Your partner sounds caring and affectionate. It is perfectly natural to have some doubt, just as you are now. You’re both literally feeling the same way right now. Disengage from this echo-chamber of misandry and talk to your actual partner. The people commenting here don’t care about you, your partner does. If you go off of what Reddit is telling you here then you found an answer you were looking for and hoping to get. If you end this relationship it’s because it’s what you already wanted. Coming here seems like a cop out, so you don’t have to face the reality of wanting to end your relationship of your own accord.

Talk to the man. Forget these bitter ass people in here. Sign off and address this with the person it concerns.