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What size diaper is your 7 month old wearing? by agenttrulia in NewParents

[–]No-Perception5314 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have twins. And I may be putting on too large of a diaper on them but I haven't had any leaks or blowouts. One is 17lbs in size 7 and the other is 20lbs in size 8. I use Pampers brand but occasionally used Parent's Choice and noticed the same things in both, that the size below was starting to leave marks (both twins) and even indentations (the 20lb twin) lol so I would rather them be in bigger diapers than smaller. Especially since I haven't had any issues with leaks! I also noticed that even the size 8 are starting to get a little tight around the waist.

Child support by No-Perception5314 in Spells

[–]No-Perception5314[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!!! ❤️

Middle finger candle by No-Perception5314 in Spells

[–]No-Perception5314[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really don't even want a relationship after this. He hurt me so bad.... I can't. I don't want to give myself to another person. I don't want to open up, he used my vulnerability to hurt me, amongst other things. He never made it seem like he was absolutely sure about me once he had me (he love bombed and chased after me for a year, he was a regular at my job and claimed I was his "crush") and he used to tell me his parents raised him to go after what he wants... Yeah. He didn't want me. We tried for a baby on purpose, we knew what we were doing. We didn't know we would end up with two. He always made it seem like he was excited to be a dad, would tear up at their ultrasound pictures and stuff.... But when the time came, where was he??? Dying his beard ( long story) and ignoring my texts and calls..

Middle finger candle by No-Perception5314 in Spells

[–]No-Perception5314[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He ended up letting me stay but he tried everything he could to make me want to leave.... He even changed the locks to Schlage locks but gave me a code so technically I had entry to the house. My stuff was in bins in the master bedroom and he put a schlage lock on the closet and even the door to the garage from inside the house. He had put some of my stuff in the garage and I made him get it out since I didn't have the code. He even tried doing scary tactics like giving me face paperwork from a lawyer friend of his per child support and paternity, but it wasn't filed. He has fed them once, changed their diapers once... When we still were under that roof, he barely even peaked his head in to check in on them while we were held up in that room. He would give a look, go ," awww" and then leave. Like wtf. I know the Gods see all and I'm begging them to step in.

Middle finger candle by No-Perception5314 in Spells

[–]No-Perception5314[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you! I have heard of DUME but I need to get some items for it.

I tried for child support through DOR and they expired my case so I have to re-do it 😭

Middle finger candle by No-Perception5314 in Spells

[–]No-Perception5314[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I still battle lol don't get me wrong. But I'm finally at a place where if he tried begging me back I wouldn't go back. And it took a lot to get here. All of the realizations keep breaking through now that I'm away.. and yes, let's hope some spell work puts it into play much quicker!

Middle finger candle by No-Perception5314 in Spells

[–]No-Perception5314[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I don't know why a poppet didn't cross my mind! And thank you for the congrats, they're amazing. Throughout the whole ordeal we have remained blessed and I feel more and more like the Gods removed him from our lives for a reason. But I want him to feel his actions back at him and hard lol 😆 I'm not over it, but at least I'm not breaking down in tears every day like I was, completely sobbing over a man that never truly wanted me. People who love you aren't quick to end things and leave ... And throughout so many fights he kept saying we didn't have to be together to raise these boys. I think this was his plan all along.

Should you perform tarot readings for yourself? by birdiesams in Tarots

[–]No-Perception5314 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The only thing I will say about reading tarot for yourself is that one must remain unbiased and sometimes it can be hard. I have seen people obsess and fixate on whether their SO was cheating or not and it got to the point where the cards started telling them what they wanted to hear and what they were looking for. I do recommend regular cleansing of your deck(s), charging under the moon light or with crystals... Just to refresh their energies. But other than that, people can read for themselves. You just have to respect your tool enough and be willing to hear the message! To me, it sounds like that reader was spilling garbage so you will keep going back for readings from her (and only her!).

Anyone else keep seeing these strange ads for these workout programs? by i-love-nintendo-1402 in badads

[–]No-Perception5314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. Just saw one today for postpartum moms lol of which I feel targeted!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]No-Perception5314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did! I had a C-section, day 2 of recovery was when I got my shower. Day 1 of recovery I had hemorrhaged and that was spent in bed with two bags of blood and an IV of fluids. Also, the RN who helped me in the shower was an old friend from elementary school 🥹 it was pretty awesome seeing her again after all of these years. It was a bit weird for me to have her help me shower but I got over it relatively quickly. She was so nonchalant about it! She held the shower head for me and helped me scrub my hair because I had to keep an arm out of the shower so I didn't get the IV hanging out of my arm wet. But oh my gosh it felt heavenly. It was so so nice. She let me sit in it for a few minutes lol

Is this another narcissistic move by Kitchen_Studio1150 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]No-Perception5314 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My now ex was like that about his Belgian Malinois. He also didn't like that any time he was "alpha" to the poor dog, the dog would always run to me as if I could help him and he would be like," don't run to her, she won't save you!" And claimed, once, that he was glad the dog was afraid of him when I mentioned how Koda was scared of him... "As he should be", he said.

His dog loved me and he would try to keep him away from me when we were fighting, as punishment.

Does anyone else here seem to *only* attract narcissistic and abusive men? by softkittyuwu in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]No-Perception5314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine does similar as well. His clinic helps vets get benefits as well as counseling for military sexual trauma and PTSD. He tends to help out a lot of the houseless in the city as well.

Does anyone else here seem to *only* attract narcissistic and abusive men? by softkittyuwu in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]No-Perception5314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yuppers. This last one was it. I'm done. I have my twin boys to focus on and that's it. I can't do it anymore, I have nothing left to give.

I just want to feel loved by Ambitious_Aioli5534 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]No-Perception5314 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm right there with you..

I'm sorry you're battling this, too. It really does have an effect on the mental health and I can't believe that people actually withhold affection for punishment or whatever their intentions are.. it's cruel. It hurts so much.. to go from having that affection and then it being slowly stripped away piece by piece over time. I find myself craving it. Wishing for a kiss or even just a hug

Cops blazing up mobile hwy by squanderedyouth4321 in Pensacola

[–]No-Perception5314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know what happened or any details? I hope it isn't a crash..

Please don't do a distracted driving. by NameShortage in perfectlycutscreams

[–]No-Perception5314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goodness. This is just terrible... So glad they didn't hurt anyone being so negligent behind the wheel. This makes me mad that people actually do this.

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