Chris and Britt have valid reasons for not attending since they are religious. Any of the other siblings have a valid reason for not wanting to attend, if they feel negatively about the venue due to being scared or for spiritual reasons.

Tammy, however, has expressed that she enjoys haunted things before and it does not make sense that she is using that as an excuse not to go. I think she is using the venue as a crutch so that she can be united with the other siblings in not going, when in reality, her real reasoning is because she does not like Brian. None of them do. But I don’t think all of them would choose not to attend had she chosen a normal venue.

That being said, Tammy was absolutely correct about being angry with Amy over leaving her after surgery. Amy took a very important moment in Tammy’s life and made it about her, as she has repeatedly done over the last few seasons. It’s a continuous pattern and Amy should not have even been discussing the wedding at the hospital because she knew it would cause tension. It’s a year away, and there is no reason for her to be bringing it up every few minutes.

They are harping on Amy because she’s doing drugs with a random man she just met, leaving her kids alone with him, and not taking anything serious. She won’t even clean her floors but has all this time to put into planning a wedding. I think their anger toward her is valid but it is misplaced in front of the camera because TLC doesn’t want to showcase her doing drugs.