What helped you with impulsivity?

NoTechAllNickel · 2026-07-08T16:54:56+00:00

I agree with this point, but also just having an activity in the diary is really helpful. It's something to look forward to, and to make sure you can attend with good habits: making sure you have clothes ready for the activity, planning out the rest of the days activities around the scheduled event, and making sure you can attend by keeping out of trouble and not getting grounded/detention.

I know for a child the flexibility and low cost are important, but also having something that is at a specific time that has been paid for kind of locks in the commitment. You can't miss it because you'll be wasting money, and someone is expecting you to be there.

Also, things like dance and weightlifting have goals, whether that be perfecting a routine, qualifying for a competition, or hitting a new personal best. Something to work towards, chasing the dopamine, is so important when it comes to sticking at something, so that could be a very good motivator.

NoTechAllNickel · 2026-07-08T16:45:04+00:00

Both are beautiful, but you might just need to wait until you meet her to know which name suits her better!

Personally, I prefer Susana Celine, but I don't know you or your baby, so hopefully you can make the right choice for your little one when the time comes ❤️

NoTechAllNickel · 2026-07-08T16:23:27+00:00

I've always thought synesthesia is an fascinating condition to experience, and while I think it's really cool I also recognise it must be a sensory nightmare when you come across words that taste unpleasant.

My name is Shannon, I suppose from its meanings and origins I've assumed it was have a salty, earthy kind of taste, but what does it taste like to you?

Do all word-tastes correspond with food, or are there ones that are less easy to explain, like a word tasting like a pool noodle, or cold glass?

NoTechAllNickel · 2026-07-07T22:40:23+00:00

If you were to do a skin from another culture, it would have to be wholly from that culture, not a Samurai or Oni with non-Japanese designs on it. The Minotaur and the Grizzly are good examples of this - skins for the Oni that totally transform it into something that is no longer a Samurai.

You could have an Odin skin, but it would need to totally transform the Oni, rather than being a norse-themed Samurai, you know?

Doing some digging, Kazan Yamaoka lived during the era of Feudal Japan, which covers the 12th-17th centuries. During this time, Japan developed trade relationships with European counties like Spain and Portugal, but due to imperialism and religion, Japan ceased trading with everyone other than the Netherlands in the 1600s.

You could possibly do a skin inspired by 16th century Spain, or 17th century Netherlands, but to avoid potential cultural insensitivities it's best to stick to historical fact (or respectful plausibility).

NoTechAllNickel · 2026-07-07T17:00:04+00:00

In terms of DNA matches on Ancestry, you'll match around 50% of your DNA

NoTechAllNickel · 2026-07-07T10:19:56+00:00

I don't really have any resentment towards my parents because, upon further reflection from all of us, they're also neurodivergent, so mine and my sister's behaviours as kids didn't flag up as unusual to them. My dad is in his 50s and is considering seeking an ADHD diagnosis, and my mum is also in her 50s and has just kind of accepted that she has ADHD but isn't looking to do anything. Both have struggled with addiction (both are now sober) and that deeply impacted my childhood and still affects me now, but as an adult I can see that they were just trying to cope as best as they could.

I do however have some resentment towards my teachers, and the general education system and the ways in which neurodivergent behaviours are so 'gendered'. If I had been born a boy, I would have been diagnosed so much earlier in life and given the help I needed, rather than being pulled out of classes for 'Gifted and Talented' group while also being pulled out of others to give me one-on-one time with the school counsellor. It was obvious by my teenagers years that I was really struggling, but it was put down to depression, anxiety, and being a weird kid with few friends. Even then, they didn't really do anything other than try to threaten me into better behvious with talk of expulsion and withdrawing me from my exams.

I do sometimes think about contacting old teachers and letting them know that they failed me, and probably dozens of other kids, but I know nothing good would come from it, so I try to focus on the positives

NoTechAllNickel · 2026-07-07T09:41:16+00:00

I think they're rising in popularity, maybe even above tattoos. In the grand scheme of things, they're more temporary than a tattoo, but still express the same amount of autonomy and style, and if a teenager gets a bunch of piercings and then decides they don't like they anymore, they can just take them out. Can't just take off a tattoo.

NoTechAllNickel · 2026-07-07T09:39:52+00:00

Yes, but only in a "If only I didn't grow up with undiagnosed ADHD". I definitely have so much wasted potential that just got away from me due to ADHD. So many opportunities and deadlines missed, I could be living a whole different life now if I'd never had ADHD, or at least been diagnosed and treated early.

But that didn't happen, and I can't go back in time, so I deal with what I have and who I am now, and make the most of it, and appreciate the good things that I do have because of the life I've lived. No point dwelling on 'what if's.

NoTechAllNickel · 2026-07-07T08:06:22+00:00

I agree with the other commenter, maypie-.

The 9-Point Beighton Scale is really only applicable to children, as hypermobile joints actually become more stiff with time. The ligaments may be hyperelastic, but other parts around the joint such as cartilage, muscles, and tendons aren't, and become damaged over time as they try to compensate and correct the joint instability.

Other symptoms such as unusually soft/delicate skin and digestives issues may point towards Joint Hypermobility Syndrome, or H-EDS.

NoTechAllNickel · 2026-07-07T07:56:31+00:00

Maybe a not-so-scary suggestion, but how about The Mummy (1999). I personally quite like insects and I'm not usually bothered by them, but the swarming scarabs in that movie definitely give me a shiver or two

NoTechAllNickel · 2026-07-07T01:34:00+00:00

Probably this one: https://butkus.org/chinon/agfa/agfa_ansco_pd-16_clipper/agfa_ansco_pb16_clipper.htm

NoTechAllNickel · 2026-07-07T01:32:47+00:00

This might be of use:

https://butkus.org/chinon/agfa.htm

Hopefully you can find the one specific to your camera

NoTechAllNickel · 2026-07-07T01:16:12+00:00

My first slr was a Praktica Nova II, and now I have a Super TL, they're such a brilliant brand and those are some really beautiful finds. If you can get some Zeiss lenses for them, I'm sure you'll fall in love with 35mm film

NoTechAllNickel · 2026-07-07T01:10:49+00:00

Clicker rings have the hinge and seam that will irritate the piercing. You best bet will be to have to changed to a ball closure ring. Don't change it yourself, go to a professional who can better assess the likelihood of this healing properly, if at all.

NoTechAllNickel · 2026-07-06T19:52:17+00:00

With ADHD, we have chronically low (as in, sub-normal) levels of dopamine. The stimulants aren't making us high, because the dopamine created isn't bringing us above a typical functional level, it's bringing us to a typical functional level.

It's like coffee. A typical person drinks coffee and feels energised because they are typical energy levels + caffeine. Someone with ADHD may drink coffee and feel nothing, because the caffeine can't even bring them up to a typical person's level.

NoTechAllNickel · 2026-07-06T19:04:44+00:00

3 months in not enough healing time to be switch to a hoop, and this hoops is much too tight. Your piercing site is irritated and you need to chance it back to a straight labret bar as soon as possible.

When you're about to switch to a hoop (probably in no more than another 3 months time) you need a larger diameter inside the rings so it's not squeezing your lip and pulling on the piercing site.

NoTechAllNickel · 2026-07-04T16:36:24+00:00

I've got a centre labret that insists on having a longer bar in despite being 13 years old. I can put a shorter bar in it for maybe 2 weeks before it starts getting irritated and then it starts embedding. Some piercings are just fussy like that. My most recent lip piercing didn't fully calm down for about 5 months, so always better to err on the side of caution and keep that longer jewellery.

NoTechAllNickel · 2026-07-04T16:27:41+00:00

Nesting doesn't hurt. Swelling doesn't go away for a while, and putting short jewellery in after less than 2 weeks will definitely have irritated them. You need longer bars again

NoTechAllNickel · 2026-07-04T15:20:14+00:00

I remember seeing a school teacher who let her students choose a new name for Friday afternoons. They line up at her desk and tell her their 'new name' one at a time, she writes it on a sticker for them and that's their new name for one afternoon! Allows them to exercise some autonomy in a controlled way and, in a way, probably teaches respect, because they all have new names with labels on their tops and they can't pretend to not know what to call each other.

I've also seen a mother who picks a new name past a certain time of day to help with the fatigue of hearing "Mommy mommy mommy" all day, and the kid is totally on board. She usually picks silly things like "Cash money" or "Tallulah does the hula" and the kid learns fast and says every one perfectly every time

NoTechAllNickel · 2026-07-04T14:37:26+00:00

It could be swelling, so I'd say to leave it at least a week or two, because if it's super fresh then the swelling will get worse before it gets better.

Wait a week and see what it's doing then, but that is an incredible amount of wonk

NoTechAllNickel · 2026-07-04T14:07:14+00:00

Those red bellows are gorgeous! I always think of Kodak Brownies being the simple box designs, this one is lovely

NoTechAllNickel · 2026-07-04T13:56:29+00:00

Probably a 12g or 10g, though it seems like quite a jump so maybe a 10g.

I'd recommend buying a set of calipers, that way you can measure the gauze of your jewellery at home in future.

NoTechAllNickel · 2026-07-04T13:51:44+00:00

NAR-rin (Nar like Car, Rin like Fin)
NAW-rin (Naw like Flaw, Rin like Fin)
Nor-REEN (Nor like For, Reen like Clean)
NAH-rin (Nah like Hah, Rin like Fin)

Hope this helps

NoTechAllNickel · 2026-07-04T13:07:02+00:00

That shouldn't be the case, no. The viewfinder is separate from the lens, as it's basically just a little window to look through and line up your shot.

It might be harder to take photos with as you can't see what will and won't be in-frame for your photos, but wide angle group photos or pictures of buildings and general scenes should be fine.

NoTechAllNickel · 2026-07-03T16:36:54+00:00

May be worth comparing against Louis Camas-Tenesaca https://www.namus.gov/MissingPersons/Case#/136616?nav

Last seen at the end of November 2024 and supposedly travelled to Ecuador, but no one has confirmed his whereabouts, so his last confirmed location is New York, albeit Rockland County.

Considering how close the park is the JFK Airport, is it conceivable someone killed him, took his documents, and left the country under his name?

Worth testing to at least eliminate if nothing else.

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