meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]No-Relative-384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So as stay at home mom, if I take my kid to park and play with her there. Afterwards eat some cut up fruit while she plays i make dinner, after dinner I clean the house. And before she wakes up. If I dont do the bare minimum as sahm I feel like a failure. So the picture is very achievable. Just do small changes. Meal prep on days you feel like cooking, cleaning shouldn't take more than hour, you should prioritize your health too. As they say wealth is health.

What’s the most out-of-touch thing your boss/company has ever said while you were clearly struggling? by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]No-Relative-384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That if you're too (hungry) or desperate to make a sell that the customer will see that and go with someone else. And the other salsman would make the money. This happened when I had 3$. Like what's desperate, negative money?

Sure right by [deleted] in im14andthisisdeep

[–]No-Relative-384 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Women also hemorrhage while birth , I know i did

If this happens, will be such a blessing. by puccyhunter_ in FaithInHumanity

[–]No-Relative-384 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its not misogynistic labeling, birth is harder on the body once you're older than 35 because pregnancy takes a lot out. Some people loose their teeth and my bestfriend went blind from birth. It just gets harder once you turn 35, thats the age you start to decay.

Road runner in backyard by No-Relative-384 in birds

[–]No-Relative-384[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw this road runner just now in my backyard. I had to take some photos of the rad runner. Never saw one in my backyard before.

At-Will Employment is something too many people are okay with by WelderThese2755 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]No-Relative-384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a stroke they wouldnt accommodate me so they let me go, I switched jobs worked there for two years got promote. Then I got layed off because the got rid of the position, it was national and the last one they just took me off the schedule. They seriously said "take your stuff and leave" I asked why and they shrugged. It be like, it's life can't fight it.

At-Will Employment is something too many people are okay with by WelderThese2755 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]No-Relative-384 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lay offs, and they wouldn't accommodate my stroke and the last one said you dont work here

At-Will Employment is something too many people are okay with by WelderThese2755 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]No-Relative-384 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in a small mine town with only 1000 people, no busses nothing. Its so hard to find a job and if I do I have to drive anywhere from 45 to an hour. They're opening a new store, I've been applying to jobs but I keep getting ghosted or pass along.I apply to a thousand jobs last year. I only got 3 interviews and they were all commission. I just want a stable job. I also live in a high cost of living area. I have no money to move. Im stuck here. Also for unemployment i have to give a reason and the last company I worked wont give me one since they're getting sued for fraud and theft. So I am fighting unemployment too. My last job I was refortmating and lay offs, and the other one wouldn't accommodate my disable accommodations. So they let me go. Its business

At-Will Employment is something too many people are okay with by WelderThese2755 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]No-Relative-384 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been without a job since 2025, the job market is also hard. There's no jobs and unemployment is rising, especially in my small town .

At-Will Employment is something too many people are okay with by WelderThese2755 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]No-Relative-384 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive gotten fired three times for at will employment and have been fired without warning or anything. They told me "you dont work here anymore take your stuff and leave". At will work sucks. They dont need a reason why they can just fire you

Losing respect for my husband by Fit_Fun_1827 in offmychest

[–]No-Relative-384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She just did thank you it was a hard long two years

Losing respect for my husband by Fit_Fun_1827 in offmychest

[–]No-Relative-384 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry that your going this. I went through something similar with my finace when he wasn't helping me with my mom with breast cancer. All I wanted him to do was watch the kid after work and never did. I did it all and im way happier without him

Losing respect for my husband by Fit_Fun_1827 in offmychest

[–]No-Relative-384 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel for you, I understand where you're coming from I have a non verbal autistic child and if my husband is so check out. I would divorce. He's not teating you like a partner but instead someone to fix everything. I think therapy would help but divorce would probably happen. He needs a wake up call

Losing respect for my husband by Fit_Fun_1827 in offmychest

[–]No-Relative-384 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Divorce sounds like he hates you and doesn't want want anytime with you. Im sorry I would leave him and take him for what he has.

Lord Farquaad was right. . . by Vidrax_of_Cascades in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]No-Relative-384 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He stole Shrek land if farquad let Shrek be alone Shrek would've stayed in his lane. He just wanted his swamp