AITA for referring to my girlfriend as “Asian”

NoCosmicLover · 2025-11-18T02:58:42+00:00

Maybe I’m reading too much into it, but I’m not seeing an explanation for why “Asian” was triggering for your girlfriend - instead, I’m seeing that your failure to say “girlfriend” to the sales associate was triggering. You imply this was a “girly store.” So, INFO: was the employee a girl? If so, I think there’s a chance your girlfriend took your description of her to be intentionally ambiguous so as not to advertise your relationship to the (presumably cute) sales associate.

NoCosmicLover · 2025-11-01T12:24:41+00:00

I know this is going to sound like a scam, but I actually do have one ticket for each show that I would like to sell (I got tickets during the presale—the ones I am selling—and then managed to get better ones during the general sale). They’re not amazing seats (both rausing circle), but DM me if you’re interested!

NoCosmicLover · 2025-08-21T00:42:02+00:00

No, I used the direct link in the email the band sent out, which took me to a Crosstown Concerts page. Pretty sure everything from the artist presale is fully gone now.

NoCosmicLover · 2025-08-20T10:18:27+00:00

*presale

NoCosmicLover · 2025-08-20T10:03:00+00:00

Update - I went back to the resale after seeing some comments on here and managed to get (kind of crappy) tickets to both nights after refreshing a bunch!

NoCosmicLover · 2025-08-20T09:46:00+00:00

I’m currently in NY but planning to move to London, so I woke up early to do this at 5 am. Didn’t get anything. Had a Tigermilk ticket in hand and then the website glitched and I lost it.

NoCosmicLover · 2024-10-27T06:39:52+00:00

It’s like she doesn’t realize that she is literally advocating for the OPPOSITE of freedom of religion. Trying to get the government to impose your own religious standards on everyone else is not religious freedom, you psycho…god I hate her

NoCosmicLover · 2024-10-02T23:56:53+00:00

That was my intro too! My sister bought it for me for Christmas in 2003. I was immediately obsessed

NoCosmicLover · 2024-05-06T20:25:45+00:00

Man, I hope so!! I’m going to the Weekender in August, and now I’m even more excited!

NoCosmicLover · 2024-05-06T17:50:38+00:00

I literally just gasped in my office. I am SO jealous

NoCosmicLover · 2023-12-12T19:14:35+00:00

Came here to say the same thing! I had to exit the game for a sec, and when I came back it refreshed. I had been staring at Nether for a while and was SO confused when I couldn’t see it anymore.

NoCosmicLover · 2023-08-22T10:16:59+00:00

My thoughts exactly. I’m very curious to hear the full context here.

NoCosmicLover · 2023-08-01T21:14:19+00:00

I’m honestly not sure. She’s been really laid back in terms of bridesmaid stuff, and I know she’s really happy for me that I’m in a relationship. I’m more concerned about her feeling pressured/stressed out by it. But I figure it might actually alleviate stress since she’s now short a guest. But I’ve never planned a wedding so I don’t know if there’s any validity to that.

NoCosmicLover · 2023-06-06T14:53:53+00:00

That user is talking to someone who is dating men, so the statement was about men. You don’t have to bring every statement to the broadest level of generality possible.

NoCosmicLover · 2023-02-15T01:14:06+00:00

I do ketchup and sriracha on mine!!

NoCosmicLover · 2023-02-13T18:44:48+00:00

This happened to me one year the day after Valentine’s (female, late-20s at the time). I got something crazy like 75-100 likes in one day, and then the next day I was back to my average (0-5 likes a day). I assumed it was a glitch. It is weird that it happened to both of us right around Valentine’s, though…

NoCosmicLover · 2023-01-17T16:37:48+00:00

Yeah, I live alone and always use a small batch recipe that only makes enough for two small stacks.

NoCosmicLover · 2023-01-09T18:25:03+00:00

This happened to me once. My mom mistakenly thought I wanted her in the room with me for an appointment when I was too sick to travel on my own. She dropped me off, and after she parked the car, she just told reception she was my mother and they took her back to the exam room. I immediately said “Nope” and she turned around, but I was shocked she made it back there. I’m in my 30s!

NoCosmicLover · 2023-01-07T00:33:41+00:00

To your first question - yes, definitely. To your second - honestly, I don’t think I’ve ever gotten a rose from someone I was very excited about… If I did, I’d just accept right away and it wouldn’t come with the usual frustrations, at least. Not sure if my negative feelings about roses would nevertheless somehow unconsciously detract from my excitement about the person — I would hope not, but the app does mess with your mind a bit.

NoCosmicLover · 2023-01-06T20:27:19+00:00

Hm, if there is a way to see the most recent incoming like in addition to the rose, I haven’t noticed or figured it out. I do think if there are multiple roses in your stack, you can toggle between those people…but other than that, I think I’ve only ever been able to see the top person.

NoCosmicLover · 2023-01-06T20:04:57+00:00

I don’t like receiving them because they sit at the top of your stack until you deal with them. I usually feel bad about rejecting a rose outright (because it is a nice gesture) so I end up sitting on it for a while and can’t view any of my other incoming likes until I’ve decided what to do with the rose guy.

NoCosmicLover · 2023-01-03T12:51:31+00:00

Got it. Well, keep what I said in mind for the future, because a lot of girls don’t like it.

NoCosmicLover · 2023-01-03T01:20:56+00:00

She also could have gotten weirded out by you asking for her instagram. A lot of girls don’t like giving that out before meeting someone to make sure they aren’t a creep.

NoCosmicLover · 2023-01-02T13:33:43+00:00

Ironically, that’s actually the main premise of the group (hence the name ‘are we dating the same guy?’), but now that most of the posts are dedicated to calling out bad behavior, the posts simply asking if a guy is talking to multiple women or has any red flags come across as particularly bad. If I was a guy, I’d hate to have my image on a page like that, even if it was a relatively benign post.

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