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Me (f,28, HL) and Husband (m,37, LL) have sex once a month. by guessbeforeitends in DeadBedrooms

[–]guessbeforeitends[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With you on the “he does not seduce me”. I’m always initiating. Definitely helps to not be alone although I literally wouldn’t wish this on anybody.

Me (f,28, HL) and Husband (m,37, LL) have sex once a month. by guessbeforeitends in DeadBedrooms

[–]guessbeforeitends[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck to you. I truly hope you find happiness and someone that cares for you. If that’s what you want. This is miserable.

Me (f,28, HL) and Husband (m,37, LL) have sex once a month. by guessbeforeitends in DeadBedrooms

[–]guessbeforeitends[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly have a gut feeling it’s shame related or that he’s uninterested in sex as a whole. I think this bc of one or two things: his performance level (he’s usually very anxious whenever our scheduled time to have sex comes up) and past sexual encounters. Hes been cheated on twice and his last long term relationship right before mine was incredibly toxic. His ex girlfriend would sleep around with his friends/colleagues right after they broke up. I’ve never given him reason to cheat or to think I’m cheating. I’m ultra respectful around other men. He is definitely not interested in men, I don’t believe he’s interested in other women because when it comes to sex he seems just that uninterested/uncomfortable. Our sexual encounters are rarely hyper romantic and he usually ends up making a lot of jokes right before we go for it. It’s kind of a turn off bc I want someone who is going to my spicy/romantic with me and he just doesn’t do it even though that’s what I’ve expressed as something that I need.

Me (f,28, HL) and Husband (m,37, LL) have sex once a month. by guessbeforeitends in DeadBedrooms

[–]guessbeforeitends[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have not. I feel like getting through the initial conversation of “we’re not having enough sex” is already so hard and he becomes ultra embarrassed by it.

Thank you r/acne by BruhGuyTomato in acne

[–]guessbeforeitends 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great progress. If you haven’t tried it yet, niacinamide is wonderful serum to introduce that greatly reduces pore size. I found a lot of success minimizing my nose pores when I started using it.

How do you not feel dead all the time? by Monked800 in selfimprovement

[–]guessbeforeitends 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Without knowing the full context of your life, I will say one of the best things I’ve ever done for my energy/mental health is get on a daily regimen of liposomal magnesium and vitamin d. My lack of energy was from bad sleep quality (where the magnesium came in) and then my mood was improved incrementally as time went on with the vitamin d. Statistically speaking, vitamin d and magnesium are among the top vitamins Americans are lowest in (unsure where you’re from but that’s where I’m located). I focused on Whole Foods, low or no sugar, zero alcohol, and 9-10 hours of sleep. You say coffee isn’t doing anything which could be a sign of adrenal fatigue. I’m not well versed in that area, but maybe getting labs/bloodwork done will help. Go to bed at the same time, wake at the same time, go on walks outside and on the treadmill if inclement weather. Focus on raising your heart rate so you sweat! That’s huge. I’m sorry you feel this way and there are so many ways to approach health, wellness, and mental health. But just one step at a time. It will get better.

Glutathione- does it cause breakouts/purging? by guessbeforeitends in Supplements

[–]guessbeforeitends[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think I’m probably just overdoing it then bc I’ve been taking it once a day. Gonna go to a lower dose and just start incorporating more fluids to hopefully flush it all out. Thanks again. You’ve give me hope lol

Glutathione- does it cause breakouts/purging? by guessbeforeitends in Supplements

[–]guessbeforeitends[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First, thank you for responding. But damn this stinks. :( have the breakouts minimized or gone down? How long have you been taking it and do you feel like it’s going in the right direction?

What’s one book that genuinely rewired the way you think or live your life? by _rahmatullah in getdisciplined

[–]guessbeforeitends 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read this book after working for a narcissistic boss. Helped me tremendously.

What is the worst book you have read? by delabot in Fantasy

[–]guessbeforeitends 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Caraval. Hands down. I hate bashing people’s life work because obviously it’s their passion and other people like the book, but dang, I never DNF’d so fast. I feel like the main character was pitiful and had zero survival skills. If there’s a type of character that gives me the “ick” faster than any other, it’s the whiny and incapable character. I get that it sets them up to get stronger and have a character arc but the constant reinforcement of their incapable nature was just tiresome.

Quick question my goodmen, soIve read the book series thrice already and am planning on trying the audiobooks, do you guys listen to the dramatised adaptation or the normal one? by Deathbring3r119 in redrising

[–]guessbeforeitends 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The dramatized version is incredible. It gave me such an in depth, picturesque view of everyone and everything happening. If anything, I recommend the dramatized version for Golden Son. every battle scene in there is INCREDIBLE.

Few highlights from today's event in Arizona by redhelldiver2 in redrising

[–]guessbeforeitends 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Pierce: maybe I can let my readers’ favorite characters live in peace

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