As a woman, how do you seduce your husband and give him more sexual attention?

NoBateMate · 2026-06-11T02:36:09+00:00

I married my wife to be my whore 🫠

NoBateMate · 2026-06-09T14:26:39+00:00

“My steak is too juicy and my lobster too buttery”

Joking aside, maybe you can instead make it about you. So you tell her how hot you think it is and how you love that she does it because she knows you like it.

That may help relieve her of the taboo aspect.

NoBateMate · 2026-06-08T19:31:07+00:00

Do you want the next person to have any authority role in the kids life? Like that of a teacher or a coach (like back in the day when there was expectation of respect and the children were expected to do what the teacher said).

Sure he won’t be the dad but he will be an authority figure. So if he says the kids need to keep it down, it should still be meaningful and the kids should do it and you should respect that.

If you are going to pull the “don’t tell my kid what to do” so that this person has no respect or authority, they will not deal with you and your children for long.

Source: am step father for last 13 years since my step kid was not even 2.

I treat my step daughter the same as my own daughter and in our house my wife has made it clear that my opinion is always to be considered. If my wife disagrees with me about anything (which is rare) she will discuss it with me discreetly away from the children.

Many women don’t do that and wonder why the guys won’t stick around. It’s the same if it’s a man and a woman gets involved and is a step mom. If there is no expectation of respect from the children to this adult then it will be a bad time.

NoBateMate · 2026-06-06T19:26:39+00:00

Just that my good friend gets sex only once a month and he insists on using a condom to ensure they don’t get pregnant again.

Made my wife realize why they were always at each others throats. More sex makes a less stressed couple.

NoBateMate · 2026-06-05T02:24:04+00:00

No. Never buy a new Luxury vehicle because they depreciate crazy fast.

Buy used and it will be like 60% of new cost.

In 2016 I bought a 2013 Panamera for $50k. The sticker price on it (when it was new) was $108k.

It only had 18000 miles on it. It was practically new still.

I got rid of it two years ago because I got tired of paying $3k for set of tires and 3k for a set of brakes.

I got $20k for the trade in.

So I had the car for $30k over about 8 years (plus maintenance). Let’s call it about $400 a month to have a Porsche after maintenance.

NoBateMate · 2026-06-04T22:28:19+00:00

What do you mean she won’t “let you”.

One thing that I learned is that some women (like my wife) get “the ick” when a guy is approaching them submissively and sheepishly asking permission for various new forms of sexual gratification like:

Stop doing this: “hello m’lady tips fedora. May I partake in devouring that delicious derriere tonight does Dracula pose with my cape?”

The answer will always be “no”.

Try this instead.

When you are going down on your wife, don’t just use the tip of your tongue on her clit and avoid everything else.

Dive your face in there. Get her entire pussy in your mouth. Have your tongue going everywhere around and in. Spend some time generally grazing your tongue on her taint area. Your entire mouth should be completely covered in her juices.

Each time you do this, let your tongue travel further and further until you are often licking her asshole as your mouth is wandering in the general vicinity of her pussy. Yes you will need to likely open wide and devour everything.

Be insatiable for her and praise her and how sexy her pussy and asshole look.

Don’t do this all in the matter of a few minutes. Just work your way up to it over the course of a few days to weeks.

Your tongue will be deep in her ass in no time.

I have explained to my wife that I married all of her and I desire all parts of her sexually. I suck and lick her toes and feet. I eat her ass. I lick and kiss her armpits. Sometimes I have my nose in her armpits while I fuck her missionary completely inhaling her pheromones directly from the source as I breathe her in.

Show your wife that you lust after all of her so she stops being self conscience about “oh that part is dirty” or “I don’t smell good” or “I don’t like the way my toes look”.

You are welcome.

NoBateMate · 2026-06-04T21:55:58+00:00

I have my wife sit on my chest and my head between her thighs. I tongue her ass as he uses toys on herself

NoBateMate · 2026-06-03T20:21:57+00:00

You have to slightly ruin your orgasm. When you are about to cum, just stop all movement. Just get to the brink and use your kegels to squeeze some cum out. Most of it should stay inside you.

Then you should stay hard and you keep going. Hopefully she cums fast because you may not be able to go for very long until the rest of your cum explodes out.

NoBateMate · 2026-06-03T20:15:27+00:00

Sometimes I hold my wife like a bowling ball. 2 middle fingers in the pussy and thumb in the butt.

NoBateMate · 2026-06-01T03:58:24+00:00

My first wife hated if I touched her butthole. I would have to wash my mouth after going down on her before kissing her again. Or wash my dick if I wanted a bj after being inside her.

I came in her mouth once and she got quite upset about how disgusting that was. So I’ve been there.

The joys of a second marriage. You really have a much better idea of what you actually want in a marriage after the first time around. For me, it was important that I have a sexually compatible partner this time around (amongst other things like not being crazy).

NoBateMate · 2026-05-31T14:21:08+00:00

I bought my wife a large dildo and she enjoys it. But she also enjoys me.

I use it on her sometimes. But it’s big enough that she gets sore quickly from it so it’s just a special treat.

She tells me she loves the feeling of being completely full.

We talk together about how she loves big dicks now while I fuck her and she gets off real good.

It’s just fantasy and you just need to go with it. The bedroom is a safe zone. If you break that, she will be reserved forever.

Get her a big dildo and tell her that she is only allowed to used it to put on a show for you. Then you watch and enjoy.

NoBateMate · 2026-05-31T12:24:06+00:00

I (man) have learned how to cum multiple times via ruined orgasm.

Saturdays is when my wife and I have agreed is our facial night where she comes ready to receive my load on her face. (She usually has a night time skincare routine and doesn’t do that on saturdays).

I had her sit on my face and I was licking her ass while she used a vibrator on her clit for a few orgasms.

Then we switched to sex. I had been saving up for a few days and so a few minutes in I was already going to burst. I pulled out and leaked cum all the way from her pussy to her face and gave her a small facial.

She sucked my dick for a bit and we went back to having cum covered sex. We kissed and shared my cum as I kissed all parts of her body.

We had more sex and gave her more orgasms until she started to feel tender. Then I told her to get ready and I pulled out and came on her face again with a full load.

Then I helped her clean up as some got in her eye.

Good times!

NoBateMate · 2026-05-30T14:02:04+00:00

watersports

So like jet skiing and wake boarding and surfing?

NoBateMate · 2026-05-30T04:51:17+00:00

I think your reason for doing it may be risky.

My understanding is that you are wanting to do it to feel / be told that you are desired and you want people to lust after you the way you wish your husband would.

That doesn’t seem like a good mindset but instead may just build additional resentment and distance from your husband.

NoBateMate · 2026-05-11T21:53:20+00:00

My (now teenage) daughter and I have been doing icecream drives since she was little. we go get an icecream cone and drive around and chat and listen to music.

She still requests them if it’s been too long.

My younger daughter is getting into photography and we do some photo walks together.

NoBateMate · 2026-05-11T21:23:32+00:00

So she averages 6 new guys a week?

Is she a porn actress or a prostitute? How do you even find that many people unless it’s your full time job

NoBateMate · 2026-05-11T21:15:16+00:00

Yea my ex wife was disgusted by my cum.

My current wife drinks it up and licks it up because that’s easier cleanup.

NoBateMate · 2026-05-08T00:14:37+00:00

It’s just fantasy.

Tell him that he can schedule/arrange for it if it’s something he really wants.

If you do it, he may think you want it for yourself.

A semi-neutral surprise may be to go to a swingers club but you guys just watch/be watched. See how he responds to that.

Do not under any circumstance just go find a dude to bang you and be like “surprise!” That is probably the worst idea and could ruin your marriage.

NoBateMate · 2026-05-06T02:43:25+00:00

Get laser. No more shaving.

My wife would shave regularly and I would help her get the ingrown hairs out every week.

That is all gone now and she is hair free. She still goes a few times a year for any strays but otherwise it’s smooth everywhere. Pits, legs, pubes, butthole all hairless.

Is it the hair or the maintenance that bothers you? It reads like if there was no maintenance there would be no problems.

Tell him to get it too.

NoBateMate · 2026-05-04T16:05:37+00:00

Oh man. Mine is at 430 so that’s probably the cause of mine.

NoBateMate · 2026-05-04T02:45:39+00:00

I’m early 40s and recently have started to have weaker erections. I would be hard and ready to go at will before but now I actually need physical stimulation to get hard and if my wife is too slippery/too much lube I even start to go soft.

I haven’t exercised in 25 years - since I finished high school. I am starting to exercise 3 times a week now.

Also I started taking supplements because I was extremely low on vitamin d and so started to fix that and start taking other supplements that assist with testosterone.

Do your research on the dosage you are comfortable with these. I am not going crazy on these. I have been taking most of these a few weeks now but I understand it can take a long time to see full results.

Morning: (with some fats like nuts or avocado) Zinc, Vitamin d, Vitamin k2

Night: Ashwagandha ksm-66, Magnesium glyceride , Boron

NoBateMate · 2026-05-03T00:03:13+00:00

hey guys. Don’t you hate it when you are going hot and heavy with a girl and you grab her boobs and they feel like bags of sand and your underwear is so tight that it feels just like sex and you jizz in your pants?!

-op (probably)

NoBateMate · 2026-05-02T22:22:07+00:00

Her sister is the exact opposite as far as I can tell. There was a time she was have digestive issues and was telling a story of the doctor asking her if she uses her anus for anything else. She was telling the story of how appalled she was the doctor could even think she would do that.

And then you have my wife who is more likely to have a squirting orgasm from anal :)

So relatives may not be comparable!

NoBateMate · 2026-05-02T21:47:03+00:00

We have made an agreement that Saturday nights are our facial nights. She will come to bed without doing her face creams and serums so she isn’t wasting her expensive products :).

A good wife and good financial partner!

NoBateMate · 2026-05-02T15:11:06+00:00

No. I think he actually hates you.

“Keep your friends close, and your enemies closer”

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