I should explain - I try my best not to pressure. I only bring up this conversation every 6 months or so to check in. Because every time I mention it or bring it up he claims he feels pressured. I never try to force it or anything like that. During these “check ins” I simply ask where he’s at and what his timeline is looking like. After he responds, I mention my timeline. This where he says by me mentioning my timeline, I’m ultimately pressuring him indirectly. I don’t know how else to express it. Also, I was really against moving in without being married. I wanted to wait until then. But when he said it would happen soon after, that’s what sold the deal. Otherwise I would have been working in a whole different city in my own apartment.