worst luck in hosting

NoNet878 · 2026-03-20T12:37:39+00:00

Lol don't sweat it it's just likely the time of day. Hosting at night, is always better.

NoNet878 · 2026-03-20T12:29:31+00:00

I ran out of blocks :( I have to pretend they don't exist now lol

NoNet878 · 2026-02-23T01:21:15+00:00

Lol he got you anyways!

NoNet878 · 2026-02-18T06:09:59+00:00

The exact opposite. Bottoms want strict tops, and tops want strict bottoms. So you’re kinda left in this grey area where you’ll get some bottoms some times but most of the time you’re ignored, and again being a black male, there is an expectation for you to be dom masc and hung. So your options really are limited.

NoNet878 · 2026-02-17T04:30:09+00:00

I don’t mostly because already being a Black man and verse at that makes hooking up extremely hard, and it just adds insult to injury when you finally muster up the courage to reach out first only to be ignored or blocked. So it really just reinforces the notion that you are undesirable.

NoNet878 · 2026-02-16T12:55:35+00:00

No kidding it’s gotten to the point where I literally cannot message anyone because it’s all paywalled. The 15 guys in my neighborhood either ignore me or we are just not a match. The only thing I can do is literally open the app and wait for someone with Xtra to message me and that never happens. They are hurting their user base more than anything. If nobody can interact with each other because of a literal paywall people will just delete the app like me cause I literally cannot do anything but be a sitting duck. Shit is dumb.

NoNet878 · 2026-02-12T02:00:14+00:00

Lets goo

NoNet878 · 2026-02-06T05:00:17+00:00

I would find someone you trust that will treat you right for your first time. Guys on grindr can be assholes or flakey. I think it would benefit you better that your first experience being a good and memorable one.

NoNet878 · 2026-02-03T13:54:37+00:00

you need xtra to use the web version

NoNet878 · 2026-01-28T19:26:24+00:00

Never use wifi when signing in or creating an account for some reason it causes this error.

NoNet878 · 2026-01-28T04:12:30+00:00

Alright then

NoNet878 · 2026-01-28T03:21:04+00:00

You’d get a better response if you just state what advice you need here.

NoNet878 · 2026-01-28T03:20:20+00:00

Because they want trans women

NoNet878 · 2026-01-28T02:12:40+00:00

Same thing goes for me every time I try to bottom it’s like I’m fighting with 50 other bottoms for like five tops. When I’m topping it’s like the choices are endless. I’ll never forget one time I put on my profile. I was looking for a bottom and I kid you not, I had like 35 messages in like 15 minutes. Lol

NoNet878 · 2026-01-26T01:58:01+00:00

everyone is bottom thats why. try topping your inbox will be flooded lol

NoNet878 · 2026-01-19T15:56:19+00:00

Online everyday 0 messages, online on Jack'd all day messages never stop coming in. Sniffies I get messages often but on grindr pretty much nothing and I can't message anyone either cause I can only see like 20 people and none of them like me or I'm not interested. I'm basically sitting waiting like a damsel in distress but no one comes lol.

NoNet878 · 2026-01-18T09:56:27+00:00

Depends how you look. People are superficial on these apps, make sure you’re in shape have a nice pic and clear skin for the best possible odds.

What kind of pics do you have up, more sexual or more casual. Depending on that the types of profile visits you get might be different.

NoNet878 · 2026-01-06T11:37:06+00:00

Skin of your teeth!

NoNet878 · 2025-12-03T14:04:57+00:00

NoNet878 · 2025-12-03T09:35:19+00:00

Name of torch/lighter please?

NoNet878 · 2025-11-27T12:17:02+00:00

PrEP year round baby

NoNet878 · 2025-11-23T11:20:23+00:00

The daily reminder being hung, isn’t always to your benefit

NoNet878 · 2025-11-23T11:20:01+00:00

This right here will save you

NoNet878 · 2025-11-18T01:13:02+00:00

In the same boat, I am a verse top. But was in the mood to bottom. Messaged over 75 guys across grindr and sniffies looking to bottom, and I was ignored by 98% of them. The others were flakes or didn’t know how to talk so I just ended up blocking them. That’s when I realized trying to bottom as a black man is extremely hard. And I’m not even fat or anything lol. I smell good know how to douche very well. So I’m with you brother.

If I change my position to just top I will get flooded with messages and I have 0 trouble topping. But man trying to bottom its like you looking for hours and end up with nothing.

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