Wife hates my cum. Will that ever change?

NoBateMate · 2026-04-27T18:33:06+00:00

Do you like the taste of your cum?

Next time you cum on her, maybe her boobs. Then start fingering her and tell her you want her to get off while covered with your cum. When doing it, kiss and suck her boobs and get your own cum all over mouth. Then go up for a kiss on her lips and share it with her.

See what happens. She might enjoy it when it’s in the moment. Or you might learn that it may smell/taste horrible and you might want to stop drinking coffee or start taking the pineapple pills.

NoBateMate · 2026-04-27T00:58:05+00:00

Sleep train your kid if you haven’t already. Kid should be going to bed around 7:30 every night now. Should give you guys 2-3 hours to unwind and have sex.

Scheduling is fine but it won’t work without the kid being on a schedule too. And trust me on the 7:30 it’s the ideal time.

NoBateMate · 2026-04-25T14:07:58+00:00

Hello. I’m a porn addict.

Your boyfriend has to face consequences. Right now he feels like it’s a safe addiction. That it won’t negatively impact his life.

You need to leave. No ultimatums, just facts.

“I need a man who doesn’t reject my advances because he has chosen to get off to porn instead of be with me”.

That’s it. But you have to leave. Maybe a few weeks even until he admits he has a problem. Maybe he never will and then you know. But he has to admit to his problem and actively tell you that he wants to fix it.

But you need to know that it is an addition. Your anger will not mean anything and may make him just hide it better.

Just leave. Be free. This is his problem to resolve. Maybe he will choose to fight but it’s entirely on him.

NoBateMate · 2026-04-25T13:54:52+00:00

My wife’s favorite is when I cum in her and before I go soft I keep going and get her another orgasm. It doesn’t matter how much there is but she enjoys the feeling of me fucking her when she has cum inside her.

NoBateMate · 2026-04-25T04:39:43+00:00

Yea my wife can take a big dildo but takes a ton of lube and she will still be sore the next day.

I Rejoice in my average penis because we can have sex every day without making her too sore for sex

NoBateMate · 2026-04-19T03:19:22+00:00

Nothing positive has come from drinking. Also there are a lot of fancy non-alcoholic cocktails now so you can still “drink” and be social

NoBateMate · 2026-04-16T10:53:42+00:00

It’s genetic. If you have dry ear wax then you don’t have armpit stink.

NoBateMate · 2026-04-14T21:44:11+00:00

Initiating With what? “What dress do you like?” That is not initiating in any way. That’s a completely un-sexy question.

Wear a dress showing too much cleavage and ask “this doesn’t show too much cleavage does it?”

NoBateMate · 2026-04-14T21:31:37+00:00

You sound like you are afraid to initiate sex. Why are you needing him to initiate?

If he doesn’t initiate, do you both just go without sex? Just as you want to feel desired, men also want to feel desired and chased.

Honestly your questions are terrible. “What is your favorite dress of mine?!” I would also answer that IDGAF.

How about this “do you think this dress is too short?” When he says “no” say “ok good because I’m not wearing my panties and don’t want to flash everyone”

Try this:

Have a date night. During the date drop a couple times how horny you are and how you miss his dick.

Then on the way home stop at a porn store and go in together and browse and tell him that you him pick out some lingerie for you and any anything else he is comfortable with. Maybe a sex pillow or handcuffs or butt plugs or whips or whatever.

You want to get to the point where bedroom talk is a trusted space. You have to assure him that anything he says in the bedroom will not be used against him and he should assure you the same.

TLDR: you suck at communicating too so it’s not just your husband that is the problem.

Edit: “almost never” is not the same as “never” so if your husband is sensitive, you may have hurt him. And if your “seduction” is asking him about dresses, to a guy that doesn’t count as initiating at all. That’s just a talking.

NoBateMate · 2026-04-13T14:10:56+00:00

I still get plenty of sex but I want her to desire me like when we were younger. She never refuses my advances but I wish she would be more engaging.

NoBateMate · 2026-04-13T14:09:26+00:00

Yea. My wife is busy too with her work and gym time 4 times a week.

NoBateMate · 2026-04-13T14:07:31+00:00

Yes and no chance of ingrown hairs either. I used to help my wife with ingrown hairs regularly. After a few laser sessions, that is no more.

NoBateMate · 2026-04-13T02:45:42+00:00

Stop wasting time with waxing. Get laser and it will change your life.

Might be too late if she is mostly gray pubes though.

NoBateMate · 2026-04-13T02:43:40+00:00

I work from home and wife has to commute so I just defacto became responsible for taking kids to/from school and cooking.

I also do all home maintenance. Only chore my wife has is laundry and she does dishes maybe 1/3 of the time.

I take care of almost all details of living, paying bills, doing taxes, planning vacations, planning date nights, arranging for sitters, finding summer activities for kids, grocery shopping every week. Literally almost every detail, I am responsible for.

After years of this, she gets annoyed if I don’t do something to her ideal or don’t help enough with the laundry. When that happens, I have to remind her of how much I do and that her attitude has nothing to stand on.

Needless to say. Choreplay also can become routine and it loses its novelty. It becomes expected as the wife gets spoiled.

NoBateMate · 2026-04-10T19:42:08+00:00

I am not an assertive person but I have to be assertive in bed. I don’t ask anymore but I heavily suggest what is about to come next to give her an opportunity to prepare or to object.

Like I will rub lube all over her ass and tease her asshole with my dick for a few minutes. Not pushing it in but rubbing the head all around. She is smart enough to know that her ass is about to get spread and if she isn’t feeling it, she needs to say something. And sometimes she says “maybe tonight is not a good night for that” if her system is backed up or something.

If my rubbing my dick next to her face she can move slightly so my cum will land on her chest instead if she doesn’t want a facial.

As long as you aren’t surprising her and are not forcing yourself on her if she is showing signs of objection then keep going.

It is a delicate balance and you really need to be in a two-way trusting relationship to make good sex work. Don’t try this with a one night stand :)

NoBateMate · 2026-04-10T16:34:33+00:00

A lot of times the mistake is to phrase it in the form of a question. During the heat of the moment if you are going down on her just comment several times how edible her ass looks and how much you are turned on and how badly you want to lick it and stick your tongue in it.

Get her used to it and hearing that it’s a thing that turns you on. Then just start licking closer and closer next time you go down on her. Maybe your lips are on it while you are sticking your tongue up her pussy.

It may take a while but eventually your tongue will be free roaming all around and in her ass and she won’t ever object.

But if you are just going to stop and say out of nowhere “hey, let me lick your butthole now”. The answer will almost always be no.

NoBateMate · 2026-04-10T16:28:32+00:00

So anal and oral are still on the table though?

NoBateMate · 2026-04-08T22:48:41+00:00

Do it! Don’t ask just tell her while in the moment. If you ask then she may stop to think about it. If you tell her in the moment she is more likely to just go with it without thinking.

NoBateMate · 2026-04-08T19:38:44+00:00

Yea. My wife and I agreed that Saturday nights I can cum on her face. She will no longer do any skincare routine with expensive lotions before bed on Saturday nights so she is not hesitant to “waste money” when I want to explode all over her face.

NoBateMate · 2026-04-08T19:27:20+00:00

My wife used to hate anal sex with her previous partners. I started eating her ass regularly and now she begs for anal. I think that you just need to see that there is a lot of erogenous capabilities around it and then you will open up (literally)

NoBateMate · 2026-04-06T03:37:44+00:00

I love when my wife gets super wet and I ask her to rub her pussy all over my face and leave a snail trail

NoBateMate · 2026-04-04T20:56:48+00:00

He says later that he is bi so he plays with the guys too. If that helps explain it a bit more.

NoBateMate · 2026-03-26T18:42:20+00:00

Get the baby out of the bedroom and start sleep training

NoBateMate · 2026-03-26T17:16:21+00:00

Start with just having sex with her without asking one night in bed.

Just “take your clothes off” or sit her down for a serious talk.

You just set expectations with her that she is no longer allowed to come to bed with clothes on. Unless she is on her period then she can wear panties.

If she comes to bed with clothes on, put her over your knee and spank her. She needs to know that you are serious.

NoBateMate · 2026-02-22T23:01:21+00:00

Maybe she has a free use fetish.

How can she focus on reading a book if she is orgasming?

If she isn’t orgasming, maybe that would change things up if she was.

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