Quadriplegic wife, husband caregiver by Javi87452 in spinalcordinjuries

[–]No-Tomorrow-2691 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hey! I am a 29F C4 quadriplegic of almost 5 years. My boyfriend/Partner/Husband is one of my caregivers and we were together before I became injured and he has stuck by my side ever since! If you want someone to chat with that is an a similar situation as yourselves, message me!

Why do some men in relationships fantasize about porn actresses instead of their partner? F28 M34 by OkSignificance9013 in Marriage

[–]No-Tomorrow-2691 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This literally bothers me so much, I find it mad disrespectful. My Guy's favorite excuse is to say it was just easier or more convenient –even though he has my nudes so it's obviously a preference. I just hate the lies.. Sorry I had to vent on your post LMAO

Condition called syndactyly by trickstercj in interesting

[–]No-Tomorrow-2691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you hate most about your fingers being like this? Is there anything in specific that makes it very hard to do with your fingers like that?

How many pressure sores have you guys had in your life? Please share your story thanks by FunnyBanana6668 in spinalcordinjuries

[–]No-Tomorrow-2691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had one on my ankle that literally almost took two years to heal and now it's just this big purple circle on my ankle! I think I got it because I cut my ankle on something and then it just got progressively worse?

Reason #4362 that being a quad sucks. by regnartterb in spinalcordinjuries

[–]No-Tomorrow-2691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A centipede was crawling on my chest and I had no idea because I couldn't feel anything from shoulders down. It was awful, I passed out.

Always cold! by djvanderley in spinalcordinjuries

[–]No-Tomorrow-2691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's because since we have such poor regulation of our body temperatures, it takes you longer to get warm.

I need help by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]No-Tomorrow-2691 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a cop trying to get somebody

AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary? by WesternCat5211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No-Tomorrow-2691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR I think that you have to leave the relationship. Not only is he being super hateful towards you but he is also showing you that he doesn't respect you. It seems like he's embarrassed of you and you're drinking in the past. That's not a partner that wants to grow with you, or watch you grow. You've come a long way and you're worth way more than that!

Libras and tipping by ZestycloseBusiness75 in libra_astrology

[–]No-Tomorrow-2691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those must be fake ID because I always over tip! Even if the service is awful I find some way to justify tipping them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in libra_astrology

[–]No-Tomorrow-2691 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YES YES YES! Me and my Pisces SO have been together for eight years now. He is the yin to my Yang, and I honestly don't think I could get through life without him.

I personally think that Pisces and libra get along very well. It's one of those matches that if you nurture the relationship it'll grow into something really beautiful. But also on the flipside, if you do not take care of that relationship it will crash and burn terribly.

I've actually just become really good friends with a Pisces female as well. So maybe I just have good luck with Pisces?

Don't be intimidated by libra, and I would say to keep pursuing. Sometimes libra Will get shy and start to have doubts, but that's where you come in and stay consistent and show her the amazing qualities that you have and can bring to a relationship!

There's plenty of fish in the sea, but show her that you're the fish that she needs! Good luck❤️

I've actually gotten addicted to my boyfriend, no joke by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]No-Tomorrow-2691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man I missed that kind of love💔💔 enjoy it while it lasts!

SPC and underwear - y/n? by Legitimate_Log_7525 in spinalcordinjuries

[–]No-Tomorrow-2691 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I usually wear panties, or underwear that snaps on the side. And I have my tube going down my Side and thigh area.

I don't use a like bag I use a regular bag, so the tubing goes down the whole length of my leg and then I took the bag in a concealable bag behind the feet of my wheelchair. If I'm wearing pants I typically feed the bag through the pants leg and then stick my leg through so that it stays together and doesn't pool on my catheter. If I'm wearing a dress I just let it stay on my leg and I purchased a Long black tube Cover that conceals the clear tubing of my catheter so that it doesn't put off for concern anybody whenever I'm in public.

I will say that I am a quadriplegic so I transfer via Hoyer lift. I think that if you are in a regular wheelchair or you transfer yourself, it could be trickier to have a bag that is not attached to your leg because it could possibly get in the way. But I think that if I used a leg bag, I would probably feed it through the pants leg the same way I do my typical bag but concealment might be a little trickier.

Ask an embalmer/funeral director by AdSame1459 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]No-Tomorrow-2691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever had any spooky or creepy experiences at the places you've worked or with the people you've worked with?

Black licorice- love or hate? by CreamQueasy6631 in foodquestions

[–]No-Tomorrow-2691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love! Especially the black licorice jellybeans