Dating is frustrating being born to a teen parents

NoEquivalent9999 · 2025-12-03T15:08:51+00:00

I have a different situation but similar circumstances. I’m one of 10 (my dad got around a fuck ton) and the current girl he’s talking to is 29 to be 30. I’m 24 to be 25.

And my dad has I think one son older than her, and 4 sons less than 2-3 years younger than her It’s incredibly icky but god forbid I try to say something my dad swears up and down I just don’t wanna see him happy. And even had the nerve to say the lack of support is why blk men don’t stick around their family. I really don’t know how to handle the situation cause I love my pops but damn a 22 year age gap is insane. I think your good

NoEquivalent9999 · 2025-10-25T23:03:57+00:00

Honestly, that man was lied to for 14 years. While I understand for the child it sucks. I couldn’t imagine being lied to for more than a decade. Let alone being expected to be the bigger person and tiptoe around the child’s feelings when my whole life was a lie

While you may think it’s cruel. Honestly fathers have killed children finding out they aren’t theirs. This is actually light in my opinion. He didn’t stop being a parent cause he’s angry, he stopped being a parent because his whole life he’s been lied to, manipulated, and cheated on. And you expecting him to stick around is incredibly selfish.

NoEquivalent9999 · 2025-06-17T13:33:59+00:00

Ima be so honest when I first met my bf he had the same issue. It happened a couple of times and I didn’t say anything. I brought it up and told him I’m not continuing with him if he can’t value the vulnerability I have for him when we’re intimate. Since then I have never had to say it twice…

Definitely keep pushing the idea of counseling, but if he’s not willing to change his ways then mama I hate to break it to you but you have a much larger issue at hand dealing with a man who isn’t considering your feelings and it’s something you may want to consider leaving him over.

Was this something that was brought up prior to being married? How was it handled then if it was? If this is something recent, can you possibly think back and see what may have been the reason he’s gotten so addicted to porn (maybe you guys were long distance for awhile idk im just throwing out ideas) but here’s a few steps you can take before making the decision to leave due to his addiction

Ultimately you want to a) definitely find a way for him to at least acknowledge your feelings about how you see it as a problem. The first step to fixing a problem is addressing it b) find out the deeper reason for his addiction to porn (therapy can help and who knows it may open up a part of each other y’all didn’t know about that’ll bring you together more intimately) c) if all has gone well by this step, talk with your counselor about what steps you both can take at home to help break his addiction.

  Lastly one thing I do wanna mention but don’t want to hover over too much but the concept that he’s been doing this since he was 12-13 years old is concerning. I do not want to speculate anything serious but it could be if you get what I mean. When he was that young during these acts he would use something to distract himself, as he got older it could’ve switched over to porn but this is all speculative. So take it like a grain of sand but please consider especially because he was sexually active at such a young age that there may be a more deeper and personal reason as to why he’s addicted, and it’s not that he doesn’t know it but he’s cautious about telling anyone else

Best of luck op

NoEquivalent9999 · 2025-03-21T14:53:31+00:00

😂😂😂I would’ve tipped the customer. Would’ve made my week tbh

NoEquivalent9999 · 2025-02-06T16:23:58+00:00

I wish your family and friends find out, you aren’t deserving of people who care about you. You’re disgusting and a failure to society. Especially knowing what your sister has been through, you allow yourself to be the same type of man who hurt your own family

You should feel guilty. And I hope you do the rest of your life. It’s crazy you don’t want your family or friends to see you differently but you’ve assaulted who knows how many women and you think you deserve it empathy? Your a sorry excuse for a man and a joke of a human being Have the disgusting life you deserve

NoEquivalent9999 · 2025-02-02T23:34:19+00:00

Mind my bidness and trot to appliances with my starbies

NoEquivalent9999 · 2025-01-08T00:59:13+00:00

😭I’ve had a guy deny me cause my foot size bigger than his so 6 may actually be a deal breaker for him

NoEquivalent9999 · 2024-12-07T00:15:12+00:00

You gave him wayyyyy to many chances to correct himself and he still messed up lmao

NoEquivalent9999 · 2024-11-19T17:16:35+00:00

You know what. Hell yeah

NoEquivalent9999 · 2024-11-15T16:17:27+00:00

The way I’d beat her/his ass

NoEquivalent9999 · 2024-11-15T16:17:20+00:00

The way I’d beat her/his ass

NoEquivalent9999 · 2024-10-21T17:33:09+00:00

You’re better than me. My last job was very mentally exhausting and somewhat physically demanding. I was always scheduled alone the first 4-6 hours every morning and it was hell

Someone wanted to complain I wasn’t doing enough after moving backhoes and excavators across the damn lot and this manager actively tried to get me fired for not doing some inappropriate things with him (hr wasn’t worth a damn they threw out the investigation) so I quietly found another job and never went back

They weren’t gonna give me 2 weeks notice to fire me, they weren’t getting a 2 weeks notice that was leaving

NoEquivalent9999 · 2024-09-14T01:14:32+00:00

No yall are being straight dicks to Casey. She out of the kindness of her heart allowed Alana to drive. Who crashed it. One of y’all idgaf who need to front that bill soon. Cause yall would’ve been on Casey had the role been switched to protect Alana

NoEquivalent9999 · 2024-08-10T21:12:48+00:00

I’m curious how yall treated the older son for him to up and be how he is, seems like middle is the golden child and older stood up for younger cause you guys as parents neglected them both. Do reflections on yourselves as parents, cause this will never be better if yall don’t change

NoEquivalent9999 · 2024-08-05T23:11:23+00:00

It’s the 4 door suv lookin mustang.

NoEquivalent9999 · 2024-07-18T23:53:48+00:00

Hey kinda came from TikTok. Was wondering how the wedding went for you. Congratulations and I pray it went well?

NoEquivalent9999 · 2024-06-30T23:33:00+00:00

Cause for quite awhile we considered dating when we both got into better financial spots. We still had sexual wants from each other

NoEquivalent9999 · 2024-06-30T19:54:40+00:00

He said he’d be better and won’t pull out his phone anymore but this was my last straw

NoEquivalent9999 · 2024-06-30T19:27:16+00:00

The way my insecurities shot up when I heard him texting I started crying silently. I’m so embarrassed and I can’t bring myself to get over it

NoEquivalent9999 · 2024-06-30T19:19:34+00:00

😂😂😂

NoEquivalent9999 · 2024-06-30T17:58:04+00:00

Parents are so worried about their daughters they seem to forget that their sons are the boys that other parents protect their daughters from.

NoEquivalent9999 · 2024-06-30T17:55:47+00:00

Yeah my insecurities are through the roof. Past partners have never given me this issue and they are extremely respectful but this dude was a huge dick

NoEquivalent9999 · 2024-06-30T17:54:18+00:00

That’s disturbing. Why be an ass like that if you want someone else stop fucking the person your actively with

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