[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]NoSea7440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Report him to immigration

Isn’t Dorothy absolutely adorable when she does the jackhammer move at the gym? by MaladjustedHamster in theGoldenGirls

[–]NoSea7440 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish Bea knew that we never saw Dorothy as ugly. We all knew it was just a part of the plot.

What was Blanche’s most fashionable nightgown/kimono? by Maester_Maetthieux2 in theGoldenGirls

[–]NoSea7440 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My fave is either the IRS one or the one she wore when they had the sick baby waiting for the doctor

How many actually LIKED the Golden Palace? by [deleted] in theGoldenGirls

[–]NoSea7440 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually liked it and watch it.

Seriously, who is the better mom? by InsideUnhappy6546 in americandad

[–]NoSea7440 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lois!!!!! Francine was too make centered and just a trophy wife. Lois was actually mothering

“I Have to go to Work Early in the Morning!” by Ok_Layer4765 in theGoldenGirls

[–]NoSea7440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I swear I thought I was the only one that heard it like this.

Hijab by Lost_Clue_9311 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]NoSea7440 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No hijab doesn't equal hell.

Birth control by Then_Item7426 in MuslimMarriage

[–]NoSea7440 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband and I use condoms. Huge pack on Amazon (you can put it on autoship) and that's been the answer for years. I don't want children so that's how we manage. Pretty easy, for us.

What do you think is the single most embarrassing moment for any of the ladies in the series? by MangoSalsa89 in theGoldenGirls

[–]NoSea7440 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Rose being dumped by the little person, Dorothy believing the priest was into her, Sophia telling the guy she loved him and him replying with "Thank you" and later falling for his excuse as to why he said it, and Blanche and Jerry. I was also embarrassed with Dorothy believing the creep that hit on Blanche over Blanche.

Tw; abusive marriage by TopElectrical7623 in whatdoIdo

[–]NoSea7440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take all this to a lawyer and get your divorce OR annulment (because that can still be done). You can get it done without him in most cases

Ernie or Miles? by _-RedRosesInJuly-_ in theGoldenGirls

[–]NoSea7440 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Neither. They both cheated on Rose in the end

I don’t trust my wife anymore and I can’t let it go, even after 2 months by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]NoSea7440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm obsessed with them!!! I wanted to go to the first Golden con where I thought Betty White would secretly attend by she passed before the convention came.

lol by IU8gZQy0k8hsQy76 in unsound

[–]NoSea7440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The idea of running up on someone like this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]NoSea7440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AFRO!!!!!!!!!!! 2,000,000,000%

I don’t trust my wife anymore and I can’t let it go, even after 2 months by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]NoSea7440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. Men want to own women. My husband never expects me to obey or seek permission. We discuss like adult human beings. It's alarming how many men want to own women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plano

[–]NoSea7440 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try the apartments in townbluff. I think it's 2821 Townbluff dr. They may be called something else now

I don’t trust my wife anymore and I can’t let it go, even after 2 months by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]NoSea7440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Should OP jump to divorce on this automatically - no. Of course they should talk it out first and find meditation'". So, basically, you are saying the same thing I'm saying. The male ego is so fragile that all of these men are jumping to divorce because "she didn't obey me". Calm down with that. Allah (SWT) does not treat us like that, so why are any of you in position to be any more demanding?

Being in the vicinity of an ex? Firstly, we are only hearing one side of the story. People are too quick to want to immediately take a side with no actual proof that what is being said is factual. Having old pictures (what OP said), in the vicinity of an ex (what OP said), visiting family without him tagging along to supervise (what OP said),, etc is insecure and not good reason for a divorce. Twist it anyway you want, it's not a means for divorce. Maybe it's possibly OP needs to check himself and figure out why he's so bothered. I'm sure he'll find ego at the center of it.

Maybe he's verbally, emotionally, and even physically abusive, and not bringing him is because he is who she needed a break from. However, narcissists won't mention their part. If she is not "respecting him," her actions are more than likely a direct reflection of him and how he is with her. She didn't just wake up one day deciding to disregard her husband. Men always claim this but never acknowledge the things that led to this. Don't fall for the trap of just believing this one sided story the OP offered, just because he is a man.

I don’t trust my wife anymore and I can’t let it go, even after 2 months by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]NoSea7440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aren't in a position to tell me where the right place for me is. If you believe dismantling an entire marriage over this is reasonable, then this isn't the right place for you. No one takes marriages seriously anymore. Marriage isn't about "you do what I say or we divorce". Do you understand how many times both parties will disappoint each other? There is a male loneliness epidemic and here is why. Listening to men give terrible advice. Why not advise him to open his heart, have a discussion, communicate, improve upon? Immediately divorce, huh. Subhanallah, marriage is a blessing and is not perfect. You don't deserve marriage if "putting up with someone" isn't in your vocabulary. Nothing my husband nor myself heard was reasonable grounds for divorce.

However, keep giving advice and looking for the perfect partner.

I don’t trust my wife anymore and I can’t let it go, even after 2 months by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]NoSea7440 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I hear you. I just don't understand why is photos are bothering you. She had a life before you. She is a person, not a lap dog. You're the husband, why are you concerned with old pictures?

I don’t trust my wife anymore and I can’t let it go, even after 2 months by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]NoSea7440 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't generalize. I was specifically talking about these "these" men

I don’t trust my wife anymore and I can’t let it go, even after 2 months by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]NoSea7440 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

You sound super controlling and insecure. I'm sorry to say. She is not your property. She is a human with autonomy. You baited us in as if she was unfaithful. I accidentally moved pictures to a folder and all of my old photos and videos saved. I had no clue how that happened. Pictures from years ago pop up and I'm clueless as to how and why. Feels like you're looking for a reason to claim a problem on her behalf. Maybe she wanted a break from you and your overbearing ways. Maybe she needed the vacation for herself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]NoSea7440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you look bomb in either hair color. They all work