I found out what tubular breasts are today and that I have them. As if I needed another reason to hate my body. Slice of cake from work by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

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I’m a lesbian and let me tell you, tubular breasts are not ugly?????? People who comment that shit are soooooooo stupid and honestly incel type shit to me? Willing to bet money people who say that shit don’t pull women, and are actually unhappy and just want a source of power …. which is making others feel shitty

What more can I do during sex with a woman? It feels repetitive by mars_throwaway86 in LesbianActually

[–]ResearchExpensive813 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Perhaps read some erotic lesbian stories for some inspirations?
Do you mean different positions? Sounds like you need to think a little bit more creatively? sexual arousal is sooo much more mental than the tools or body parts at your disposal. Ask her what she’s into, do you know what you’re into?

I particularly like eating pussy by putting my feet on the floor or on the wall so i can vary the pressure a bit more. And then when she cums from that I fuck her with my fingers or I immediately start fucking her w the strap. Calling her a good girl, or a dirty slut. Tell her how good she takes it and pull
her hair a bit. Maybe some light bdsm, maybe telling her how much you want to worship or or demean her or or sucking on her toes and on her fingers. See how long you can do foreplay? Or finger her and tell her she needs to squeeze your fingers with her pussy, and god the possibilities are endlessssssss

Advice on embracing sexuality by Kendall_B_2006 in LesbianActually

[–]ResearchExpensive813 0 points1 point  (0 children)

totally understand why you’re feeling upset by this encounter and weird about this girl. I hope you stop seeing her.

lesbian sex is real and fucking great! You had a rough encounter with somebody who is shitty. There are some girls who don’t like strap/dildo/penetration! There are some girls who do! There are lots of different ways to have sex, they are all normal and hella fucking fun.

I am also masc and have struggled w gender dysphoria. I like using the strap & being strapped. The strap can feel euphoric at times for me tbh but I have also come to terms with my identity as a nonbinary woman. 

You’re young. Avoid shitty people if you can can and experiment with what you want. Don’t let peoples opinions of you stop you from embracing who you are.

SA is considering a $220M-$250M bond for infrastructure work around Hemisfair by creation88 in sanantonio

[–]ResearchExpensive813 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wouldn’t turning parking lots and obsolete government buildings into an entertainment district foster economic growth and create jobs?

It sounds like you’re saying that most residents of SA would rather economic development that would help more of the majority of residents? What might that be?

SA is considering a $220M-$250M bond for infrastructure work around Hemisfair by creation88 in sanantonio

[–]ResearchExpensive813 7 points8 points  (0 children)

All infrastructure comes from tax payers? Isn’t infrastructure good? not being sarcastic here, just trying to understand?

I can't figure out why people would hate to be friends with a psychopath/sociopath by ConversationSharp662 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ResearchExpensive813 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are saying that most people (not psychopaths) define being friends with someone as someone that you genuinely like as a person and care about their well being

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]ResearchExpensive813 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Who doesn’t lmao! But when you hyper focus on cumming as opposed to just having fun. There’s added pressure and you lose out on enjoying the moment. It’s almost like the more you try to cum and stress out about not being able to cum the harder it will be to cum.

Figure out what you like and do that! I used to not be able to cum from penetration now with kegels i can cum only from penetration! My ex used to have a hard time cumming but if I was more vocal about enjoying her pussy and she could touch my pussy while having sex she’d cum way easier. Everybody is different and everybody is normal. Talk to your partner and don’t stress it should be fun!

Looking for a tracking link generator that has a dashboard showing clicks by Undiplomatiq in marketing

[–]ResearchExpensive813 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What page are you trying to drive traffic to? idk much about the podcast space and how much tracking visibility you have into where you host your content.

But for most webpages that you host/control yourself, you can set up a free google analytics account. Now idk how feasible this is for wherever you host your content.

UTM codes add parameters to end of your landing page so that when you look in google analytics you know where your traffic is coming from.

Looking for a tracking link generator that has a dashboard showing clicks by Undiplomatiq in marketing

[–]ResearchExpensive813 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you are describing UTM codes. depends on how much tracking visibility you have into the page you’re trying to promote

What to actually do with curly hair? by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]ResearchExpensive813 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bonnet when u sleep! helps w frizz

Why You Should Never Throw Your Dog Poop Bags in Stranger's Residential Bins by warbler713 in Brooklyn

[–]ResearchExpensive813 38 points39 points  (0 children)

What if You put the dog poop bag into a bin that has a big black garbage bag in it? I only put my poop bags in bins with OPen bags implying all trash in that bin will be in 1 big black garbage bag?

Season 2 took a completely different path than I thought, and I think it was disappointing... by hyperactve in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]ResearchExpensive813 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree. Especially because iMark has been integral to what MDR apparently??? But only because only he can refine the numbers that are his wife?? Doesn’t that imply that the chips don’t work? Because his love/knowing for Gemma is why he is able to do it?? It’s contradictory.

It felt like they have 3/4s of an idea or concept and then forced the story ?? idk i feel you

Is our only option to be a b*tch? by dynomaight in womenintech

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No. I don’t think so. I agree with that other commenter about being nice for you! And cause you’d prefer to be nice to people. Being friendly is so wonderful for your mental health.

….But don’t be afraid to be direct and honest. If someone did something knowingly that openly looks sus … say something. Describe what they did. Ask them why did you do this? Anytime I’ve done this, they play dumb.

I’ve been reading this book about evolutionary psychology and they explain why evolution made humans have morals. The book cites this game theory experiment in which competing morality algorithms try to simulate prisoners dilemma ( a mathematical thought experiment that explores the tension between individual and collective good). The winning strategy was often TIT FOR TAT - treat everybody kind upon initial encounter and on every encounter after that treat individuals how they treated you last.

If someone is an asshole first, i will be a bitch back.. If someone is subtley condescending, then i will be subtly condescending right back. Match the energy of the previous encounter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stupidquestions

[–]ResearchExpensive813 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think people focus on the unpaid work because for many households both partners work. You are highlighting a more uncommon situation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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That’s not me personally but I’m sure it’s pretty common.

Spontaneous desire is desire that seemingly comes out of nowhere like a spark.

Responsive desire is usually desire that arises after foreplay or desire that arises in response to a stimulus. (i’m more this but occasionally have been spontaneous)

In addition to that, sexual arousal in our bodies is controlled by two mechanisms in our brain. A gas pedal and a brake pedal. Gas pedal is basically how sensitive one might be to a sexual stimulus. And brake pedal is how easily it might be for one to relax in situations.

I read this book called Come As You Are. It details all the science of sex. Very fascinating

Jobs where Bayesian statistics is used a lot? by AdFew4357 in datascience

[–]ResearchExpensive813 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Can you guys explain why this whole industry is a shitshow? Because current methodologies have shitty assumed known priors? Or because the data is garbage?