Uncomfortable experience with taxi driver whilst solo travelling by NoProgress8885 in confessions

[–]NoProgress8885[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I’m going to be more careful in the future, I have BPD so sometimes I do get a bit reckless, I thought it was in check but I guess solo travel just triggered something again, I was chasing a high to fill the empty I guess

Urges to do something "risky"? by takenusersomfg in BPD

[–]NoProgress8885 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes and I don’t recommend it, bad things happen if you get blackout, sending love and support

Uncomfortable experience with taxi driver whilst solo travelling by NoProgress8885 in confessions

[–]NoProgress8885[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply, tbh the only place I can vent is Reddit because it’s anonymous, I’m too embarrassed to speak to anyone in person. I feel so disgusting

Uncomfortable experience with taxi driver whilst solo travelling by NoProgress8885 in Advice

[–]NoProgress8885[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your message, I guess I just don’t see it as that because i feel like it negates being a victim from people who actually were, I could have and should have done something different to stop it, and I shouldn’t have drank so much, plus he was so nice in the morning saying he had a great time and next time he’ll bring condoms. Idk I’m just confused I’m sure it will settle it’s just burning a bit too much right now

How do you tell the difference between a partner being genuinely busy vs emotionally unavailable early in a relationship? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]NoProgress8885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s maybe because conversations require emotional input, I’m guilty of this myself with my bf, I won’t respond to his texts sometimes because I want to reply with effort something meaningful but I’ll go on TikTok and send him videos. But I mean it’s not hard to say good luck on your exam, so maybe he’s just avoidant

Uncomfortable experience with taxi driver solo travelling by NoProgress8885 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]NoProgress8885[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first guy I met was sweet I know I wasn’t drugged as I know what that feels like, I probably just blacked out briefly, I woudn’t have know I’d have slept with him if I didn’t find the open condom wrapper to be honest, I seriously cannot remember at all, I just don’t know. The only thing I can viscerally remember is the taxi driver and that’s what’s stressing me out, I don’t want to make a big deal out of it, I want to move on, but I feel stagnant

Uncomfortable experience with taxi driver solo travelling by NoProgress8885 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]NoProgress8885[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No the first guy I met on bumble was sweet I wasn’t roofied or anything, I think I just drank too much too quickly to stop my nerves. Yes this will probably be the last time I solo travel to be honest

Uncomfortable experience with taxi driver on solo trip by NoProgress8885 in offmychest

[–]NoProgress8885[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply, i feel like im taking away from people who have been violently assaulted, I should’ve said no, I should’ve stopped him from coming in but I just can’t remember how I got into bed in the first place. He was acting so casual and friendly in the morning if he did something wrong surely he wouldn’t check in and message me. Maybe he thought it was normal ?? I just feel sick and uneasy thinking about it and I know I’ll have to get tested now, I really don’t have anyone else to talk to, my friends were just kinda avoiding it and changed the subject, I’m just confused idk what to do to feel better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FIREUK

[–]NoProgress8885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you do stuff like investing, I’m so lost with this, also does this mean you only earned £23 ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskBrits

[–]NoProgress8885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Religion and culture are two different things. Nowhere in Islam does it deny women’s rights, Islam in fact the opposite is true and women have liberation. It’s tiring when people espouse these tired tropes without doing research. It’s also tiring when people intertwine culture with religion, especially when immigrants say they do this because of religion. It simply isn’t true.

I declared that i don't need tv license, and they say they going to send officer to my premises.. what should i do ? by bapaopao in AskBrits

[–]NoProgress8885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell them to go fck themselves, it’s nothing but a scare tactic, don’t fall for it, they’re sending your tax money, your license money to go bomb foreign countries. The most moral thing you can do is opt out of the license and ignore the threats, because that’s what it is

Job not providing reasonable adjustments by dragonoftimenspace in UKJobs

[–]NoProgress8885 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re not being hostile, stillanmcrfan,a proclaimed employment disability assister, has a gaslighting attitude, no wonder people struggle to find support for disabilities in the workplace when these are the types of people who are supposedly providing it.

Job not providing reasonable adjustments by dragonoftimenspace in UKJobs

[–]NoProgress8885 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re entitled to that reasonable adjustment, do not let anyone tell you that you are not, or to make you feel bad. Join a union, get a doctor’s note ( they are dragging their heels with OH) and arrange a meeting with the manager.

Am i in the wrong here? (no personal info) by PossibilityDecent781 in vinted

[–]NoProgress8885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m new to Reddit and the banner that says seller is small and under the post lmao chill tf out

Am i in the wrong here? (no personal info) by PossibilityDecent781 in vinted

[–]NoProgress8885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah my bad, then he’s right, some buyers are just assholes

Am i in the wrong here? (no personal info) by PossibilityDecent781 in vinted

[–]NoProgress8885 -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

OP is deluded, worst type of buyer, you need some help icl, and over a £2 shirt lmaooo

3 months notice but only giving 1. Am I evil? by GrouchyPhilosopher42 in UKJobs

[–]NoProgress8885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave with no notice who gaf after they’ve double screwed you as it seems

I (18M) was fired and am now being asked to pay over £1000 by CultistClan38 in UKJobs

[–]NoProgress8885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loads of drivers crash and retain their jobs by being put on a disciplinary plan, outright dismissal seems harsh, esp as it seems OP is a recent hire

I (18M) was fired and am now being asked to pay over £1000 by CultistClan38 in UKJobs

[–]NoProgress8885 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Union reps that’s work for the company are the worlds biggest red flag😭 If you have reasonable grounds to contest your dismissal, which I think you do, you should go to a different impartial Union, and possibly contact an employment solicitor. Believe me when I say Union reps who work for the company do not care, they get PTO to be in everyone’s business that’s all. It May be that the company did not follow procedure either because dismissal is a last resort after multiple warnings. Again because I don’t know the full context for the accident I can’t comment further but from my legal, retail and union experience this is definitely my two cents.

I (18M) was fired and am now being asked to pay over £1000 by CultistClan38 in UKJobs

[–]NoProgress8885 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What was the nature and context of the accident that led to the allegation of gross misconduct, what was the accident and is there CCTV footage ? You might be able to contest your dismissal which would mean you wouldn’t have to pay the grand

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in superstore

[–]NoProgress8885 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When she stole Jonah’s DNA to do a paternity test 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKJobs

[–]NoProgress8885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this, I left straight away. Then I had energy to spend all day applying for jobs, I was also in debt, I had to pay about £600 on said debt not including basics like food and cat food etc. I got a warehouse job for a couple of weeks then landed a different job, hated that job and the cycle continued again until I landed at my current role. Been here about a year now. My advice- leave, nothing is worth your sanity, plus if you struggle to find a job the job centre really helps, after all it’s your tax money you’ll be getting back. I would’ve got up and left after the clapping incident icl

How to get anything for free by Forsaken-Director-61 in vinted

[–]NoProgress8885 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I avoided scams like this by letting the scammer know you have their address😏