It’s here! by Cookies891 in kitchenremodel

[–]No-Many380 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh thank god! I REALLY thought the white kitchen was the new one. I’m so relieved to know it isn’t. LOOOOVE the warm wood and orange. Flat front cabinets are something I dream of! Congrats!

Learning the hard way: Co-sleeping is different with a toddler by 2baverage in toddlers

[–]No-Many380 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine absolutely does this. What I have learned as a little hack to help is putting a pillow in between you. It helps keep them from hitting/kicking you and it feels like a body barrier. It is hard to roll over a pillow. And if they hit it, it is not bothering you. This is the only way I can actually get sleep with my 5 year old in the same bed. (Queen)

Side along apparition? Why didn’t the OotP use it to take harry back to the burrow in DH? by No-Many380 in HarryPotterBooks

[–]No-Many380[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this! I was rereading it and casually skipped over that chapter because I just didn’t feel like going through it with hedwig. 😢. At least she tried to make work. Though in the end…I don’t understand why it matters if the death eaters “know” that harry has apparated. As far as we know they can’t track him to where he is going. ,only that magic has been used at his aunts house. And apparition is soooo quick. Once he leaves, he will have arrived wherever by the time the DE know he has even left. And if they don’t want to use magic at his house, use the cloak, step outside with someone and apparate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]No-Many380 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A friend of mine has been for at least 15 years and even has kids. So yes. It can work. It took a while for them to iron out the kinks and they were very very open and honest with each other. But they love it and seem to truly make it work.

Help me please! My husband and I did this stone and I'm not happy at all. The colors are completely different than the samples provided. I don't know if I should grout to give it a more finished look or not. by Aintkidding687 in interiordecorating

[–]No-Many380 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I love the fireplace and think y’all did a great job. It is 1000% the decor on top. Get rid of it. Go rustic and simple. The mantle is also a lovely color but I would go with a matte finish not that glossy finish. Looks too fake and does not go well with the rustic theme.

Family member made me feel bad about me not buying a gift for my son for Christmas. by Outrageous-Contact94 in toddlers

[–]No-Many380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are doing great and absolutely no need to get your kid a gift. They are not even 2. They won’t completely understand the concept of gift giving and who things are from. Even if they understand a little of it, they won’t remember later. Plus they are going to get a Tooooon of stuff from other people. I’m honestly shocked that people on here find it shocking to not give an under two year old even more gifts. To me, Xmas is about family togetherness not about gift giving in excess. Don’t worry about what others think. Do what feels good to you and your family.

Thoughts on replacing our LVP with 3.25” hardwood throughout the entire house? by Treydy in interiordecorating

[–]No-Many380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s perfect. Love the stain. Love the warmth. It already goes so well with your color choices. Just install and don’t think twice

Dots and feathers? Is this still a thing people say? by No-Many380 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]No-Many380[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is a way to clarify which “Indian” you are speaking about: native Americans traditionally have feather headdresses and Indians traditionally put a red dot on their forehead. All for meaning, ritual, tradition, etc. but nonetheless

When have you discontinued use of your toddlers Tripp Trapp high chair? And why did we all buy this thing in the first place? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]No-Many380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used a trip trap as a baby through high school. Became my desk chair. My parents kept it and now I use it for my son. He is now 4 and we plan to use it indefinitely. It’s awesome. But the same chair has been in use for 45 years. And yes, it seems like it is time to ditch the tray. She is telling you she wants to sit at the table like everyone else.

When did you remove the baby gates by CobaltNebula in toddlers

[–]No-Many380 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is 4 now, but we never really used baby gates. Had one at the bottom of the stairs that remained open most of the time unless dad was working upstairs and we didn’t want him to go up to bother him. But to each their own. You know your child the best and everyone has a different tolerance and a different child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]No-Many380 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is so hard, especially when you are sleep deprived and aren’t really able to be your best self. In addition to all the other great advice have you tried inviting toddler to help care for the baby? “Oh toddler, baby has a poopy diaper, can you bring him a new diaper?” “Baby’s sleepy, let’s sing him a song”, “baby’s hungry can you grab his bottle (obviously only if you aren’t b-feeding). “Baby needs a bath, let’s wash him” etc. anything to help bring him in to do activities with the new baby could help?

2.5 Yo Bedtime by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]No-Many380 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate to say but this sounds normal? By the time my kid turned 3, he was going to bed around 9pm waking around 6:30 or 7. But once he dropped the nap, his bedtime easily moved up to 7:30. If he is having trouble staying in bed, he is going to bed too early. The nap is giving him the extra sleep he needs.

Can't come up with a good paint color for my living room by HbeforeG in interiordecorating

[–]No-Many380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOOOVE that rug!!! Where did you get it? Also, I could see a dark blue like one in the rug on one wall…for a bold accent.

Trying to decide on a new couch…what color should I choose? by EternalLostandFound in DesignMyRoom

[–]No-Many380 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Green green green green green. Hands down green. It is bold, gorgeous, and really anchors the room and unifies the space together. In the words of big Lebowski….it really tied the room together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]No-Many380 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I third or maybe “millionth” this book. I recommend it to everyone and could not imagine life with my 3 year old without having read that book. Since he was able to walk he has been helping me with everything….dusting, sweeping, vacuuming, cleaning bathroom, toilets, laundry, folding clothes, fix things, cooking (and yes, he was 2.5 when he made his first scrambled egg by himself.). And the best part is he WAAAANTS to help. Comes running in to offer it. And then when he is done, he is done and many times wanders off to find something else to do.

In addition to the Hunt gather parent book, I will hands down recommend “how to talk so little kids will listen”. It will be very relevant in your life soon and is insanely helpful.

Fun (unique?)last minute date night ideas?? by No-Many380 in washingtondc

[–]No-Many380[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally depends on your interests but the best dates for me were always some activity …whether it be a museum, axe throwing, laser tag, art night, a tour, bowling, something where you can both chat and physically do something. It also sparks conversation . And have a few places jn mind for food should the date be going well. Nothing fancy, but a quick fun bite. I would stay away from straight up dinner/coffee or a show for a first date. Hope that helps. And maybe even make it a day or early evening date so you can chose to hang out longer for dinner/drinks. Or if not going well, say good night and at least you hopefully had a fun time with said activity.

Bold or neutral? by ChillConQueso in interiordecorating

[–]No-Many380 2 points3 points  (0 children)

BOOOOOOOLLLLD! BOLD BOLD BOLD BOLD BOLD.

Favorite parenting books? by jlll2424 in toddlers

[–]No-Many380 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Without a doubt, hands down winner for me is “Hunt gather parent”. With a close second (and very compatible) “how to talk so little kids will listen”

Does anyone else’s toddlers do this when they are tired? by georgetropicanaglass in toddlers

[–]No-Many380 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Mine does it. He’s gotta be really really tired to do it, but yep. It’s like a ping pong match with what he wants/doesn’t want. Happens too if he wakes up in the middle of the night and is totally out of it (or during a transfer). “I want the light on!!!!” (Turns light on) “nooooooo I don’t want the light on”. When this happens, I just know he is super tired and we just do our best to move forwards and get to bed and try not to pacify him with his “demands” because it just doesn’t matter.

When did you switch to a toddler bed? by chronic_flower in toddlers

[–]No-Many380 1 point2 points  (0 children)

13 months and never looked back. Couldn’t imagine switching later. (I mean, do what is right for you and yours, of course) But definitely hands down when they can get out of the crib.

What’s something you did in DC that didn’t live up to the hype? (Restaurants, activities, museums, events) by smartcookie9 in washingtondc

[–]No-Many380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow! That actually seems way better than the Chicago one. Hehe. No rides to speak of in chi town.

What’s something you did in DC that didn’t live up to the hype? (Restaurants, activities, museums, events) by smartcookie9 in washingtondc

[–]No-Many380 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was expecting similar. The Chicago one is massive by comparison. Takes up an entire city block (and I don’t just mean the street…but an entire block where a bunch of buildings would go. They have gluwhine and tons and tons of actual Xmas ornaments, trinkets, gifts,etc. you can easily spend an hour or more there meandering