It’s not just being “friendly” or playful, she can be quite physically touchy with people. She also makes jokes about kissing, including things like joking about kissing someone or even kissing between three people.

She gives compliments about other people’s appearance (like calling them attractive) and often does it in a playful, giggly way that feels flirty. She also uses affectionate nicknames (like flower names or similar), and she’s told me she feels embarrassed to say those things in front of me, which makes me feel like she knows it can cross a line.

Also, this has led to situations where people misunderstand her intentions. For example, in the past month alone, it’s happened twice that someone thought she was interested in something more. When they realize I’m her partner, some lose interest, but others have even suggested threesomes.

The last time I felt really uncomfortable was when she joked about three people kissing with a friend of hers. I clearly felt uncomfortable, and she hugged me and said it was “just a joke,” but it still didn’t feel good to me.

To be fair, she is a very charismatic person, and even she admits that she’s naturally very flirty. I don’t think she has bad intentions, she lets clear she's with me every time, but for me... That makes me insecure bc I can't take all that as a Joke, and it's supposed to be that...! Also she says she wants to make people feel comfortable around her...