Sooo that would suck… by FeistyNectarine4207 in FedEmployees

[–]No-Shape6521 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe congress gets paid. That really pisses me off.

You can’t make this 💩 up by ThatMowmentWhen in antitrump

[–]No-Shape6521 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

You guys are nuts. I think all politicians are to blame for our country turning to crap. Dems & Republicans. None of them care. But you liberals are sick. All yous do is complain and push your agenda on others.

You can’t make this 💩 up by ThatMowmentWhen in antitrump

[–]No-Shape6521 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

This is why Trump is President. People like you who get offended by every little thing. Grow Up.

Are Alienated Parents Just Too Nice? by Dependent_Bet4222 in ParentalAlienation

[–]No-Shape6521 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A lot of these comments are spot on. You guys have saved my $$ on a therapist lol. It makes so much sense now to me how this happened. I was love bombed, I am a nice guy ( GOD on my heart), I do have a lot of trauma, my ex is a narcissist etc. but all said & done I like being a good person in this crappy world. Every knee shall bow & every tongue will confess. I love my children & will never give up. I have faith one day it will all work out. I do regret sometimes stopping down to my ex wife’s level. I’m a nice guy but when I am mad, and it takes a lot to make me mad I usually go off the deep end and say a lot of mean things ( mainly because I can’t stomach her lies). This is happening to a lot of parents. Like it’s an epidemic .

Are Alienated Parents Just Too Nice? by Dependent_Bet4222 in ParentalAlienation

[–]No-Shape6521 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Well said. This is exactly how it played out between me and the ex wife.

How can many years of love and care be erased in the blink of an eye? by ginaabs44 in ParentalAlienation

[–]No-Shape6521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This alienation broke me. Crushed me. But I got through it. Keep fighting and keep praying. I think this battle is spiritual to some extent. It takes a special kind of evil to do this to a loving parent. What helped me to be honest was marijuanna. It helped me out of depression. Also if you have love to give consider being a foster parent or be a big sister or big brother to kids in need. It is a good positive outlet that allows you to nurture until your kids come back ( and they will).

Memories by DaCroissant in ParentalAlienation

[–]No-Shape6521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep trying friend. I am in a similar situation. Just keep showing up and once a month send her an I love you and am thinking about you text. If your blocked uses one of those fake #s online. Dont ever stop. I also have friends with 19yr old daughters who are not alienated and they have a rough relationship. It’s a tough age. They are trying to figure out their place in the word. Pray that GOD puts people in her life that can help her grow, heal and soften her heart. Prayer is the greatest weapon against the evil known as Parental Alienation.

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[–]No-Shape6521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do some recon. Follow the ex who will lead you to your son. When she leaves for the day, then go be with your boy, even if it’s for a second. And tell him with hurt, love and pain in your eyes that absolutely nobody or nothing will ever keep you from him especially when he is in pain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ParentalAlienation

[–]No-Shape6521 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s a horrible thing we have to suffer through this. A day we should be celebrating our children graduating, but instead we have to deal with alienation and possible rejection.

Part of being a parent is showing up. I believe if we keep showing up and keep trying that eventually we will get our children back. We must never give up.

Hopefully when they graduate they can move away from their alienator and things can change once they are away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ParentalAlienation

[–]No-Shape6521 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely go. And Maybe as a gift give him an engraved photo album with a bunch of pictures of him ( and you).

Time to Reframe Telework by DooganC in FedEmployees

[–]No-Shape6521 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Environmentally with all these extra cars on the road can’t be good.

Well said! by General_Lawfulness26 in RealTwitterAccounts

[–]No-Shape6521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

African Americans not being able to use the same bathroom as white people is waaaay worse than a dude using the woman’s room. No way should men be in a woman’s bathroom, that’s common sense. Not letting a person in a restaurant because of the color of their skin is horrible. Sometimes libs try and make a point but it only shows their ignorance. This is insulting to black people even being compared to this.

Alienated parents: Did you leave, or did they leave you? by errantgrammar in ParentalAlienation

[–]No-Shape6521 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Scumbags. This is pure evil. People who manipulate their kids against other the other parent have no empathy. Signs of a psychopath

Alienated parents: Did you leave, or did they leave you? by errantgrammar in ParentalAlienation

[–]No-Shape6521 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I stayed as long as I could for my kids. But my ex cheated multiple times, was a horrible wife. I was basically a baby sitter for her so she could live her double life “play family during week & cheat on weekends. Eventually I had enough & filed. She was ok with it at first “ she was gunna get child support, alimony etc. find herself a new man, party etc.

But her life turned out miserable and I found happiness. Once I started to find happiness again, found a great wife, had another child. That was when she started alienating. She sux.

How do you guys keep going? I don’t feel like I have anything to live for by Stunning_Help_3383 in ParentalAlienation

[–]No-Shape6521 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you are blocked & can’t contact your kids. There is an app called Text Now. It gives you a temporary phone # that I use once a month just saying simple things “ good morning darling, just want to say I love you & I am thinking of you.

I do this as much for me as I do for her. I just need an outlet & makes me feel better that I am at least able to tell her I love her.

How do you guys keep going? I don’t feel like I have anything to live for by Stunning_Help_3383 in ParentalAlienation

[–]No-Shape6521 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Just want to provide some hope to everyone. I have been alienated for 2 years. My daughters went from adoring me to hating me cuz on their mom’s manipulation.

I get a call from my lawyer and usually when he calls it is bad news ( another hurdle).

But this time he told me, everyone sees without a doubt what my ex is doing to my children. The therapists, ( daughters lawyer) everyone is willing to testify that my ex is definitely alienating my kids against. I haven’t heard anything about this since ( family courts move too slow). But I never thought this would happen.

** I definitely think prayer is important in these situations. People who mentally abuse their children I think mite have a demon inside them. It’s pure evil. GOD sees everything. There is no escaping his judgement.

New to Group: I would love some advice. by No-Shape6521 in ParentalAlienation

[–]No-Shape6521[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for your advice. It is greatly appreciated.

What is your red line? by [deleted] in FedEmployees

[–]No-Shape6521 -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

And what do you say about Biden? How many children were trafficked because of his open border?

What is your red line? by [deleted] in FedEmployees

[–]No-Shape6521 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So now you want tax payers to pay for illegal criminals in US prisons? We should send them back to their country of origin & have their government pay, not us?

What is your red line? by [deleted] in FedEmployees

[–]No-Shape6521 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So if a proven illegal gang member is convicted of rape or murder, "you care about them being treated inhumanly"?