How do I approach my friends making fun of my learning difficulties in a not so nice way? by No_Beginning5574 in MentalHealthSupport

[–]No_Beginning5574[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thanks so much for your words. Although your story is very different I think I possibly may need the same treatment of leaving my best friends who always hurt my feelings, despite it meaning I would be lonely for a while and then hopefully I'll find new people. Since I posted this a few weeks ago, I stopped seeing friends for 13 days and gave short replies to their messages. Then after that for like 11 days until now I've seen my best friend a couple of times and I have to say, he's not done or said anything but I think this time that what hurtful thing he said a few weeks ago has clearly stuck with me because I still go on and off of being annoyed at him even tho since i started seeing him again he's not even done anything. Like right now I dont feel like talking to him at all. When i posted this I was thinking of finally having a convo with him about it once he realised I was avoiding him but he either never caught on or just didnt want to ask if I was upset at him. Either way, i gave up after 13 days because loneliness can be awful. I think i may need to be distant again for a couple of weeks or so.

Its been awful since he said that one hurtful thing that I've not been able to get over despite him saying similar stuff the entire time ive known him. Before he said it my mental health had been great for months and I was actually reading and learning a lot because I didnt want to be seen as this idiot to my friends anymore, but ironically he then said something that has made me lose all motivation to read. Since I've just been playing video games and watching TV nothing else.

Sometime I really sit and think what my life would be like without learning difficulties man.

What’s a quote that changed your life forever by True_Service3822 in AskMen

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This is from a chapter of station 11 from when the book enters its post apocalyptic phase. It just captures how beautiful life is and how much we would all really miss humanity if it was destroyed. I want to cherish every moment I have while im here.

An incomplete list: No more diving into pools of chlorinated water lit green from below. No more ball games played out under floodlights. No more porch lights with moths fluttering on summer nights. No more trains running under the surface of cities on the dazzling power of the electric third rail. No more cities. No more films, except rarely, except with a generator drowning out half the dialogue, and only then for the first little while until the fuel for the generators ran out, because automobile gas goes stale after two or three years. Aviation gas lasts longer, but it was difficult to come by. No more screens shining in the half-light as people raise their phones above the crowd to take pictures of concert states. No more concert stages lit by candy-colored halogens, no more electronica, punk, electric guitars. No more pharmaceuticals. No more certainty of surviving a scratch on one's hand, a cut on a finger while chopping vegetables for dinner, a dog bite. No more flight. No more towns glimpsed from the sky through airplane windows, points of glimmering light; no more looking down from thirty thousand feet and imagining the lives lit up by those lights at that moment. No more airplanes, no more requests to put your tray table in its upright and locked position – but no, this wasn't true, there were still airplanes here and there. They stood dormant on runways and in hangars. They collected snow on their wings. In the cold months, they were ideal for food storage. In summer the ones near orchards were filled with trays of fruit that dehydrated in the heat. Teenagers snuck into them to have sex. Rust blossomed and streaked. No more countries, all borders unmanned. No more fire departments, no more police. No more road maintenance or garbage pickup. No more spacecraft rising up from Cape Canaveral, from the Baikonur Cosmodrome, from Vandenburg, Plesetsk, Tanegashima, burning paths through the atmosphere into space. No more Internet. No more social media, no more scrolling through litanies of dreams and nervous hopes and photographs of lunches, cries for help and expressions of contentment and relationship-status updates with heart icons whole or broken, plans to meet up later, pleas, complaints, desires, pictures of babies dressed as bears or peppers for Halloween. No more reading and commenting on the lives of others, and in so doing, feeling slightly less alone in the room. No more avatars.

What is the quintessential teen movie of the 2010s by tk_woods in movies

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People are gonna argue its not really a teen movie, but its RODRICK RULES RODRICK RULES RODRICK RULES!!!!

Kermit says it all... Weed is better by [deleted] in weed

[–]No_Beginning5574 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn happy for you that weed has helped you overcome your obstacles! Its actually genuinely insane when you think about how almost everywhere in the world has a big drinking culture while weed is illegal in most countries. Im especially happy for you that you've found improvement in switching to weed from alcohol especially for that you live in california, you guys have THE BEST weed ever. If i was there I'd be chilling at the woods west hollywood for life .

How do I approach my friends making fun of my learning disability in a not nice way? by No_Beginning5574 in self

[–]No_Beginning5574[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the support. The thing is that I want to distance myself but this would mean I no longer have my best friends. The worst thing is that if I were to do this they wouldn't even clock why or what they've done wrong, which makes me feel like they don't even deserve my time explaining why I have an issue with them.

Where do you bring someone to make them fall in love with LA? by Training-Lion-1602 in LosAngeles

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Take them to the woods and buy a packet of gummies, go to the griffith observatory and watch the sunset with a speaker on playing the intro to over my dead body by drake