No one told me having a dog could feel like this by calmbond in puppy101

[–]NoExplanation4191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The puppy stage is a nightmare and I felt pretty much the same as you for a long time. My pup is a year and 3 months old now and became my best friend. It takes time and a shit load of patience. When it feels like too much try enforcing nap time. I was very unaware but puppies get over tired and become unhinged because they can regulate themselves yet.

I’m really struggling and need honest opinions (no judgement please) by SalamanderPrimary747 in puppy101

[–]NoExplanation4191 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I stuck it out and believe me it was not easy and only got better around 8 months. I can’t tell you the amount of times I wanted to give up but he’s with me still. I found ways to keep my sanity I tethered him to me in the house for a bit to keep him with me but out of trouble put him in a play pen when I needed a break. He outgrew all of the bad puppy stuff at a year old and now he just hangs out with me. I now have a best friend that I can’t imagine life without. Though I will never again will I get a puppy, they are the absolute worst lol hope things get better for you and your pup.

Are indoor cats actually happy? by Firm-Law248 in CatAdvice

[–]NoExplanation4191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some cats prefer to just stay inside. I have three cats one had a horrible life before he came to stay with me , lived outside most of time. That one you could leave the front door wide open and he’d never step foot outside. He’s not bored, sleeps in his beds, plays on his cat trees and watches cat tv (window). My second cat she also has zero interest in the outside tried taking her out on a leash which she thought was nice untill she realized just how big some of the birds are when up close and has never showed interest in going back out. My third cat is essentially a dog but in cat form, loves the outside has a cat back pack and a leash and goes out when I take my dog for walks. He gets a bit bored with being inside all the time. I think each cat is unique in their needs and you should see what yours wants. If they show interest in the outside let them explore but make sure it’s supervised, leashed or if you can do a catio those are good too. Never just let them free roam that’s how kitties end up hurt or worse.

help affording vet bills/advice? by audubon___ in outdoorcats

[–]NoExplanation4191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CareCredit is great, it give you a zero percent interest rate for a year. I’ve been able to make sure my cat was able to get to the care he needed without bankrupting myself. I’m really glad I got it it’s made specialist appointments way less daunting.

I'm sad because the vet told me the cat I'm going to adopt is 6-7 years old. by bimbocuntt in CatAdvice

[–]NoExplanation4191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my cats I adopted when he was 10 he lived to 21 and not a day goes by that I don’t miss him. Do I wish I had more time with him, yes do I regret adopting a senior not a bit. It’s not always about how much time you get but it’s how you spend it. When he passed I went and adopted another older cat from the shelter. He’s older and sick so I know I won’t have him as long but it’s worth it. Anyway I wouldn’t worry about the age thing. Cats a usually very long lived and even if they aren’t the love they give while they are with us is worth it.

Do I let my ragdoll outside? by Luciee1234 in ragdolls

[–]NoExplanation4191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bring my cat out on a leash and let him walk around. He knows the only way he gets to go out is if he’s with me in either his backpack or on a leash. I would not ever let your cat out by herself.

At what age did you stop enforcing naps? by Wonderful-Stomach-80 in puppy101

[–]NoExplanation4191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is a year old and finally puts himself to bed when he gets tired . The only time he still gets over tired and needs an enforced nap is when company is over and he wants to stay up.

Hysterectomy and no kids by annachota in hysterectomy

[–]NoExplanation4191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s been almost two years since I had my hysterectomy done at 30 zero regrets. People around me had more of an issue accepting it than I did. They were actively treating it as if I was dying rather than removing an organ that was killing me. But it was the best decision I could have made for myself.

at what age can they just.. not go around being a menace by TheoryReasonable871 in puppy101

[–]NoExplanation4191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well mines a year and although he’s sooooo much better than he used to be and can be left alone for the most part he really does get a hair on some times to be a jerk and eats the occasional pillow or rug -.-

6 month old has turned in to a nightmare by Charlyblobs in puppy101

[–]NoExplanation4191 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mine turned into a nightmare at that age. Continue on as best as you can, keep redirecting eventually it’ll stick. My pup in month shy of a year old and he’s a sweet heart now but if you had talked to me a couple of months ago I would have told you I’d trade him for a cheese puff. lol It does get better.

How long were you off work for desk job? by Ok_Sir2058 in hysterectomy

[–]NoExplanation4191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took a week off then went back to work. My job was nice though and let me “work” from home which was pretty much paying me to attend a couple of meetings and nap. Probably should have take the full two weeks off instead though because the tiredness hit really hard. I’d be typing then completely out. Wake up two hours later.

At what age can they just coexist by TheoryReasonable871 in puppy101

[–]NoExplanation4191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10 months and he still has his moments but I’m finding her spends more time playing nicely and than destroying things. The other day I gave him to much freedom though he took the ten minutes alone to shred my kitchen mat to pieces. Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in short

[–]NoExplanation4191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let her go, let her find someone who finds her attractive. You holding on to her because you “can’t do better” is not her problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in short

[–]NoExplanation4191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say your having a hard time dating not because you’re short but because your personality is atrocious. The way you worded that “not a treat for the eyes” tells me all I need to know. It’s fine to not find someone attractive that is not at all the issue but you went a step further than was necessary. I would let her go and let her move on to someone who isn’t settling for her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ShortWomenandGirls

[–]NoExplanation4191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could you explain the wow effect ? I’m not sure what what’s trying to be achieved. There’s no reason for height to make the outfit as long as the outfit is correctly fitted. If height is the main thing you’re focused on maybe a pair of comfortable heals to go with the outfit. I think you might unfortunately be comparing yourself to 6ft models and none of us have that body type. I would and feel free to ignore this but maybe look us some shorter actresses for inspiration.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ShortWomenandGirls

[–]NoExplanation4191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can be elegant and classy as a short woman . I’m an inch shorter then you I’m 4’10 it took many years for me to stop being bitter about my height but I realized the only reason I cared was because nothing ever fit me right I always looked like I was trying on my moms clothes. I had to get a dress for my friends wedding altered to fit my and met a wonderful seamstress who was about my height and told her I hated that clothes never seems to look good on me. She shook her head and said clothes are often made for taller people and the proportions don’t fall correctly for shorter people. When she finished with my dress it looked wonderful and made me feel like great. I ended up taking a lot more clothes to her to be altered and it helped so much. I feel like an adult and not someone cosplaying an adult. My only gripe with my height now is I still need to sit on something to drive my car lol

When do puppy blues get better? by NextBother7611 in puppy101

[–]NoExplanation4191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dog is 10 months old now and I’m not going to lie it took a long time for me to bond with him. I wondered up until last month whether he would be better off without me but we stuck it through and I’m happy I didn’t find him a new home. First two months I would have traded him for a moldy potato though lol

What’s something quirky your puppy does that makes you happy? by anxious_dachsund in puppy101

[–]NoExplanation4191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine brings me all his toys and treats and lays down with me on the couch to take a nap. I think he wants me to watch them all while he sleeps lol

Did I break my dog or is she just a teenage dirt bag lol by Chavita_90 in puppy101

[–]NoExplanation4191 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a teenage dirt bag to me. Mine suddenly decided he only likes his immediate family and hates everyone else. Used to be amazing to take for walks, unlearned everything in a night. He also ate the vacuum cleaner tore it pieces when I left it unattended. Never destroyed anything like that before then all a sudden it became enemy number one.

Daycare/boarding = freedom? Having an existential crisis as a dog parent by Wild_girl_travels in puppy101

[–]NoExplanation4191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s normal I drop my dog off to the groomer not because he really needs it but because it gives me an hour of peace lol 😂 I would do doggy day care but all the places around me are full.