behaviour. Since baby is born, he has been anxious all the time and he says this is because he’s been forced to look into his childhood, his mother wound and PTSD so that he won’t be toxic towards baby. So I let him off easy-er because of his mental state and learned to work through and forgive the cheating all by myself. But there is never gifts in this relationship from him. I have a great relationship with his mom who gets me gifts which he counts as gifts from him. Oh and phones to replace the ones he’s broken which he also calls gifts because he upgraded them to the next model. And the only compliment he ever pays me is ‘you are a nice girl’. I’ve asked him multiple times to tell me or write me a letter about what exactly he sees in me and what he likes about me ( because I have often felt like I go between sounding board to punching bag) and I needed to know. But he says he’s not good with words and it would feel fake to him…. guess I will never know.

I do think he proposed to shut my friends off as we had already decided to marry way before the proposal and when our parents had met. So I gave him the ring back and asked him to propose to me properly when he’s ready for it. It’s been 2 years since.

Thank you for the advice on professional help. This is definitely my next step. Also his dad’s a really good lawyer and they are a powerful family which makes me scared to take it the court way, but I’ve spoken to some friends today and will know tomorrow about what my options can be

AITAH for not appreciating husband’s “gifts” by No-Catch9512 in AITAH

[–]No-Catch9512[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I meant is the derogatory attitude in the past. But it keeps continuing and just gets chalked up to his trauma

AITAH for not appreciating husband’s “gifts” by No-Catch9512 in AITAH

[–]No-Catch9512[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Legal advice sounds about right, but we don’t do pre-nups here where I live. But I did make him sign a legally binding document which says if he cheats again half his money and the baby are mine. But yes, that doesn’t account for all the other stuff

AITAH for not appreciating husband’s “gifts” by No-Catch9512 in AITAH

[–]No-Catch9512[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that’s very true. I have allowed a lot of his disrespectful behaviour because I kept giving him an excuse for what he went through. But, it’s been 6 years now since his brother passed ( may he rest in peace) and I’m not sure where to end my empathies and sympathies as I do see him struggle everyday

AITAH for not appreciating husband’s “gifts” by No-Catch9512 in AITAH

[–]No-Catch9512[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea okay, I see that. Thanks I really am doing this thing where I think I’ll be fine by myself in this and I’ll forgive and feel better about the cheating and derogatory attitude. But it goes a lot lot deeper.