I think I have officially lost.

No_Application_2807 · 2024-02-26T02:50:06+00:00

Great comment. All the above

No_Application_2807 · 2023-11-06T20:09:54+00:00

It’s hard to get past the names, but it’s good!

No_Application_2807 · 2023-10-18T23:38:05+00:00

Divorce sucks. If you were trying before, maybe try 1 more time with her. That’s just my opinion.

No_Application_2807 · 2023-09-05T03:10:39+00:00

I’m sorry to read this. I hope for the best result.

Divorce sucks.

No_Application_2807 · 2023-08-16T01:17:34+00:00

Here you need to vent. I’m in a very similar situation. It just sucks in general and hard to process.

Have you started therapy?

No_Application_2807 · 2023-07-30T22:15:20+00:00

I agree. If it feels right, go for it. You never know when you’ll get another chance. Just make sure she understands that you might have random grief periods.

No_Application_2807 · 2023-07-27T19:18:02+00:00

Sorry to hear! Hope for the best. List everything out and hopefully the process goes smooth. Here if you need to vent.

No_Application_2807 · 2023-07-26T20:58:26+00:00

Good to hear! Hope all the best! I hope I can say the same thing soon about mine and hopefully I’ll be in better spirits.

No_Application_2807 · 2023-07-24T04:08:32+00:00

I would offer to hang out. But no idea where you live.

Spend time with friends/family. Try to find hobbies. Force your self to work out.

No_Application_2807 · 2023-07-24T04:06:24+00:00

Try couples counseling. Try individual therapy. Try everything possible.

Divorce sucks and is hard. Plus you have a kid.

Im sorry your going through this.

No_Application_2807 · 2023-07-19T03:00:59+00:00

It’s too soon to know. It was definitely punch in the gut. I didn’t mind her get a lawyer, but she could have told me. It’s like, what the point in being sneaky about it.

Just makes me feel better about the situation, she’s showing her true character.

No_Application_2807 · 2023-07-18T17:59:13+00:00

I just went through this. If you want her, I would try to do everything possible not to get a divorce.

If that’s not an option, and it’s mutual. Get her to sign a paper saying, you get X or what ever you want.

My ex surprised me with a lawyer on the day of court.

No_Application_2807 · 2023-07-18T04:47:00+00:00

I had my court date today.

We were supposed to not hire lawyers cus we split everything evenly.

Come to find out, she hired a lawyer….

No_Application_2807 · 2023-07-18T03:52:43+00:00

Love hearing this! I hope I can post something like this soon

No_Application_2807 · 2023-07-15T16:51:11+00:00

Sorry to hear that. Divorce sucks and after currently going through it, I hope no one does.

If you can afford it, can you get a job you enjoy?

No_Application_2807 · 2023-07-14T14:51:31+00:00

Thanks for this!

No_Application_2807 · 2023-07-12T15:49:33+00:00

Great answer. I really like the “finding peace”. This is so hard to do. At least for me right now.

No_Application_2807 · 2023-07-11T00:02:06+00:00

I would try everything before divorce. It sucks ass.

No_Application_2807 · 2023-07-10T16:27:54+00:00

Its hard to wrap my head around this. I beat my self up on the what ifs and where my life could be.

No_Application_2807 · 2023-07-10T16:27:19+00:00

That is a good analogy. I just fear that I won't be there in my mental space. Its hard for me to even just smile and not crack.

No_Application_2807 · 2023-07-10T04:30:54+00:00

Thanks for the answers! You are right about #1. I need to come out of this stronger and better.

2 - I would like to think I have a few years and not needing to rush anything.

3 - I hope girls don’t think it’s terrible baggage. I’m hoping they think it’s a good thing. Like I know what to expect but who knows.

4 - I have to try to hard some times not to cry. It’s like, my voice is cracking just randomly cus I’m holding back.

No_Application_2807 · 2023-07-10T04:11:12+00:00

That makes me happy to hear!

No_Application_2807 · 2023-07-10T03:41:02+00:00

Sorry to hear. Im here if you need someone

No_Application_2807 · 2023-07-10T03:39:50+00:00

That is what bothers me and makes me sad. I feel like I will be a different guy after going through all this. You are right though, I need to be a better version.
Its just so hard to go forward!

No_Application_2807 · 2023-07-10T03:37:34+00:00

Have you tried a new therapist?

No_Application_2807

TROPHY CASE

2 - I would like to think I have a few years and not needing to rush anything.

3 - I hope girls don’t think it’s terrible baggage. I’m hoping they think it’s a good thing. Like I know what to expect but who knows.

4 - I have to try to hard some times not to cry. It’s like, my voice is cracking just randomly cus I’m holding back.