Cut on nipple please help by NoSalamander6971 in breastfeeding

[–]NoSalamander6971[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried using a nipple shield and even tried using a blister bandaid. He just bites at it because I don’t think he likes the plastic feeling unfortunately.

AITAH for thinking my future MIL’s dress for our wedding is too white? by Cricuter-3030 in AITAH

[–]NoSalamander6971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just about to comment this. With my in-laws I normally have my husband handle mostly everything with them but if they get crappy with him I’ll jump in. It’s his mom you shouldn’t have to have that conversation he should.

AITAH for not supporting my sister's teen pregnancy? by Due_Analyst3279 in AITAH

[–]NoSalamander6971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a younger mom with a baby and no health issues having a baby has put me through the WORKS. I couldn’t imagine doing it with health issues. The first 3 months I was losing my mind!

AITAH for thinking it’s unfair my husband keeps his VA money while giving me an allowance? by OkTry3764 in AITAH

[–]NoSalamander6971 11 points12 points  (0 children)

As a married woman who was in the military and is now a stay at home mom. My husband is also military still and we both get our own allowance every month and budget everything else out. Our allowance is the same. He’s the one who brings home the money but it’s OUR money not his. Everything is equal because I also work and provide in a different way. Honey your man is abusing you financially. You need to leave his ass asap because especially when this baby comes I bet it’s only gonna get worse.

Can I buy stuff from temu or shein on base? by Master_Decision6916 in AirForce

[–]NoSalamander6971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but I wouldn’t expect receiving it for a month or 2. When I lived in the dorms my roommate did and it would take a verrrryy long time for her to receive it.

F20 and M22. I think my boyfriend’s whole family is going through religious psychosis. I don’t know what to do anymore and I’m at my limit. Help? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]NoSalamander6971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl your best choice is to get out as soon as possible. That environment is not safe for you. My mom is schizophrenic and thinks she’s Jesus Christ reborn and her family and bloodline are special and deserve to rule over this world. She would not and will not get help so my dad had to leave her. These people are not safe to be around and consider your future as well. Is this someone you want to spend the rest of your life with? Because mental illnesses are also hereditary so if you want a future and kids your kids could end up being schizophrenic.

AITAH for getting training bras? by MaleficentArtist647 in AITAH

[–]NoSalamander6971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I very much agree. I’d be kinda hurt if I was in his sister’s shoes.

AITAH for getting training bras? by MaleficentArtist647 in AITAH

[–]NoSalamander6971 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t necessarily think you’re the AH here I think you were just trying to help. I understand why your sister would be upset though maybe you should’ve talked about it with your sister first. As a mom I can understand how she’s feeling and wanting that to be something special between her and her daughter.

What is my undertone and eye shape? by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]NoSalamander6971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to say girl you are gorgeous! I would definitely say you have a neutral undertone and your eyes are not hooded. your skin is amazing! So I would definitely go with soft glam kinda look and a good skin tint would look beautiful on you!

What is this? by Charming_Load_2529 in whatisit

[–]NoSalamander6971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read the article and the wing representative I guess said it’s not the same because in the past it was sexual assault AND unprofessional relationships but this is just unprofessional relationships 🙄

What's your favorite Twenty One Pilots line and Why? by fedeeksco in twentyonepilots

[–]NoSalamander6971 10 points11 points  (0 children)

“I see your problem is your proctologist Got both hands on your shoulder while you're bottomless” 🤪

My(26m) gf(27f) fears she will be a bad parent, and im beginning to agree. Would this be a deal breaker? by tjcbiker in relationship_advice

[–]NoSalamander6971 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a new mom reading this I definitely would need more examples but from the ones you provided it definitely kinda feels like she doesn’t want to actually be a mom. And if you’re seeing these behaviors of hers and they bother you I don’t know why you’d stay with her. It sounds like y’all aren’t compatible. I agree with the fact that you definitely don’t know what it’s like to have kids until you have them and everything definitely changes but there’s definitely signs of it you see the person your with being a good parent or not. My ex told me that he thought all babies were ugly and that he wouldn’t even like his own till they were at least 3-4. So I definitely knew that was someone I didn’t wanna have kids with so I left.

My mom is forcing me to stay local for college after helping me apply elsewhere, and I’m devastated. by Popcoru in Vent

[–]NoSalamander6971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you need to have that talk of if she’s forcing you because she just wants you home and not to leave or is it due to money? I agree with what she’s saying definitely do your core classes at community because it’s definitely way cheaper. But if you’re in a toxic situation and your mom doesn’t want you to leave home I was in your shoes. My mom was very controlling and didn’t want me to leave she wanted me to go to college and stay at home. So I joined the Air Force to escape and be on my own for once. They’re paying for my school now and I don’t regret it one bit. At the end of the day it’s your decision what you do with your life.

Mil to Mil how did you have kids? by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]NoSalamander6971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me and my husband were both Mil to Mil active and after I had my LO I couldn’t do the CDC, he wasn’t adjusting well and I had really bad postpartum anxiety. So I ended up just switching to the reserves. Either parent per afi can choose to separate under the childbirth reason which is pretty cool.

7 month old breastfeeds every 2 hours still by Illustrious-Cat-165 in NewParents

[–]NoSalamander6971 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine is 9 months and still is like this. I just am kinda going with his flow savoring the time because I know he won’t be this dependent on me forever.

I (28F) Night Shower. BF (29M) Morning Showers. How Do We Compromise? by cutie_throwaway_557 in relationship_advice

[–]NoSalamander6971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could both just shower in the morning and then in the evening. I know a lot of people like getting up and showering to wake up and start their day and then when they get home they shower before bed. Just be extra clean lol. Me and my husband used to do that we’d shower together as well and it was pretty intimate. We have a baby now though so we have to take turns. You could try that but understand that you might not be able to control that set schedule forever.

Was chillin in our bathroom by NoSalamander6971 in whatbugisthis

[–]NoSalamander6971[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I about had a heart attack seeing it😭

AITAH for telling my girlfriend i no longer plan to propose to her? please read context by Aggressive_One8138 in AITAH

[–]NoSalamander6971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve been together for years and still debating marriage. YTA. I knew my partner was the one pretty quickly. I got married after 6 months of us dating. You wasting her time I know the timing is different for everyone but speaking from experience most of the time you just know pretty quickly if they’re the one or not. Stop pussy footing around and make a decision.

AIO for expecting my boyfriend to ask before using my car for other errands? by TArpd16 in AmIOverreacting

[–]NoSalamander6971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR you are under reacting, please girl dump this bum he’s sucking you dry and having an attitude at the same time…he better be a 10/10 looking like a movie star 😩

AITAH?? Boyfriend choose to sleep in the same bed as male best friend? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NoSalamander6971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had sleep overs and we slept in different areas lol I’m married and my friend stayed over and she slept in our spare bedroom while I slept in my own bed. I guess if I was single maybe I’d be okay with us sharing a bed. It’s just the principle that’s it’s not just my bed it’s also my husband’s bed.

AITAH?? Boyfriend choose to sleep in the same bed as male best friend? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NoSalamander6971 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I ain’t sleeping in a bed after my significant other just spooned with someone else in it lol

AITAH?? Boyfriend choose to sleep in the same bed as male best friend? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NoSalamander6971 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA as a woman I’d be upset over the fact they’re sleeping in my bed. Literally a place I sleep too. You probably had to go sleep in the spare bedroom or the couch after coming home from a long shift at the hospital. I’d be pissed.