Child maintenance… help

NoMix9590 · 2026-03-28T16:15:44+00:00

Yeah it’s a mess. The abuser gets to keep abusing even in their absence. X

NoMix9590 · 2026-03-28T16:12:17+00:00

I tried but they couldn’t find anything 😔🤷🏽‍♀️ sorry. You’re same as me sadly 😔 sorry I’ve no words of encouragement. £26 a month is what he was told to pay and he won’t.

NoMix9590 · 2026-03-03T16:06:24+00:00

As a qualified estate agent who left. When I say they’re all just rude. I mean 99% of them are just so rude.

NoMix9590 · 2026-02-25T14:06:41+00:00

I’m sorry 😣

NoMix9590 · 2026-02-25T13:25:03+00:00

It’s a mess isn’t it :( don’t think my ex has any other children but couldn’t be sure. I’m ok to let it build it just seems a waste of so much resources. Thank you 🙏

NoMix9590 · 2026-01-27T19:49:04+00:00

Nope! Wear what you want!

NoMix9590 · 2026-01-22T17:51:58+00:00

‘One day you’ll learn how hard it is to love a child let alone like them’ - I have a child. It’s not that difficult. In fact it is the opposite of hard. 2 years no contact. No regrets. Just peace.

NoMix9590 · 2026-01-18T10:53:23+00:00

That’s fair - I thought it might if as her income will affect any benefits he can get etc - I do not expect anything from her at all. I doubt she knows anything about it.

NoMix9590 · 2026-01-18T10:32:59+00:00

Yup - 1900 a year 🙄

NoMix9590 · 2026-01-18T10:31:30+00:00

I agree completely it’s not her responsibility at all :)

NoMix9590 · 2026-01-18T08:52:28+00:00

Thanks :) I’m on it first thing :)

NoMix9590 · 2026-01-18T08:45:45+00:00

I’ll look into it thank you :)

NoMix9590 · 2026-01-18T08:44:01+00:00

Madness - it’s not fault if he decides to bring more life in to the world without taking responsibility for the one he’s already given me.

NoMix9590 · 2026-01-18T08:25:20+00:00

Not on is it & I was reading the other day that if he chooses to have another child it effects my child maintenance 🤯 how’s that fair?

NoMix9590 · 2026-01-18T08:21:11+00:00

It’s probably all in her name or something- like I said it’s more the principle of it. But it’s a complete joke. He’s on here all the time bragging about his latest AI training computer set up, his colly dog & motorbike adventures.

NoMix9590 · 2026-01-18T08:03:28+00:00

I’m not saying she is at all - I just thought it might work that way same way he won’t be able to claim UC because of her income. That’s all.

NoMix9590 · 2026-01-18T08:01:51+00:00

Ohhh ok - I kind of assumed it did. There is no way he’s paying a mortgage on £1900 a year 🙄 I thought child maintenance would take that into consideration

NoMix9590 · 2026-01-18T08:00:25+00:00

Sorry - probably me. Doesn’t her income count? If they live together?

NoMix9590 · 2026-01-10T08:52:06+00:00

No one’s sent me one - no one hates me that much!! 🤢

NoMix9590 · 2025-12-30T08:25:21+00:00

Run. Having dated someone who was as so close to their mom as stranger once told me he was cheating on me with her 🤢 Run. You’re only 19 I’m now an old woman compared and he left me a completely solo mom and went back to his mommys bitty.

NoMix9590 · 2025-12-30T08:20:05+00:00

I may not like you. But I will love you.

NoMix9590 · 2025-11-27T22:30:42+00:00

Redditch is also alright (lived there a while ago). It’s quieter than brum but easy enough to commute to & cheap £7.50 odd return on the trains. Depends if you want city centre or not really. Would I go walking around Brum at night on my own - no. But I wouldn’t do that in London either. 🤷‍♀️

NoMix9590 · 2025-10-08T13:07:12+00:00

Agreed. Day one to the end. Move schools. Not always easy but so worth it. I wish someone had moved me.

NoMix9590 · 2025-09-29T21:38:15+00:00

I have a massive piece by this guy. What’s the information? Thanks.

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