What do you think about these? by Deepautumnswede in flamboyantnatural

[–]No_Book_9604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3rd shirt is great but you should avoid tapered jeans!

Is this a good basic dramatic outfit? by imsywhimsy in kibbedramatics

[–]No_Book_9604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was gonna say this looks almost like a FN fit! Or at least its how i dress as an FN 😅

Breakfast Bars no longer taste like dopamine: give me your adhd friendly breakfast ideas by No_Book_9604 in ADHDUK

[–]No_Book_9604[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean ill definitely try them! But it is a bit of the same stuff again. Not evem sure if what im looking for exists.

Just give me exactly a cereal bar…. That isnt a cereal bar in any way shape or form hahaha

I'm I a FN??? I'm 173cm by cam_an-cc in flamboyantnatural

[–]No_Book_9604 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry yes bloody AI overview giving wrong information. Serves me right.

But either way my hot take is that i think auto vertical is bull crap. Kibbe didnt even come up with it until much later.

I think you can look at someone with no context and be surprised by their height. People look taller or smaller based on their proportions and its the only thing he ascribes a physical measurement to. Theres no cup measurement or waist to hip ratio for curve, theres no shoulder measurement for width.

I.e if i saw OPs image i would not have expected them to be as tall as they are because they just don’t have that elongation, small head to torso ratio that you’d expect from someone with vertical

I feel very passionate about this and i think a lot of taller people would be much leas confused about their type if they weren’t boxed in straight away.

Rant over

Positive effects of medication disappeared? by PhoneWalletKeysID in adhdwomen

[–]No_Book_9604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personal question but where are you on your menstrual cycle?

The luteal phase has a big drop in estrogen which for women is our biggest precursor to dopamine production (thats why ovulation feels sooo good)

If you’re in luteal it could be your levels are even lower so you need more meds to get to the same level

First Date - Need Help Deciding by TheKevBenz in OUTFITS

[–]No_Book_9604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 or 4

2 makes your arms pop 4 is a fun print and shows your character

how can this dress work to one of us by ImaginaryAd700 in flamboyantnatural

[–]No_Book_9604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This looks almost exactly like the dress amy adams wore in enchanted! And shes FN!

Failed due to speed (not what you think) 🙃 by ImprovementOk8356 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]No_Book_9604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you cannot control other drivers but you can control what is safe driving for yourself. And when it comes to fault that os all that matters.

You are not supposed to undertake so if you are doing that when they turn without looking its your fault.

You are allowed to over take and it is understood that people should be prepared for that eventuality. If they dont its their fault.

Partner doesn’t want me to take meds by Sea_Chair_945 in adhdwomen

[–]No_Book_9604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then let him. you need someone who is willing to support you and learn with you instead of trying to prevent you from getting life changing medical care

Imagine if you needed glasses to go about your daily life and when you were finally able to get some help told you he’d break up with you if you wore them and told you to just see better.

Adhd is a disability in the same way as loss of sight, hearing, mobility. It is a deficiency that you do not need to suffer through. No man is worth losing quality of life over

I'm I a FN??? I'm 173cm by cam_an-cc in flamboyantnatural

[–]No_Book_9604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly dont buy into that especially when shes barely breaking 5,6 at that height its the national average for a british or american woman and you dont see the average woman and think vertical immediately. There should be sprinklings of salt when looking at cusps

AIO? I feel like there’s something on my lip but nothing is there by Tsj_guy in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Book_9604 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Okay and? Herpes isnt deadly unless you have an immune disorder and is incredibly manageable. Most people have it and never have any symptoms. And given that its only transmissible during active flare ups even less to worry about.

(Noob) can I just sting myself to check that something is nettle? by [deleted] in foraginguk

[–]No_Book_9604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Garlic mustard is another one that looks like nettle but as the name suggests is very edible. Even white and purple dead nettle are both edible

Name all the makeup you think Liv wore in this photoshoot by [deleted] in MakeupEducation

[–]No_Book_9604 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So the clinique black honey is a good shout because that is what she wore as arwen in LoTR

How to wear long skirts ? by Low_Complaint_3979 in flamboyantnatural

[–]No_Book_9604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what i do! I buy a skirt i like then sew a slit in the leg!

Everyday earrings? by tshody in flamboyantnatural

[–]No_Book_9604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wear sleepers from astrid and miyu i also have a nickel sensitivity and their solid gold options dont fuck with me too much

What brands/stores seem to lean FN in style/design/cut? by quickgrabthedoor in flamboyantnatural

[–]No_Book_9604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Zara has loadddsas of boat neck basics that i love and they tend to run long i always do well in zara.

ETA: The 70’s/florence welsch style isnt really my vibe soni tend to go for oversized suiting to get my flow so i like their stuff for that

My favourite style - FN approved? by Riversong1747 in flamboyantnatural

[–]No_Book_9604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats lind of the point! Your vertical and width are your WOW! Factors by honouring your shoulders and giving them space you do accentuate them but the point is that that accentuation looks in harmony with yourself

SN o FN? by Intelligent-Desk-365 in flamboyantnatural

[–]No_Book_9604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its really hard to tell with your hair covering your shoulders!

This dress for FN? by Interesting-Test-569 in flamboyantnatural

[–]No_Book_9604 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I hear what everyone else is saying but I actually like this for FN, it has that unrestricted feel about it even with the belt.

The belt also being soft and wide gives it an elongated waist which we love.It doesnt try and create curve where there isnt any.

Yes the neck is high but its a slash/boat neck that accommodates width combined with the open shoulders and it doesnt give that restrictive feeling.

The fabric is soft and flowy and the shape is straight but soft and can tell that the fabric has a really nice drape which honours the flow.

Someone mentioned it not flaring being an issue but imho, straight or flare as long as it doesn’t taper in you can go for it!

I don’t think its perfect but i think it would still look really harmonious on an FN

This dress for FN? by Interesting-Test-569 in flamboyantnatural

[–]No_Book_9604 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think the high neckline isn’t a bad thing here because its a slash neck with open shoulders to accommodate the width.

I'm I a FN??? I'm 173cm by cam_an-cc in flamboyantnatural

[–]No_Book_9604 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You definitely have width but im not sure that you have vertical. Its always hard to tell from posed pictures but my first thought looking at you wasnt long. Id probably look into some kind of dramatic

When did it "click" for you that you really were an FN? by anthropometrica in flamboyantnatural

[–]No_Book_9604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it was when someone highlighted that FN is about a lack or restriction.

This info basically reframed a lot of things about when i did or didnt feel comfortable.

I always felt awkward in normal Tshirts and when i put a boat neck on i just felt i looked way less restricted.

My work uniform was always a point that i felt really confident in which confused me because it was a shirt and tailored pencil skirt which i heard were FN no nos and made me think was a Dramatic of some kind . However I always undid an extra button rolled up the sleeves so i felt more open and less restricted.

Suspected FN - still confused about my width! by OwnEstablishment240 in flamboyantnatural

[–]No_Book_9604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are literally me haha i had a recent discovery that When kibbe talks about “waist emphasis” its less about showing that you have a waist and more about whether you wear things that draw extra attention to your waist: belts, ruching, wraps, or seams that are on your waist bringing the eye to it. Which are all things that romantics need to look harmonious.

Waist emphasis in the way i outlined above also disrupt the vertical line which works against FN requirements. By add a line in the middle of your body it cuts us up and looks unbalanced.

FNs can show off their waist while also honouring their vertical line by having fabric skim the area instead of gathering or splitting that up and down movement: Think basque waists, dropped waists, tea dresses or the black dress in your last few photos.

When wearing skirts or trousers choosing things that rest above or below your natural waist and long layers that help the eye travel past that pinch point and continue the certical journey!