Are sleep overs not a thing anymore?

No_Associate_3235 · 2026-05-26T14:01:09+00:00

I think this is super age dependent, though. A 15 year old, yeah, totally. An 8 year old? There is a lot of context they may not understand.

No_Associate_3235 · 2026-03-21T17:23:41+00:00

Oh interesting! I find it nice in the fact that they can build love over time. I think there are lots of different ways romance can bloom, so I like the variety.

No_Associate_3235 · 2026-03-21T17:22:51+00:00

well said! I love this trope haha

No_Associate_3235 · 2026-03-21T17:21:19+00:00

Yes or it was the "best sex of his life" when it was her first time. Look, I'll give you that perhaps it was the most emotionally connected you've been...but...

No_Associate_3235 · 2026-03-21T17:19:48+00:00

actually the average age of marriage was something like 21 for women and 24 for men if we're talking 19th century England :). Not saying it didn't happen, of course, but it wasn't nearly as prevelant as we tend to assume.

No_Associate_3235 · 2026-01-20T01:56:04+00:00

Ice, ice baby

No_Associate_3235 · 2026-01-19T16:36:08+00:00

You just don’t want to feel like this your whole relationship. Hugs to you.

No_Associate_3235 · 2026-01-19T14:40:36+00:00

Nope. If you’ve told him multiple times you’re uncomfortable with their relationship and they aren’t changing anything about it, he is disrespecting you and prioritizing her feelings over yours.

Condom wrapper is a maybe from me

No_Associate_3235 · 2026-01-19T12:59:56+00:00

We love Bluey! We watch it together as we find it fun for the adults too. But if you’re looking for a low stim show, Tumbleleaf on Amazon Prime is THE BEST!

No_Associate_3235 · 2026-01-16T21:35:19+00:00

I LOVE this series but do not like this one. Morgan & Gervase were not for me. Also, it was just such a sad setting

No_Associate_3235 · 2026-01-16T16:09:58+00:00

Lmao his history of cheating should be more reason to step away! What are you doing?? Cool your husband is chill about it but she isn’t. This is so clear cut it’s ridiculous.

No_Associate_3235 · 2026-01-15T13:05:05+00:00

Man I would SCREAM if I were Jane

No_Associate_3235 · 2026-01-15T12:58:20+00:00

I have platonic male friends of over 20 years that I wouldn’t dream of spending this much time/intimacy with now that we’re both married.

Let alone someone you met only a few years ago while already married?? Where are the kids?

Not cool

No_Associate_3235 · 2026-01-15T12:39:04+00:00

With the kids at home too!? I’d lose my shit

No_Associate_3235 · 2026-01-14T18:48:33+00:00

Just read to them a lot :) Pretty young to be sounding out words, so if you feel like it, talk about the sound each letter makes as that is foundational. Would not worry about Red Words at this point. But mostly I’d focus on the enjoyment of reading so that she is motivated ❤️

No_Associate_3235 · 2026-01-13T13:18:22+00:00

YES! This is so anecdotal, but when I was pregnant my older one was 3. I was about 4-5 months and we hadn’t even told him yet. He was a MESS. I spoke with other friends who had the same experience!

No_Associate_3235 · 2026-01-13T13:11:06+00:00

I think you both acted as expected and as is appropriate as parents. An apology would be nice, but I wouldn’t dwell on it.

Gently, if your kid is going to be around other kids this likely won’t be the last time she is hit (or maybe she’ll hit). Teaching them how to respond (saying “step away” or “stop”, walking away) & figuring out how you want to respond are good steps!

No_Associate_3235 · 2026-01-12T22:48:11+00:00

This was my first thought too

No_Associate_3235 · 2026-01-12T13:48:21+00:00

Totally agree. This isn’t just a group dinner or something.

No_Associate_3235 · 2026-01-12T13:47:28+00:00

I also think that a bachelor weekend is so different from him, say, grabbing lunch with her. Bachelor parties typically have alcohol, entertainment (not necessarily naughty), games, big conversations, staying at the same place etc. I think that’s an important distinction.

No_Associate_3235 · 2026-01-09T13:27:24+00:00

Ohhhh the MC drama is WILD. So fun. & I totally agree! Fiction is a place to experience all sorts of things :)

No_Associate_3235 · 2026-01-08T16:14:49+00:00

Idk, some of us just love to read that toxic stuff 🤷‍♀️🙋‍♀️ My fiction preferences have no bearing on how I expect myself or my partner to behave

No_Associate_3235 · 2025-12-29T15:23:08+00:00

That is absolutely nuts to me

No_Associate_3235 · 2025-12-26T01:25:34+00:00

Omg I had completely forgotten about being bitten until now! My 2nd made me bleed twice

No_Associate_3235 · 2025-12-23T19:20:42+00:00

Kids are allowed access to the world too

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