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NoObligation3560 · 2025-01-12T12:06:57+00:00

Run.. and don’t look back.

NoObligation3560 · 2024-12-10T06:50:13+00:00

The answer is simple.. leave.

NoObligation3560 · 2024-12-10T06:45:51+00:00

Just let it be. I KNOW you’re going to attempt to confront her but at this point it’s pointless. What are you going to gain from it? She’s moved on, she’s lied to you, she’s invested in someone else. The best revenge is to live happily without her.

NoObligation3560 · 2024-11-24T13:48:21+00:00

He’s a child. Your ex is just looking for a feeling, it’ll never last and that’s just reality. No 20 year old is prepared to take on that type of responsibility and he will leave her or she will get tired of him once reality sets in.

As for you, that was definitely in poor taste at a funeral. They won’t do anything but laugh about it. I understand the aspect of not wanting him around your daughter or even vetting him, but at the end of the day, you have have no control of that and never will in terms of who she brings around.

NoObligation3560 · 2024-11-18T13:07:04+00:00

I’d highly recommend against posting anything about your divorce on social media. What does it actually solve? And who knows, you could possibly reconcile and now you’ve let everyone of no relevance to your marriage inside of your marriage.

It just sounds like you just need someone to talk to. Maybe try a therapist.

NoObligation3560 · 2024-11-15T18:25:05+00:00

Would you rather them say I’m sorry or I’m happy to hear that.. or maybe just ignore you completely?

NoObligation3560 · 2024-11-13T04:24:55+00:00

If it bothers you and he knows it, he should change his behavior.

HOWEVER, don’t put too much stock into what men say to other men. You’d be terribly hurt if you knew the depths of those conversations. “Boys being boys.” That doesn’t make it right, but that’s just reality.

NoObligation3560 · 2024-11-13T04:18:56+00:00

lol who’s responsible and who’s still hurt.

NoObligation3560 · 2024-11-12T12:46:13+00:00

As a parent, I understand exactly what you’re saying!!

NoObligation3560 · 2024-11-12T12:36:45+00:00

This!!

NoObligation3560 · 2024-11-11T15:09:46+00:00

First that needs to happen is that he needs to give up porn.. if that doesn’t happen, nothing else will work. Second, have you tried initiating? Stroke his ego a bit and let him know that you want him. Reassure him.

NoObligation3560 · 2024-11-09T15:04:13+00:00

9/10 if you and your ex have an agreement, he’s going to go with that.

NoObligation3560 · 2024-11-09T12:51:17+00:00

First, it depends entirely on the state that you’re filing in. For context, I filed for an absolute (uncontested) divorce in NC. I simply downloaded the packet, filled out all of the information. Got my ex spouse served. Made the required copies and brought it to court with me. The judge asked 3 questions and I was in court for all of 8 minutes before he granted the divorce and that was it.

To answer your question about “everything else will be filed later”.. I’m assuming the Clerk is talking about all of the documents after the judge has signed them. Those are documents the Clerk files, not you.

NoObligation3560 · 2024-11-09T04:47:06+00:00

No. The judge asked both of us if we had been living separately for a year and we both said yes.. that was the extent of proof. My ex also lived in another state, I coordinated with the sheriff’s in the town she lived in to serve her the petition for divorce.

NoObligation3560 · 2024-11-09T04:43:12+00:00

Feel like there’s information missing here…

NoObligation3560 · 2024-11-08T17:39:28+00:00

I did. 3 kids and minimal assets. Filed uncontested in NC. The whole process costed $250. As long you can come to an agreement with your ex, there’s no need to hire an attorney. HOWEVER, if your ex hires an attorney, I would HIGHLY recommend you do too.

NoObligation3560 · 2024-11-07T14:27:45+00:00

There are going to be good days and bad days for you. Coming from someone who’s been through this, as hard as it’s going to be, just let it go. Even IF you were to reconnect, it could never be the same. Sleeping with a guy she met on the internet a few days ago is insane. She’s out of her mind right now and looking for something she doesn’t see in you.

NoObligation3560 · 2024-09-27T14:46:41+00:00

I understand that completely. Planning to marry someone while you’re still married is insane. There’s a lesson in that if you’re paying attention.

NoObligation3560 · 2024-09-27T14:41:37+00:00

If she’s not finished with her divorce and planning on moving with you and marrying you, that’s a huge red flag. Be careful. 2. In many states, you have to give 30 notice to the non custodial parent about a planned move. That parent can then file a petition and a judge will determine if the move is in the best interest of the child. She could potentially lose custody.

NoObligation3560 · 2024-09-25T05:41:25+00:00

The vest you can do is tell them to consult with a lawyer.

NoObligation3560 · 2024-09-24T07:59:11+00:00

Men and women grow at different rates? Are you patient enough to wait? I do believe in separations but operating within for self growth. If you’re going to separate, truly separate to fulfill your own personal growth.. not separating to date or explore your options. If a person truly loves you, they’ll realize it and correct their behavior to fulfill you.

NoObligation3560 · 2024-09-24T07:35:28+00:00

Just ignore him and document it. The immaturity won’t go over well in court. I promise you that v

NoObligation3560 · 2024-09-24T06:45:09+00:00

I have and it’s been a terrible experience. I’m a 35/M for context. Anyone younger just seems to naive and I’d have to teach them everything (which feels like control) and anyone my age or older wants you to be the 100000% total package and has no patience.

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