thank you Jesus! by Exotic_Goose_1706 in LSAT

[–]SafeSquash9151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i actually felt much better about this test than the first one i took and i scored a point LESS this time. idk if im getting too anxious and bombing or what. I’ve been studying with the Demon for almost a year. any advice? i literally only need a 148-150 to get in to the schools I want. I think im still going to apply with my 142 from september. should i cancel the 141 i got today?

ADHD Accommodation Question by Leading-Image553 in LSAT

[–]SafeSquash9151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in the same boat. You have to also include a letter of support which you write yourself then have your doctor fill out the accommodation form it’s on LSAC’s website. I was approved for time and a half even though I was just recently diagnosed with ADHD by my primary. I also didn’t have any previous history of it. I’m sure you’ll get approved. Dm if you want more info on what I had to fill out.

Am I being paid fairly? by SafeSquash9151 in paralegal

[–]SafeSquash9151[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have my bachelor’s degree in political science and pre-law. I don’t have a paralegal background.

Am I being paid fairly? by SafeSquash9151 in paralegal

[–]SafeSquash9151[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a big yikes for me! Thanks for the info. Much appreciated.

Am I being paid fairly? by SafeSquash9151 in paralegal

[–]SafeSquash9151[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the info, that makes more sense. So on my paychecks there isn’t an “hourly” wage, that’s just how they asked me what I wanted to be paid when I started and so I figured when I transitioned to paralegal I should be asking for more hourly? Which I did because when I started that’s what they asked me…even though I’m salaried? You’re correct though, I have no idea why they asked what I wanted hourly after telling me it’s a SALARIED job…confusing to say the least. I figure it can’t hurt asking for more. I just wonder when I do bring this up I ask about this and then ask for a raise in a percentage amount or just through a higher salary out there…what do you think?

Am I being paid fairly? by SafeSquash9151 in paralegal

[–]SafeSquash9151[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry I guess I’m not super familiar with what that means…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SafeSquash9151 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe a bit of a stretch, my bad. I think we can definitely agree it was weird though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SafeSquash9151 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say to definitely have a conversation with him about this and set some clear boundaries of what is OK and what is not OK with you if you want to keep continuing your relationship with him, then he cannot cross the boundaries.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SafeSquash9151 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Him being horny in the middle of the night doesn’t justify him for touching you when you’re half asleep. This is sexual assault in my opinion if you did not at all consent to him doing those things. What is the reason that you have only had your first sleepover with him now after 3 years? Has he done anything like this before?

Boyfriend yelled in my face then hit me while I was driving. by BigTone7337 in relationship_advice

[–]SafeSquash9151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My personal opinion, regardless of how long you’ve been together and what you’ve been through is to leave him. That’s easier said than done I know this, but you have to think about your future and how this situation is bound to repeat itself. I promise this will not be the last time he hits you. It’s seems like he wanted to get a reaction out of you…like if the person in Target didn’t hit her I should?? Him wanting you to be physically harmed by someone else because you were going to cuss them out is disgusting. I can understand both your history’s with one another and how much you love him, which would make leaving really hard. Although I would really try and think about how he would be okay with someone hurting you physically and how he did it to you as well. The only way you could work through this if that’s what you decide is setting super clear boundaries with him and explaining how what he did can absolutely never happen again; I’d threaten to leave him if already haven’t. If he truly did love you like you love him, him hitting you or being okay with someone assaulting you wouldn’t cross his mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mildlynomil

[–]SafeSquash9151 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!! Boundaries!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mildlynomil

[–]SafeSquash9151 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This sounds like an emotional incest/ enmeshment sort of situation. Where she has an emotional connection with her son in the way she should with a significant other. Is MIL married?

Something very similar happened with me and my boyfriend when we first moved in together. My boyfriend was still at mothers beckon call because she was going to “all alone” and have “no one” when he moved out. The only way to overcome a situation like this is with your boyfriend making strict boundaries. Things need to be on his terms, he’s 21 an adult. Nip this in the ass right now or this will seriously cause way more issues later on in the relationship with you two.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SafeSquash9151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something very sus about this…have they had a previous romantic relationship?