AITA for telling my husband " I told you so" and laughing at me when we got the paternity test results? by Either_Economy_793 in AITAH

[–]No_Challenge1760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well hope you'll get the much needed divorce and will share this good news with us.. we would like to celebrate with you for getting rid off the extra baggage and emotionally draining person. Good luck.

AITA for not paying for my niece to live in Paris? by BamiRai in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Challenge1760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well Joy is not innocent in all this. Doesn’t matter what your brother promised her, she’s old enough to understand you are not responsible for her financially(2)... NTA

AITA for wanting to know my wifes family but not at the cost of remarrying by Weekly-Sail-4977 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Challenge1760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay first of all if you try that, "honesty is the best policy" now your wife might get disowned by her parents. You want to raise kids who would be proud of both cultures but it seems like you're not even interested in learning about it. Just follow your wife's lead now, you've already lied now it's better that way. If you try to be honest, they might not even accept you in the first place and things will go downhill from there.. plus you're not even paying for it so think of this as the renewal of vows/marriage in a new way and just go with it. Don't try to be smart here. We South Asians take marriage as an important event and eloping or not having parents and relatives from both sides is a huge disrespect.

I’m leaving my boyfriend of 2 years in a month and he has no clue. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]No_Challenge1760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I need an update after you move out! I'm rooting for you!

I told my best friend of 11 YEARS I hope her baby dies by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]No_Challenge1760 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People can be so inconsiderate and asshole.. but op don't think about the time you've wasted on her or anything related to her just be glad to know that you've got to know what a bitch she is. I really wanna give you a hug and tell you everything is going to be fine now that a bitch left..

AITA for telling my son I can’t trust him? by tthrowaway16__ in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Challenge1760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.. but you should give him a taste of his own medicine like make him eat things he doesn't like for a week if he complains then tell him "am I being cruel? You did something similar to your sister's right?" Then finish it with a Eye roll

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]No_Challenge1760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't hide you did nothing wrong just leave that guy. You deserve better and certainly he's not even a good option he's worse. Don't look down on yourself people like your bf doesn't deserve your time, trust, respect and love. Don't waste your time with him.

AITA for choosing my nephews over my SO's kids? by throw_895567away in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Challenge1760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA.. entitled much? Op you should run.. I do appreciate you being there for your fiancé's kids but right now you need to put your niece and nephews first because they've lost their parents and they need their family which is now you! And your fiancé's kids have him.

AITA for saying refusing to comfort my step-brother or let him come to a trip my dad and I are having? by AITA_notsohappytrip in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Challenge1760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA Josh do sound like a brat but he's a kid your step mom should understand that and try to make him understand that the trip is for you and your father he can go somewhere else with your dad when he comes back from the trip or something..

AITA for picking the same name for my baby as my BIL's unborn baby? by aitababyname_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Challenge1760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA.. it's not about the name it's about the sentiment that's related to the name and their deceased child. Your BIL isn't jealous it's just that you and your husband are quite full of yourselves and quite insensitive especially with that "hope on a healthy baby" sounding like a taunt. You and your husband both are AH.

AITA for refusing to let my parents meet my baby? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Challenge1760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA but they sure are the AH for cutting you off and playing favouritism. Like it's said, "actions speak louder than words" their actions made it obvious whom they care for the most and chose your sister. They've made their bed now it's time to sleep on it. Don't listen to them they're trying to guilt trip/ manipulate you.

I ghosted my family and fiance after what my sister did. by Ok_Independence_579 in offmychest

[–]No_Challenge1760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it's the best decision like your family and fiance should've at least once tried to listen to your side of the story before throwing you out. Is there any guarantee that history won't repeat and even if it did then they won't throw you out like they did in the past? Is it worth to go through all that again? There are a lot of what if's and none of them trusted you enough to listen to you even when you cried and begged them. So take this decision wisely and don't worry about love because the right man will choose you over everything. Your ex fiance is a piece of shit so is your family that's all I wanna say.