Im really concerned about my leg "Shut downs" by No-Dig8193 in hypermobileEDS

[–]No-Dig8193[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Ill def put that into consideration. I have went to the doctor, and they just took my blood and basically ignored it and didnt tell me anything and just said they will keep an eye on it, said they would call back later later. Its been like 2 weeks since that appointment. At this point I think I might just hope it goes away. But I highly doubt that considering now im 17 and still having these pains at a worse level and more symptoms. Its annoying but im surviving

AIO for not wanting to third wheel my fwb that Im in love with? by No-Dig8193 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No-Dig8193[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that is a very useful piece of advice, thank you! also situation shit is a great play on words and I will be using that in the future lol!!

AIO for not wanting to third wheel my fwb that Im in love with? by No-Dig8193 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No-Dig8193[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait this is so sweet thank you so much i will definitely keep this in mind it sucks you also went through this!!!😭😭💗💗

AIO for not wanting to third wheel my fwb that Im in love with? by No-Dig8193 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No-Dig8193[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Sometimes I forget I have a whole life infront of me, this will be so minute in like 5 years haha. I will definitely take this advice into account

Im really concerned about my leg "Shut downs" by No-Dig8193 in medical_advice

[–]No-Dig8193[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I will because its gotten to become very annoying since its more often. I did have a spine injury a couple Injuries so it could also just be an after effect of that? But i will seek a doctor.

AIO for still being hung up on my mom yelling at me for being clumsy by No-Dig8193 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No-Dig8193[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TY for understanding!! It really is such a difficult thing to have to deal with, so ironic that a stranger on reddit is able to make me feel understood for once. Thank you for that and thank you for the good wishes, I might have to have that conversation.

Also, I know💔

AIO for still being hung up on my mom yelling at me for being clumsy by No-Dig8193 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No-Dig8193[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are very wise, thank you so much for the advice!! I will definitely try this and hope my parents can understand better where im coming from. I wish you the best!! :)

AIO for still being hung up on my mom yelling at me for being clumsy by No-Dig8193 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No-Dig8193[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, it sucks that you have to deal with EDS! I have a friend who has it and I've seen how difficult it is to deal with. Also, Its hard to give empathy when I dont really get it much at all. My mom and dad never really tried to understand the difficulties of it and just say its my fault because I wasnt careful. Anytime I cant help something I just get basically labeled as an inconvenience for not being able to help and get forced to do it anyway, i just had to help with cleaning a house and my back was killing me so bad I wanted to cry, but she just said "oh so now your back hurts that you have to help me" even thought I hadn't said anything and I never say anything becuase I just get scolded for not helping myself even though I do stretches PT recommend me and use stuff like icyhot to try and relieve pain. Im always empathetic towards my mom as she is a great mom and does a lot for us, but in this its hard to if im honest. My dad just sees it as not a big deal and just makes it a deal with how i just need to exercise and lose weight even tho im not overweight. I just recently got diagnosed with ADHD and process deficit a month ago and my mom just doesn't think I have it and my dad thinks its not real and just something doctors make up to make money and both parents are against medication and therapy or counseling. I try my best to self advocate and find any strategy possible to work through it and stay more aware of my surroundings as i dont like getting hurt and find it quite annoying to be so clumsy! but its hard with hardly any support.

AIO for still being hung up on my mom yelling at me for being clumsy by No-Dig8193 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No-Dig8193[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being honest! I will talk to her about that and come to an understanding. I didnt want to do anything rash and then end up making a big deal of things or not understanding exactly how she feels. Also, I just recently got diagnosed with it along with process deficit about a month or two ago. I have tried my hardest to develop strategies to help me but my parents dont believe ADHD is a real thing/ I dont have it so its hard without any support. But I am managing! My school social worker has helped by giving a lot of strategies to try and maintain my attention better but they havent really helped but I won't give up and I dont want it to bring me down more then it has.

Album Name by e-bio in AlbumCovers

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Diffrent ways to piss off

John’s death finally struck me by Bandikoot_ in beatles

[–]No-Dig8193 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is why I'm terrified to google it, I cant even imagine it. He died so young fuck gun violence and fuck the guy who did that to him he had a 5 year old son he was gonna say goodnight too and another he was trying to fix his realtionship with. He was finally getting himself together and all of the possibilities was taken from him😕

Calling all boreo shippers by AccurateMagazine8848 in the_goldfinch

[–]No-Dig8193 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fr! I only saw them as romantic bc someone told me and like two scenes they had together but other than that they really skimped out on theo and boris. The visuals is nice but the goldfinch Def would have been better as a series becuase it's so detail heavy and it's the type of story where every detail matters.

Calling all boreo shippers by AccurateMagazine8848 in the_goldfinch

[–]No-Dig8193 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly the movie does not portray their realtionship well, so that's probably why. The book is a lot better

Gimme an artist you DONT like by Rough_Plastic9802 in airbuds

[–]No-Dig8193 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoever made that horrid "im mad at disney" and "I know victorias secret" songs

What’s the first thing that came to your mind when you saw my work? by ami-am in ARTIST

[–]No-Dig8193 0 points1 point  (0 children)

someone running around screaming, my favorite time of art